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whitney ♥ ainsley 1 child; New Hampshire 16454 posts
Apr 18th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:</b>" Have you called her? The grandma? "</blockquote>




I haven't. I try not to talk to her if at all possible. I'm going to call her now though and see why she was hit

Angel [Mariah's Mommy] 1 child; Indianapolis, Indiana 18065 posts
Apr 18th '13
Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:" I'd probably have her old ass bent over a chair whipping her with a rod right this very minute. Somebody'd have to pick me up from jail. "


Uh yeah.. And while I was there I'd be making a police report against her.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
Apr 18th '13
Quoting Dovahkiin:" This is up to you. I don't know the severity of the bruises, but if you feel she actually abused your child then you should call the police and file a report. "


Just be aware accusing someone of child abuse is serious. Remember her Nana probably comes from a time where telling a kid to grab a switch off a bush and bend over was common. PERSONALLY, I would confront her about it, especially if it hasn't happened before.

Brookie99 1 child; Fort McMurray, Alberta 1126 posts
Apr 18th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" Care.com. Seriously, you're putting her at risk of it happening again if you continue to bring her over ... [snip!] ... to another adult, and said person calls CPS, YOU will be charged with child endangerment. Make sure it doesn't happen again."</blockquote>




This! If someone else sees the bruises or suspects the abuse you will be the one under investigation by CPS not her nana and during a physical abuse case the child will be removed from your care.

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
Apr 18th '13
Quoting whitney ♥ ainsley:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:</b>" Have you called her? The grandma? "</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... I haven't. I try not to talk to her if at all possible. I'm going to call her now though and see why she was hit"


Okay, well you should maybe have communication with the person watching your child. Hello. I get that she's probably a crazy b***h, but if she's THE ONLY person you have to watch your kid, you need to get over it and get communicating. Sheesh.

Sneakmom 2 kids; Texas 4861 posts
Apr 18th '13

Find a high schooler or something to watch her till you can make more permanent arrangements. File for child care assistance so you can report it to the police and she'll have somewhere to stay while you work because her dad isn't going to be able to keep her if he lives with her grandma.

Bob Wehadababyitsaboy 4 kids; 4 angel babies; California 30200 posts
Apr 18th '13
Quoting Dovahkiin:" Just be aware accusing someone of chi:!::!:ld abuse is serious. Remember her Nana probably comes from a time ... [snip!] ... off a bush and bend over was common. PERSONALLY, I would confront her about it, especially if it hasn't happened before. "

:!::!:
I would call her and find out what happened and let her know that she is never to touch your child like that again otherwise you will be contacting the police.

whitney ♥ ainsley 1 child; New Hampshire 16454 posts
Apr 18th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:</b>" Okay, well you should maybe have communication with the person watching your child. Hello. I get that ... [snip!] ... a crazy b***h, but if she's THE ONLY person you have to watch your kid, you need to get over it and get communicating. Sheesh. "</blockquote>




I talk to her when I have to, but I don't go out of my way to talk to her. She's trying to get my ex to take my kid from me because I have a mental illness. It makes it hard when she sits there telling me shit didn't happen its just me being crazy

Ellie Goulding Due March 1; 1 child; London, --, United Kingdom 6180 posts
Apr 18th '13

Just echoing everyone else. Take pictures, call the police. Don't let her be unsupervised near 'Nana' again.



WTF did your daughter do that she 'deserved' to be beaten? That's what I want to know.
If it were my kid, I would move heaven and earth to ensure it didn't happen again. IDK if it means working another job to pay for a proper daycare or babysitter.

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
Apr 18th '13
Quoting whitney ♥ ainsley:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:</b>" Okay, well you should maybe have ... [snip!] ... me because I have a mental illness. It makes it hard when she sits there telling me shit didn't happen its just me being crazy"


Okay, well then you need to arrange something else for your kid. You don't have a lot of options here. REPORT it. Before it gets too much later. Like has been said, if you don't, you could very well find yourself being the one accused of abuse-maybe even by crazy nana. I'd nip this shit in the bud right now. Talk to your job. Change your hours. Get a new job. Whatever.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
Apr 18th '13
Quoting whitney ♥ ainsley:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:</b>" Okay, well you should maybe have ... [snip!] ... me because I have a mental illness. It makes it hard when she sits there telling me shit didn't happen its just me being crazy"


Sounds like a cluster of f**ks.

Jays*Mama 2 kids; Michigan 5689 posts
Apr 18th '13

If u did that to her and cps knew They would immediately take your child away. Its abuse plain and simple. You can get in trouble for letting it go on. What if next time it's worse. ..smh

ChristinaLynne 3 kids; Pancake, TX, United States 29911 posts
Apr 18th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:</b>" Okay, well then you need to arrange something else for your kid. You don't have a lot of options here. ... [snip!] ... even by crazy nana. I'd nip this shit in the bud right now. Talk to your job. Change your hours. Get a new job. Whatever. "</blockquote>




!!!
Exactly

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
Apr 18th '13
Quoting Jays*Mama:" If u did that to her and cps knew They would immediately take your child away. Its abuse plain and simple. You can get in trouble for letting it go on. What if next time it's worse. ..smh"


How would CPS find out? Her daughter doesn't even go to daycare.

Jays*Mama 2 kids; Michigan 5689 posts
Apr 18th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Dovahkiin:</b>" How would CPS find out? Her daughter doesn't even go to daycare. "</blockquote>




Why the hell does it matter. My point is its abuse according to cps..