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if your man wouldn't... James & John's Mommy Due August 4; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Overton, Texas 3222 posts
22nd Apr '13

What would you do if your man wouldn't eat you out? Like straight won't, no reason, but he still wants you to give him a BJ?

Ravey Candyass 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Boston, Massachusetts 103128 posts
22nd Apr '13

tell him no, without a reason. but i have the opposite problem. I have to tell him no all the time, because I don't like it.

lolajessup Due July 25; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
22nd Apr '13

There's lots of girls who won't go down on their man but he does them, so if day it's the se situation. Maybe encourage he try it but if he's not comfortable I wouldn't push it as long as he's making sure I got off somehow haha. But if probably want to know why he didnt want to cause maybe there'd be a way we could fix the problem.

lise. ෆ 1 child; 1 angel baby; Cold, Ol, Canada 58738 posts
22nd Apr '13

I'd question why. But I'm a "gotta give to receive" type, so if I got nothing neither would he.

JΔS Georgia 70894 posts
22nd Apr '13

I'm not giving if I'm not receiving.

S & S *20weeks* Due December 29; 16 kids; Larouche, Quebec 1123 posts
22nd Apr '13

I've been in this situation more than once. I love giving BJs so for a while I caved. But after a while, I said it straight up. We 69 or you get none. It's only fair. My ex even told me that he wouldn't eat me out after I gave birth to our first child, because "I'm not going to lick something my kid came out of!" O_O what kind of bullshit reason is that!?



I'd straight-out tell him: Look, if you don't want to please me orally, that's fine. Just don't expect me to feel incline to please YOU orally either.

Ladee+Grant+Lilly 2 kids; Tallahassee, FL, United States 19708 posts
22nd Apr '13

Well I don't like oral unless you're good at it...but I don't mind giving BJs so I'd probably be like okay that's fine lol

James & John's Mommy Due August 4; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Overton, Texas 3222 posts
22nd Apr '13

whats sad is he doesn't satisfy me in bed anymore... and he doesn't do anything to tey and get me off... ugh... i'm seriously about to tell him i'll get sex elsewhere :roll:

1inpink2inblue Switzerland 11952 posts
22nd Apr '13

I'd stop giving bjs. But o don't have that issue. Dh likes doing it more than I like getting it lol.

user banned California 36390 posts
22nd Apr '13

I wouldn't ever want him to feel uncomfortable so I wouldn't push but I don't want to be eaten out.

Starr Metcalfe 3 kids; Kentucky 504 posts
22nd Apr '13
Quoting Anna. Mommy of two boys:" What would you do if your man wouldn't eat you out? Like straight won't, no reason, but he still wants you to give him a BJ?"



Just give him the BJ. My man never ever wants to go downstairs, but I'm asked to almost daily. lol I'm not a selfish lover, no big deal. I'd rather see him happy and take care of myself later.

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
22nd Apr '13

First off, he wouldnt be my man if he was always against it.



If he just suddenly became against it....we'd be going to counselling to MAKE him give me a reason.

James & John's Mommy Due August 4; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Overton, Texas 3222 posts
22nd Apr '13
Quoting Teenage Girl:" I wouldn't ever want him to feel uncomfortable so I wouldn't push but I don't want to be eaten out."


shit... i could use a good lickin lol

user banned California 36390 posts
22nd Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Anna. Mommy of two boys:</b>" shit... i could use a good lickin lol"</blockquote>




It really grosses me out

James & John's Mommy Due August 4; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Overton, Texas 3222 posts
22nd Apr '13

not me, im BI and i love it either way