What would you do if your man wouldn't eat you out? Like straight won't, no reason, but he still wants you to give him a BJ?
tell him no, without a reason. but i have the opposite problem. I have to tell him no all the time, because I don't like it.
There's lots of girls who won't go down on their man but he does them, so if day it's the se situation. Maybe encourage he try it but if he's not comfortable I wouldn't push it as long as he's making sure I got off somehow haha. But if probably want to know why he didnt want to cause maybe there'd be a way we could fix the problem.
I'd question why. But I'm a "gotta give to receive" type, so if I got nothing neither would he.
I've been in this situation more than once. I love giving BJs so for a while I caved. But after a while, I said it straight up. We 69 or you get none. It's only fair. My ex even told me that he wouldn't eat me out after I gave birth to our first child, because "I'm not going to lick something my kid came out of!" O_O what kind of bullshit reason is that!?
I'd straight-out tell him: Look, if you don't want to please me orally, that's fine. Just don't expect me to feel incline to please YOU orally either.
Well I don't like oral unless you're good at it...but I don't mind giving BJs so I'd probably be like okay that's fine lol
whats sad is he doesn't satisfy me in bed anymore... and he doesn't do anything to tey and get me off... ugh... i'm seriously about to tell him i'll get sex elsewhere :roll:
I'd stop giving bjs. But o don't have that issue. Dh likes doing it more than I like getting it lol.
I wouldn't ever want him to feel uncomfortable so I wouldn't push but I don't want to be eaten out.
Quoting Anna. Mommy of two boys:" What would you do if your man wouldn't eat you out? Like straight won't, no reason, but he still wants you to give him a BJ?"
Just give him the BJ. My man never ever wants to go downstairs, but I'm asked to almost daily. lol I'm not a selfish lover, no big deal. I'd rather see him happy and take care of myself later.
First off, he wouldnt be my man if he was always against it.
If he just suddenly became against it....we'd be going to counselling to MAKE him give me a reason.
Quoting Teenage Girl:" I wouldn't ever want him to feel uncomfortable so I wouldn't push but I don't want to be eaten out."
shit... i could use a good lickin lol
<blockquote><b>Quoting Anna. Mommy of two boys:</b>" shit... i could use a good lickin lol"</blockquote>
It really grosses me out