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Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20924 posts
21st Apr '13
Quoting KNZ.:" more than flirting. like, an emotional relationship type thing"


wow. um yea, I'd leave

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49343 posts
21st Apr '13
Quoting KNZ.:" more than flirting. like, an emotional relationship type thing"


That's totally different. Yeah that's not cool.

I'm actually a virgin Due June 9; 1 child; Oregon 18466 posts
21st Apr '13

It would suck, you're marrying dude, so obviously you love him! But.. I'd be gone, forget that mess.

♥MOBAS♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; California 7198 posts
21st Apr '13
Quoting KNZ.:" more than flirting. like, an emotional relationship type thing"


That is different. I would definitely begin to consider my options.

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59253 posts
21st Apr '13
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" That's totally different. Yeah that's not cool."



different thaaan...? ha, i didn't specify what the texting/calling was about- just that when you're told about it- you're crushed.

Taryn - Anya's mommy 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Toronto, Ontario 49462 posts
21st Apr '13
Quoting KNZ.:" more than flirting. like, an emotional relationship type thing"

oh then thats different, id be kicking to the curb then

What's wrong, flat face? TTC since Jul 2012; 1 child; 3 angel babies; Texas 13678 posts
21st Apr '13
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" I guess trust is a rare commodity now."

Seeing as cheating is a lot easier to get away with it is.

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59253 posts
21st Apr '13
Quoting I'm actually a virgin:" It would suck, you're marrying dude, so obviously you love him! But.. I'd be gone, forget that mess."


right? and like, it getting so close to the wedding and THEN being told about the 'second offense'. that would just...suck.

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20924 posts
21st Apr '13
Quoting KNZ.:" different thaaan...? ha, i didn't specify what the texting/calling was about- just that when you're told about it- you're crushed. "


yea... except I know a lot of chicks that get crushed over the dumbest shit, so... :lol:

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59253 posts
21st Apr '13
Quoting
I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49343 posts
21st Apr '13
Quoting KNZ.:" different thaaan...? ha, i didn't specify what the texting/calling was about- just that when you're told about it- you're crushed. "


Different than just standard texting/calling. I was crushed knowing my husband just talked to his ex because I knew how horrible she was to him, so that information alone tells nothing.



Having an emotional affair is different than being friendly.

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59253 posts
21st Apr '13
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" Different than just standard texting/calling. I was crushed knowing my husband just talked to his ex ... [snip!] ... she was to him, so that information alone tells nothing. Having an emotional affair is different than being friendly."


i feel like if you're just being 'friendly' with someone, that's not something you'd need to "confess" to an ex though.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49343 posts
21st Apr '13
Quoting Let the rain fall:" Seeing as cheating is a lot easier to get away with it is."


I don't know how it's "easier". I would think it's harder because people are so interconnected. In the 50s it was a hell of a lot easier. Now it's just that people don't give a crap. Which is why you pick your associations and spouse wisely.

I'm actually a virgin Due June 9; 1 child; Oregon 18466 posts
21st Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting KNZ.:</b>" right? and like, it getting so close to the wedding and THEN being told about the 'second offense'. that would just...suck. "</blockquote>



Yeah.. I put up with that crap one too many times! It's hard to walk away, but no way I'd put myself through that crap again!

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49343 posts
21st Apr '13
Quoting KNZ.:" i feel like if you're just being 'friendly' with someone, that's not something you'd need to "confess" to an ex though. "


Ehhh my husband finally came clean that he was talking to his ex. Just every day chatting. He thought that what I said before was I was cool with it as long as I didn't know. When what had happened was I told him I hated seeing him upset by her so much, and didn't like her knowing so much about our lives.