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Cαtwomαn 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Gotham, DC, United States 11740 posts
20th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" Bahahah I think in your case that's understandable. We all have periods in which it happens really. ... [snip!] ... sex drive for a year because of it. However in normal times 3-4 times a week really isn't asking all that much if you ask me."</blockquote>




Before I was pregnant we'd definitely have our frisky weeks. That's how I ended up this way. Lol. We have a healthy marriage and we probably average 3 times a week.



But on weeks he works 50-60 hours, he doesn't want it. And I definitely understand. A lot of things impact drive. Masturbation is key.

Mandi Bass 1 child; Minnesota 1060 posts
20th Apr '13
Quoting MysticWitchKat:" Eh the amount of time it takes to screw doesn't take up enough time to eat into things, unless you have some marathon sessions."

It seems like no matter what anyone on here says, you are just going to argue with them about it. When SO and I have sex, we do it right! Not a 15 minute quickie. We spend atleast an hour together, and usually more like two. That two hours is enough time to do laundry, shower, and clean the house on any other day. Who the f**k wants a 15 minute f**k 4 times a week? I'd rather have good sex once or twice.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49254 posts
20th Apr '13

OP would really hate my husband. We do every 2-3 weeks. Guess I better tell him because I raise his kid and cook his meals he needs to start paying me with sex more often :roll:

Cαtwomαn 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Gotham, DC, United States 11740 posts
20th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" OP would really hate my husband. We do every 2-3 weeks. Guess I better tell him because I raise his kid and cook his meals he needs to start paying me with sex more often :roll:"</blockquote>




I would love to hear what J has to say about that. :)

Severus Snape 2 kids; Tennessee 3550 posts
20th Apr '13

Eh I agree with getting a toy. Definitely not a substitute, but will help on those days he's just not that into it. DH and I go back and forth. One week I'm out of control crazy and he's not into it at all and the next week the roles are reversed lol. Expecting him to have sex 3-4 times a week consistently is a bit much. The pressure you put on him could be pulling his sex drive down as well. I know if DH was constantly begging me, I'd be less and less into it. I say get a toy and lay off of him for a bit. The reduced pressure alone will probably help.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49254 posts
20th Apr '13
Quoting Killingℬird(17):" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" OP would really hate my husband. ... [snip!] ... to start paying me with sex more often :roll:"</blockquote> I would love to hear what J has to say about that. :)"


Right? I can hear it now... "Go f**k yourself. Literally." At the very least.

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
20th Apr '13
Quoting MysticWitchKat:" Eh the amount of time it takes to screw doesn't take up enough time to eat into things, unless you have some marathon sessions."


you just love to argue.
Some people aren't into a quick "screw". I would rather have longer more intimate interactions with my husband than just a quick f**k to appease him.

[JadeLee] 1 child; Minnesota 12190 posts
20th Apr '13
Quoting Mandi Bass:" It seems like no matter what anyone on here says, you are just going to argue with them about it. When ... [snip!] ... clean the house on any other day. Who the f**k wants a 15 minute f**k 4 times a week? I'd rather have good sex once or twice."

:D:!::!:
It takes up DD's whole 3 hour nap time between foreplay and sex, and then after sex rest sometimes. I could have gotten the laundry folded, dishes done, each of us taken a shower and maybe even power cleaned the bathroom in that time. Or even done three assignments and read a couple chapters for school.

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 26794 posts
20th Apr '13
Quoting Brink:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" Wanting your mate to screw you is not ... [snip!] ... himself. Yeah sex is natural but there are other forms of intimacy then penetration. This women seems to just want to get off."


This. No guy can tell a girl that she needs to give him sex and how it's like, insulting that she doesnt and how he cant rely on a toy, he has a WIFE to f**k and she should put out at least 3-4 times a week because that's what wives are for! If he did, the world would eat his balls off and spit them back out into his eyeballs. Oh, but if a girl does it, well, the man should just suck it up and DO IT!




Such bullshit.

{Ja Due September 3; 35 kids; Missouri 9 posts
20th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" I don't get how sex 3-4 times a week is going to impact how much you get done in the house."</blockquote>




Agreed.....i mean honestly I have 3 going on 4 kids and I also babysit 3 other than my own daily, I clean, cook 3 meals a day, do laundry and havd dinner ready for my husband when he comes home, so how is wanting sex even 2 to 3 times alot or make it hard to get things done....really I havent been rude or a b***h to him. I vented on HERE, not to him, I just go to sleep. So chill out ppl with the being a b***h. And I kno sex isnt everything there is alot of ways to connect and be intimate...i just enjoy making love to my husband, is this a sin lol some of you act like im screaming.....Screw me, screw me....its sooooo not like that

Cαtwomαn 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Gotham, DC, United States 11740 posts
20th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting {Ja

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
20th Apr '13
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I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49254 posts
20th Apr '13
Quoting {Ja
I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49254 posts
20th Apr '13
Quoting A❤T=P&W:" Have you talked to him at all? Have you considered what HE is thinking and feeling?? It's not all about YOU!"


Yes it is damn it! BECAUSE SHE'S SUCH A GOOD MOTHER AND WIFE!!! :roll: ffs

Vanilla MILFshake. 1 child; Georgia 5424 posts
20th Apr '13
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" Yes it is damn it! BECAUSE SHE'S SUCH A GOOD MOTHER AND WIFE!!! :roll: ffs"


I'm a good mother and wife but I haven't been laid all month. I think I'm about to unleash the beast over here and show my ass cause this isn't fair!!!!! :twisted::P