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penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 6992 posts
21st Apr '13
Quoting #1HBIC:" Some people don't "believe" in it but other's do not see color. HONESTLY what is your stance on dating outside of your race?"


This is what the OP posted. That is how my stance came into this thread in the first place. If I would have known I would have gotten blasted and demeaned by the way that I believe I would have stayed out. But the OP said HONESTLY and wanted to know peoples stance on what they believe. But I'm the one who gets attacked for being honest and sharing.

LA REINA™ Chicago, IL, United States 15863 posts
21st Apr '13
Quoting supa~~fly:" This is what the OP posted. That is how my stance came into this thread in the first place. If I would ... [snip!] ... and wanted to know peoples stance on what they believe. But I'm the one who gets attacked for being honest and sharing. "

No one has blasted, demeaned, or attacked you, only told you that you had a stupid and illogical argument.

penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 6992 posts
21st Apr '13
Quoting ρiηkie ρie:" I disagree, I do think she's racist and is grasping at straws to prove she's not. I don't think you can ... [snip!] ... I mean, why not just say she's only into white guys or whatever race she is? Why else bring the rest of that bullshit into it? "


Now I'm getting pissed. The reason why all the other BULLSHIT got brought into it was because the OP f**king stated she wanted to know the HONEST stance on what people thought!! I'm far the f**k from being raciest. I have different races in my family and i am 100% okay and happy that they are part of my family!

#1HBIC Japan 134 posts
21st Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting supa~~fly:</b>" This is what the OP posted. That is how my stance came into this thread in the first place. If I would ... [snip!] ... and wanted to know peoples stance on what they believe. But I'm the one who gets attacked for being honest and sharing. "</blockquote>




Not exactly. Other's did it but in a respectful type of way. You were comparing us to farm animals.

ρiηkie ρie 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Kentucky 21902 posts
21st Apr '13
Quoting drunk b**bs.:" No one has blasted, demeaned, or attacked you, only told you that you had a stupid and illogical argument. "

Exactly. This is supposed to be a debate, we disagree with your stance and we're rebutting it. Nothing more.

04090510 Due May 7; 2 kids; Ralston, NE, United States 24595 posts
21st Apr '13
Quoting ρiηkie ρie:" I disagree, I do think she's racist and is grasping at straws to prove she's not. I don't think you can ... [snip!] ... I mean, why not just say she's only into white guys or whatever race she is? Why else bring the rest of that bullshit into it? "


**I said it was just on myself. Not my children. Not my friends. Not for strangers.

I can't believe that nobody will understand anything that I am trying to say and have turned it into me being raciest and being this awful person. I'm far from raising my kids the way I was raised. Love is love. Love is blind and can see through all no matter the gender no matter the color.



OK. I mean if that's the case, then how come if a black man came along that had all the things that supa~~fly likes in a man, and wanted to be with her, why should his skin color matter to her? If love is blind and can see through all no matter the gender no matter THE COLOR ?? It's purely because it was hammered into her head that something is inherently off about men that are not white and therefore she cannot be with one.

ρiηkie ρie 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Kentucky 21902 posts
21st Apr '13
Quoting supa~~fly:" Now I'm getting pissed. The reason why all the other BULLSHIT got brought into it was because the OP ... [snip!] ... the f**k from being raciest. I have different races in my family and i am 100% okay and happy that they are part of my family!"

So get pissed, I'm entitled to my opinion, including my opinion of how you present yourself. And to me you sound racist. I'm sorry if that bothers you but it still doesn't change my opinion.

CJKB+JMB=AMB 1 child; Watertown, New York 2525 posts
21st Apr '13

i think this whole f**king thread is stupid SMH

#1HBIC Japan 134 posts
21st Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Carissa Biron:</b>" i think this whole f**king thread is stupid SMH"</blockquote>




Your comment was f**king stupid. Dumbass.

ρiηkie ρie 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Kentucky 21902 posts
21st Apr '13
Quoting Carissa Biron:" i think this whole f**king thread is stupid SMH"

Annnnnd? I mean, do you want a cookie or a gold star?

CJKB+JMB=AMB 1 child; Watertown, New York 2525 posts
21st Apr '13

cookie please ;)
but seriously.... from the original post this sounded like drama starting bs. js

#1HBIC Japan 134 posts
21st Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Carissa Biron:</b>" cookie please ;) but seriously.... from the original post this sounded like drama starting bs. js"</blockquote>




You f**king fail. If that were the case then it would've turned into drama. Stop trying to act like you know shit.

Anja[VBA2C GRADx2!] 5 kids; Illinois 3568 posts
21st Apr '13

Well until I met my husband I dated only white people , my husband's pure Japanese though. It doesn't have any bearing on our relationship. We have an awesome one and that's all that matters. I also don't care if others date outside of their race. I'm so glad the family doesn't care about my husband's race, I hate to think when people have racist parents and family :( . My sister's also married to a non-white (He's black, at least mostly. I think he's mixed but not sure how he's mixed other than black) .

Mama Charli Due August 8; 6 kids; Texas 6387 posts
21st Apr '13
Quoting supa~~fly:" Now I'm getting pissed. The reason why all the other BULLSHIT got brought into it was because the OP ... [snip!] ... the f**k from being raciest. I have different races in my family and i am 100% okay and happy that they are part of my family!"


I get what you are saying... I don't think you are racist but I do think the way you are saying things makes it harder to comprehend to others.



She won't date someone who isn't her own race. But she don't care if anyone else does. She believes that SHE shouldn't It don't mean that she thinks its wrong for others to. just herself...



It don't make her racist. She doesn't hate other races. she just wouldn't date them

Beth~N~Lizzie 1 child; Winter Haven, Florida 2755 posts
21st Apr '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" My daughter is 16, and has never had a relationship with a "white" guy. She gets crap from some people at school for it, but she ignores ignorant morons just like I taught her to."

This!