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Really weird feeling during sex(Maybe TMI) Noneya Business Due August 29; 1 child; Pennsylvania 12464 posts
22nd Apr '13

It's probably not TMI but just in case.



SO and I have sex, kind of a lot. We usually only see each other on the weekends(Friday night through Sunday morning) but we'll have sex at least 4 to 5 times a night. It's been getting more and more painful to do some positions. But this weekend I noticed something really weird. After we have sex my butt hole hurts lol We didn't have anal. He didn't even get close to it. But it hurts so bad. Like it's sore. The feelings is like I just had anal. It's never happened before. I've been with SO for over 3 months and it's only when we had sex the last few days.



Any ideas? lol Should I ask my doctor? I've had problems with cyst and my doctor is starting to think I might have endometeriosis(sp?).

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44076 posts
22nd Apr '13

Is he like jabbing towards the back where your butt is? Maybe you need some more lubrication too. Sometimes our bodies can change with hormones and such. Maybe you're in a hormone fluctuation?

endless possibilities Due November 7; 6 kids; Tacoma, Washington 40890 posts
22nd Apr '13

are you about to get your period? I have a lot of sex too but the week before my period we have to be very careful about positions/roughness or I will get these horrible cramps in my ass, they are the WORST cramps ever. I have them from endo though, maybe you have it too.

Noneya Business Due August 29; 1 child; Pennsylvania 12464 posts
22nd Apr '13
Quoting endless possibilities:" are you about to get your period? I have a lot of sex too but the week before my period we have to be ... [snip!] ... will get these horrible cramps in my ass, they are the WORST cramps ever. I have them from endo though, maybe you have it too."


I'm supposed to be on my period now. I'm not pregnant but I only bleed a tiny bit but it's been really weird this month. I know my pills aren't the right ones for me but I can't afford the one's that work well with my body.



And we have enough lubrication. I'm usually wet enough but we also use other stuff just to make it better since I've been having more and more pain.

eKnuckles Due February 13; Florida 3473 posts
22nd Apr '13

You could always take pg test to see, but yeah rough sex can cause that lol. It should lighten and go away within the next couple of days if you dont have sex.

Noneya Business Due August 29; 1 child; Pennsylvania 12464 posts
22nd Apr '13
Quoting eKnuckles:" You could always take pg test to see, but yeah rough sex can cause that lol. It should lighten and go away within the next couple of days if you dont have sex."


I did. It was negative. I knew I wasn't pregnant anyway but I test every month just in case. And it wasn't rough sex when it started to hurt. No where near as rough as what we usually do.

malibu. 2 kids; Grand Rapids, Michigan 6328 posts
22nd Apr '13

Internal hemmorhoids? Are your BM's painless?

Noneya Business Due August 29; 1 child; Pennsylvania 12464 posts
22nd Apr '13
Quoting malibu.:" Internal hemmorhoids? Are your BM's painless?"


They're not painful. And even this isn't exactly painful, but it feels like I've been poked in the butt hard lol Idk how to describe it. It's just an odd feelings.