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Cast Your Vote:

    • Miscarriage -- Votes: 37
    • Abortion -- Votes: 2
    • Both -- Votes: 34
    • Neither -- Votes: 5
user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting Alicia Holz:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Captain Obvious:</b>" Did he actually say that to you? What ... [snip!] ... if in was giving birth and something bad happened i was on the verge of death he would tell the dr to save the baby before me"



that's incredibly fucked up!
You stayed with him and had MORE children?

ma ♥ 1 child; California 63053 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:" It really depends on the person and if you try to compare one persons abortion to one persons loss you're kind of an a*****e."


:!::!::!:

killingbird 5evr 2 kids; 1 angel baby; North Carolina 10113 posts
19th Apr '13

Ignore my ramblings.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
19th Apr '13

Am I the only one who hasn't had this conversation with their s/o..



Hey hunny, how was work? Btw, would you want me to die or your unborn child? Just wonderin'.

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting Killingℬird(17):" <blockquote><b>Quoting Alicia Holz:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Captain ... [snip!] ... have to die. And if it wasn't, he'd be letting the both of you die. Soooo... Color me confused about that whole conversation."


ummmmm.....

ChristinaLynne Due October 7; 2 kids; Crockett, Tx, United States 26701 posts
status 19th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:</b>" It really depends on the person and if you try to compare one persons abortion to one persons loss you're kind of an a*****e."</blockquote>




!!!!

killingbird 5evr 2 kids; 1 angel baby; North Carolina 10113 posts
19th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting A❤T=P&W:</b>" ummmmm....."</blockquote>




Was she not talking about abortions anymore?



I must've missed something here.

Mandi Bass 1 child; Minnesota 1024 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting Killingℬird(17):" <blockquote><b>Quoting Alicia Holz:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Captain ... [snip!] ... have to die. And if it wasn't, he'd be letting the both of you die. Soooo... Color me confused about that whole conversation."

I almost died during my emergency c-section with DS. They asked which one to save. We chose DS. I had massive blood loss from a placental abruption. My heart did stop, but they got me back. Viability does not mean the mother is safe.

Alicia Holz 2 kids; Fond du Lac, Wisconsin 534 posts
19th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Dovahkiin:</b>" Am I the only one who hasn't had this conversation with their s/o.. Hey hunny, how was work? Btw, would you want me to die or your unborn child? Just wonderin'. "</blockquote>




lol thats actually pretty much how it happened so i told him if theres a fire and your sleeping i will try to wake you but the kids come first...it was a weird topic

SR ♥ 1 child; V, AR, United States 7818 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting Dovahkiin:" Am I the only one who hasn't had this conversation with their s/o.. Hey hunny, how was work? Btw, would you want me to die or your unborn child? Just wonderin'. "


I wouldn't be happy with either answer, honestly.

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting Killingℬird(17):" <blockquote><b>Quoting A❤T=P&W:</b>" ummmmm....."</blockquote> Was she not talking about abortions anymore? I must've missed something here."


He told her if something happened during the birth he would choose the kid.

Captain Obvious 2 kids; Havana, Cuba 25634 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting A❤T=P&W:" that's incredibly fucked up! You stayed with him and had MORE children?"


for real. sounds like her pregnancies are incredibly dangerous :shock: go unconcious and have her husband able to kill her ass off lol

Alicia Holz 2 kids; Fond du Lac, Wisconsin 534 posts
19th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Killingℬird(17):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Alicia Holz:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Captain ... [snip!] ... have to die. And if it wasn't, he'd be letting the both of you die. Soooo... Color me confused about that whole conversation."</blockquote>




he told me if the dr had to choice either me or the baby to live he would choose the baby

loser mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; GoShox!, KS, United States 9199 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting Dovahkiin:" Am I the only one who hasn't had this conversation with their s/o.. Hey hunny, how was work? Btw, would you want me to die or your unborn child? Just wonderin'. "


I've never had this conversation with my husband. Never even thought about it until now.



Pretty sure he would save me. :?

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" I wouldn't be happy with either answer, honestly."


Exactly, so I would never ask that.