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good enough reason?? *~AngelEyes~* 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Memphis, Tennessee 10587 posts
22nd Apr '13

DH told me today that bc of the BH I've been having, no more sex til lil man gets here. Do you think that's reasonable?

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
22nd Apr '13

no bc sex can help labor along true story

penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 7116 posts
22nd Apr '13

If they are bad BH then yea I wouldn't want anyone touching me till after the baby came. I would be to scared that something would happen.

*Kristina G* Due August 18 (girl); 2 kids; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 191 posts
22nd Apr '13

I wish mine would say that lolsz im constantly being nagged about having sex when im not in the mood or feeling well

What if... 2 kids; Ontario 4587 posts
22nd Apr '13

depends if you`re high risk or have issues with pre-term labour or something but if not no. thats silly and quite a long time to go without sex if you dont have to! i`m sure your doctor would have put you on pelvic rest if it were necessary

*~AngelEyes~* 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Memphis, Tennessee 10587 posts
22nd Apr '13
Quoting *Kristina G*:" I wish mine would say that lolsz im constantly being nagged about having sex when im not in the mood or feeling well"


Aww I know how that Is... that parts no fun. But when I'm feeling good, I like to have my fun :wink:

♥MOBAS♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; California 7198 posts
22nd Apr '13
Quoting *~AngelEyes~*:" DH told me today that bc of the BH I've been having, no more sex til lil man gets here. Do you think that's reasonable? "


Does he go to your doctors appointments with you? If so I would ask the doctor about sex with him their.

*~AngelEyes~* 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Memphis, Tennessee 10587 posts
22nd Apr '13
Quoting Dallas ♥ Isla:" depends if you`re high risk or have issues with pre-term labour or something but if not no. thats silly ... [snip!] ... a long time to go without sex if you dont have to! i`m sure your doctor would have put you on pelvic rest if it were necessary"


As far as I know I'm not high risk. At least, my doctor says I'm not. (But she kinda brushes everything off half the time) and as far as I know preterm labor is not an issue. I do get BH pretty bad though sometimes.

*~AngelEyes~* 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Memphis, Tennessee 10587 posts
22nd Apr '13
Quoting Sonia[MOBAS]:" Does he go to your doctors appointments with you? If so I would ask the doctor about sex with him their."


He usually does... he hasn't been to the last two bc of work. But I'll definitely bring it up to her bc tbh while my drive has dropped, I still want it lol.

1inpink2inblue Switzerland 11961 posts
22nd Apr '13

BH are totally normal towards the end of pregnancy and when you have an orgasm it can bring them on hard. My BH were often so bad I was doubled over in pain with all my kids. As long as you are comfortable and aren't high risk then there is no reason not to continue having sex.

*~AngelEyes~* 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Memphis, Tennessee 10587 posts
22nd Apr '13
Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" BH are totally normal towards the end of pregnancy and when you have an orgasm it can bring them on hard. ... [snip!] ... pain with all my kids. As long as you are comfortable and aren't high risk then there is no reason not to continue having sex. "


That's what I was thinking. I get em so bad sometimes that they put me in tears, but otherwise they aren't too bad. And I do sometimes cramp up after sex but not normally too bad.

Trey&Genesis'momma 4 kids; 4 angel babies; Somewhere, IN, United States 4660 posts
22nd Apr '13
Quoting *~AngelEyes~*:" DH told me today that bc of the BH I've been having, no more sex til lil man gets here. Do you think that's reasonable? "

Well I would say that it "could" be reasonable. But unless the dr tells you not to continue to have sex or if sex makes you go into preterm labor....you shouldn't have to. But you might have trouble convincing your DH if he's that uncomfortable with the idea of having sex anymore bc of the braxton hicks. My hubby was never like that. He ALWAYS wanted sex. When I was on strict pelvic and bedrest with our son, I thought he would die bc we had to go 3 1/2 months. This time, I have cut him off personally till I see my dr bc the last time, I started bleeding and cramping afterwards which has never happened to me before. So it's more of a safe than sorry aspect with me.

*~AngelEyes~* 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Memphis, Tennessee 10587 posts
22nd Apr '13
Quoting Trey&Genesis'momma:" Well I would say that it "could" be reasonable. But unless the dr tells you not to continue to have sex ... [snip!] ... bleeding and cramping afterwards which has never happened to me before. So it's more of a safe than sorry aspect with me."

Yeah I know what you mean. I wish I could talk him into it but he's sticking to it. Lol. I've been having a lot of pretty bad BH since Friday and yesterday was the worst of them. (Bad enough he thought he was going to have to take me to the hospital but me being stubborn I told him no.) They let up so I'm not too concerned about it. But that's why he says no sex til baby gets here.

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
22nd Apr '13

Eh tell him when he gets a medical degree he can start deciding on what to do there. Until then he can get naked when you demand it :D.

user banned 33 kids; British Columbia 2986 posts
22nd Apr '13

I had really bad ones and my doctor told me no sex until like 35 weeks and after that not very often until 40 weeks.