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How did you "know"? Pinkman 1 child; Melbourne, VC, Australia 5909 posts
19th Apr '13

That your SO/DH was "the one"? How long were you together for until you knew?



Call me crazy, but I really think my SO may be it for me. He's awesome. We're awesome together. Every time I look at him I just smile because I just think how lucky I am to have found him. I've never felt this way about anyone before and I was in a relationship for two years.



He treats DS like he's his own which is something I never, ever thought I would find. I love his family. Everything just "works out".

kthx. Due January 13 (girl); Cleves, Ohio 67240 posts
status 19th Apr '13

After like... a month. We were off and on for that month, but something kept drawing us back to each other. Been together ever since :)

Snippy Due March 8; 1 child; Australia 419 posts
19th Apr '13

I'm still unsure

Pinkman 1 child; Melbourne, VC, Australia 5909 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting kthx.:" After like... a month. We were off and on for that month, but something kept drawing us back to each other. Been together ever since :) "


So, I'm not crazy? :P



We've been together for like seven months but I've felt it for at least two/three month now.

user banned 2 kids; Minnesota 7318 posts
19th Apr '13

I think after a few huge fights. You have to see someone at their worst to know.

kthx. Due January 13 (girl); Cleves, Ohio 67240 posts
status 19th Apr '13
Quoting ♥ pinkman:" So, I'm not crazy? :P We've been together for like seven months but I've felt it for at least two/three month now."


Oh my lol. Not crazy at all. I told SO I loved him pretty quickly. We've been together a little over a year and a half. Have our own place, TTC, marriage is in the future (maybe... if I keep pestering him :wink: :lol: ). So I don't think it's too soon for you :)

krystal lee ♥ Due October 4 (boy); 1 child; 3 angel babies; New Jersey 2410 posts
19th Apr '13

We been together for 6 yrs n I'm starting to get the feeling his not the :/

Pinkman 1 child; Melbourne, VC, Australia 5909 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting Chim Richalds:" I think after a few huge fights. You have to see someone at their worst to know."


We had a pretty bad fight maybe two months ago. He's a little bitch when he's tired and I was being a bitch because he was grumpy and then it escalated from there. No fun but even then I think we both felt the same way about each other.

user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
19th Apr '13

I met my husband March 17th 2012. I knew he was the one within a month.
We were engaged July 4th 2012 (less than 4 months later)
Married Oct 25 2012 (7 months after meeting)



I adore him. I know we will always be best friends and lovers.

Ivana, VBA2C success! 3 kids; Aurora, Colorado 6834 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting Chim Richalds:" I think after a few huge fights. You have to see someone at their worst to know."

definitely!! My husband and I have had some mean, angry fights! but even after it's all said and done, all I want to do is work it out and make it all better again, even if in the heat of the moment I feel like I hate him! I never have actually wanted to leave him.

Mom of 4 Little Boys! 4 kids; 2 angel babies; Hillsboro, Oregon 4897 posts
19th Apr '13

I knew I loved him after 3 weeks together but as far as him being 'the one'......after almost 8 years knowing him(8 years next month), 7 1/2 years of marriage and 3 kids I still have no idea if I consider him that. I know that probably sounds bad but its been a rough 8 years.

Pinkman 1 child; Melbourne, VC, Australia 5909 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting kthx.:" Oh my lol. Not crazy at all. I told SO I loved him pretty quickly. We've been together a little over ... [snip!] ... TTC, marriage is in the future (maybe... if I keep pestering him :wink: :lol: ). So I don't think it's too soon for you :)"


That's awesome! Sending lots of baby dust to you!



I always tell him "you know that we're getting married right?" or he'll be like "you're never gonna leave me because we're getting married!"



Maybe someday :D

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Watertown, Sd, United States 10089 posts
19th Apr '13

Idk when I knew. He was supposed to just be a one night stand and from the day we met we were inseparable. So I guess the moment I met him.

user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting ♥ pinkman:" We had a pretty bad fight maybe two months ago. He's a little bitch when he's tired and I was being ... [snip!] ... he was grumpy and then it escalated from there. No fun but even then I think we both felt the same way about each other."


We've been together 13 months, married 6 and we still haven't had a bad fight lol.

~Ba.zin.ga+2~ 2 kids; Under your bed, OO, United States 4115 posts
19th Apr '13

When ya'know ya'know :wink:
Nah but DH and I have been together a little over 3 years and I think when you are completely comfortable with them and can be your total self then it's real. For awhile I was getting doubts in my mind, like maybe we'd be better off as friends...But I just love the shit out of him :lol::lol: