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BeginTheRomance Due July 21 (girl); 1 child; Rochester, New York 373 posts
19th Apr '13

Totally agree.



Things do happen, but I would have been super pissed if I wasn't notified about the incident.

C'sMom! 1 child; Minnesota 1263 posts
19th Apr '13

Both sets of parents should have been notified

мɑkɑnɑni ~*~, FL, United States 63165 posts
status 19th Apr '13

Sometimes--not always--when that stuff happens it's because the child's been molested. I'm not saying that's the case, but it's a possibility. This should have been investigated. You have a right to be pissed.

Kait. 3 kids; Iowa 2345 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting mαkαnαni:" Sometimes--not always--when that stuff happens it's because the child's been molested. I'm not saying ... [snip!] ... I'm not saying that's the case, but it's a possibility. This should have been investigated. You have a right to be pissed."


The little boy comes from a bad family. Very bad. His older brother was found guilty of putting pipe bombs on our elementary school's playground and his dad is in jail for rape of his sister's daughter... so it wouldn't surprise me.

Danu ♥ 3 Due September 10 (boy); 1 child; Phx, Az, United States 5675 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting Kait.:" The little boy comes from a bad family. Very bad. His older brother was found guilty of putting pipe ... [snip!] ... on our elementary school's playground and his dad is in jail for rape of his sister's daughter... so it wouldn't surprise me. "


I would be on the phone with someone right away then. Not saying it will happen again but obviously this teacher isn't taking the right steps and if it does happen what's she going to do, put this kid in time out again?

ILOVEWINE Due April 24; 2 kids; Sweden 10814 posts
19th Apr '13

I'm honestly having a hard time believing this...



I can't imagine as a teacher not immediately sending both children to the school nurse and principal and contacting both sets of parents.



OP if in fact this actually happened like you say it did, then you need to contact the principal and need to have a meeting today. If they do not do this, contact the police.

Kait. 3 kids; Iowa 2345 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting DR♥P:" I would be on the phone with someone right away then. Not saying it will happen again but obviously ... [snip!] ... this teacher isn't taking the right steps and if it does happen what's she going to do, put this kid in time out again?"


She told me he is only there every 2-3 weeks for some reason... so she will have him around one more week and then school is over for him.

мɑkɑnɑni ~*~, FL, United States 63165 posts
status 19th Apr '13

Is he at home or in foster care?

Kait. 3 kids; Iowa 2345 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting mαkαnαni:" Is he at home or in foster care?"


I don't know, but when she told me his school schedule it made me wonder if he was in foster care. I didn't think he was though.

A is Me 1 child; South Carolina 3782 posts
19th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kait.:</b>" The little boy comes from a bad family. Very bad. His older brother was found guilty of putting pipe ... [snip!] ... on our elementary school's playground and his dad is in jail for rape of his sister's daughter... so it wouldn't surprise me. "</blockquote>




Awh. All the MORE reason for the teacher to contact his family/guardian. If she knows he could have possibly been exposed to sexual abuse then he starts acting out inappropriatelt, she is wrong for not taking action. Your daughter shouldn't have been touched but honestly, the little boy sounds like he needs more help and his teacher should be helping him get that...