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user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
22nd Apr '13

DD has yet to be "mean" to me. Then again she's only 16 months lol.

MahmuhMahmuh 3 kids; Wichita, Kansas 6706 posts
22nd Apr '13

I have a 4&5 year old, both of them made it through toddler-hood without those phases, well I guess my son did bite me once, but I think my yelling scared him enough to not do it again. I got lucky though, I know.. Both of my kids have been really easy going for the most part so far.

THE Draco Malfoy 2 kids; Tennessee 19994 posts
22nd Apr '13
Quoting A mother & wife:" Oh. We never initially spoiled our kiddos mainly because of the toddler stage. My daughter right now is loving the words "I dont wann-a" But thankfully thats it."

well, i say spoiled but it's not really. she is an only child and doesn't interact with other kids often. she's used to all toys and everything being hers. when we visit my brother, she takes toys from my nephew and gets mad when i give it back

A mother & wife 2 kids; Pennsylvania 4817 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting Draco'sStalker:" well, i say spoiled but it's not really. she is an only child and doesn't interact with other kids often. ... [snip!] ... to all toys and everything being hers. when we visit my brother, she takes toys from my nephew and gets mad when i give it back"


Oh I get what you mean. Are you a stay at home mom? Maybe you can go to a mommy and me day with other mothers with kids and practice sharing. Best to nip that in the butt now then later. Or When you are at your brothers explain to her that she has to be a BIG girl and share. That you share with the people you love.

THE Draco Malfoy 2 kids; Tennessee 19994 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting A mother & wife:" Oh I get what you mean. Are you a stay at home mom? Maybe you can go to a mommy and me day with other ... [snip!] ... When you are at your brothers explain to her that she has to be a BIG girl and share. That you share with the people you love. "

well, she's only 11 months (tomo) so she doesn't quite get it yet. we don't have a mommy and me thing around here...

A mother & wife 2 kids; Pennsylvania 4817 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting Draco'sStalker:" well, she's only 11 months (tomo) so she doesn't quite get it yet. we don't have a mommy and me thing around here..."


Oh your good then. Its early enough. When my daughter got to where she started playing with toys my son wasnt interested in sharing. Crazy was he was in daycare and shared fine. But I think they were HIS toys thats why. We nipped it as early as we could. He still has issues sharing (certain toys) but is MUCH better at it.

THE Draco Malfoy 2 kids; Tennessee 19994 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting A mother & wife:" Oh your good then. Its early enough. When my daughter got to where she started playing with toys my ... [snip!] ... HIS toys thats why. We nipped it as early as we could. He still has issues sharing (certain toys) but is MUCH better at it."

well that's good! she was getting HIS toys in HIS territory. lol

A mother & wife 2 kids; Pennsylvania 4817 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting Draco'sStalker:" well that's good! she was getting HIS toys in HIS territory. lol"


Yes. Death to the sister. LOL. He has certain hotwheels that are just his.




Heck all the toys are his he thinks. I was playing with them once and I went to play with the "Little People" set and he told me I couldnt play because it was for kids. :roll: Well hell. I paid for them. lol

THE Draco Malfoy 2 kids; Tennessee 19994 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting A mother & wife:" Yes. Death to the sister. LOL. He has certain hotwheels that are just his. Heck all the toys are ... [snip!] ... play with the "Little People" set and he told me I couldnt play because it was for kids. :roll: Well hell. I paid for them. lol"

rofl! least it was "they're not for kids" and not "they're for boys!" lol apparently DD thinks all toys are hers. my nephew will be in his walker playing and she tries to take all his toys

A mother & wife 2 kids; Pennsylvania 4817 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting Draco'sStalker:" rofl! least it was "they're not for kids" and not "they're for boys!" lol apparently DD thinks all toys are hers. my nephew will be in his walker playing and she tries to take all his toys"


True.
He does know, thanks to his father. That pink is for girls. Hubs HATES when i put pink on him. Oh well its only a few strips on a brown shirt. No biggie.



Poor little guy. Gotta toughen him up. LOL

THE Draco Malfoy 2 kids; Tennessee 19994 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting A mother & wife:" True. He does know, thanks to his father. That pink is for girls. Hubs HATES when i put pink on him. ... [snip!] ... when i put pink on him. Oh well its only a few strips on a brown shirt. No biggie. Poor little guy. Gotta toughen him up. LOL"

men! :roll: lol



yeah, he's tougher than her at just 6 months. they do all kinds of stuff to him so he "won't be a sissy" and so far it's working. lol. he laughs at it all.

A mother & wife 2 kids; Pennsylvania 4817 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting Draco'sStalker:" men! :roll: lol yeah, he's tougher than her at just 6 months. they do all kinds of stuff to him so he "won't be a sissy" and so far it's working. lol. he laughs at it all."


I just tell my son. Daddy is a dork. Pink is for everyone thats why its the color of crayons. LOL



That is how we are with my kids. We allow my kids to practically do anything and everything. As long as they arent in danger. Hell let them live. They only live once.

THE Draco Malfoy 2 kids; Tennessee 19994 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting A mother & wife:" I just tell my son. Daddy is a dork. Pink is for everyone thats why its the color of crayons. LOL ... [snip!] ... my kids to practically do anything and everything. As long as they arent in danger. Hell let them live. They only live once. "

i'd be like "daddy just isn't cool enough for pink like you are!" lol



they swing him around, throw him around, let him fall back on the bed. i'm to nervous to do it with DD and now if i try she cries...my kid's a wuss! :cry:

A mother & wife 2 kids; Pennsylvania 4817 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting Draco'sStalker:" i'd be like "daddy just isn't cool enough for pink like you are!" lol they swing him around, throw him ... [snip!] ... him around, let him fall back on the bed. i'm to nervous to do it with DD and now if i try she cries...my kid's a wuss! :cry:"


Oh, I need to have my son tell my husband that next time. Daddy its cause your not cool. ;)



Oh you would be freaked out at my house. My daughter got a small slide for her birthday (since she fell off the big one in the back yard.) Well they put it in the living room and put pillows all around the front and would jump high in the air and then land on their butts to slide. Most of the time they didnt slide they just landed on the pillows.

THE Draco Malfoy 2 kids; Tennessee 19994 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting A mother & wife:" Oh, I need to have my son tell my husband that next time. Daddy its cause your not cool. ;) Oh you ... [snip!] ... jump high in the air and then land on their butts to slide. Most of the time they didnt slide they just landed on the pillows. "

you should!



and um...:shock: