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My parents user banned
22nd Apr '13

UPDATE: everything went good:)

CJKB+JMB=AMB 1 child; Watertown, New York 2525 posts
22nd Apr '13

glad that our writing down a schedule and details for her, but it sounds like they have such little respect for you i highly doubt there gonna care about our list/rules. I wouldnt trust them...

user banned 1 child; Bluefield, Virginia 1053 posts
22nd Apr '13
Quoting Carissa Biron:" glad that our writing down a schedule and details for her, but it sounds like they have such little respect for you i highly doubt there gonna care about our list/rules. I wouldnt trust them..."


they deserve a chance, at the least. they are my parents, respect or not respect everyone gets a chance (in my family and Dh's family, lol)
but if DD comes back and say i pack 10 diapers and 2 are used...no thank you...say i pack a new can of formula and only about 6 scoops are taken out...no thanks all their time is done unless Me or DH are around.

Robin Lynn +Hannah Vista, California 560 posts
22nd Apr '13

DHs mom does the same thing. He has a one year old from a previous relationship & she says he's doing everything wrong & that she's ashamed of how his life has turned out & dictates how he & I should raise our little girl once she comes out. He won't say anything to her so I told him, once our daughter is here, if she feels the need to tell me how to raise my daughter, she doesn't need to be a part of her life. She wants us to raise our daughter her way because she thinks we'll f**k it up. I hate parents that butt in too much. Good luck. Hopefully, for your & your daughter's sake, they'll let up on the disrespect.

user banned 1 child; Bluefield, Virginia 1053 posts
22nd Apr '13
Quoting Robin Lynn:" DHs mom does the same thing. He has a one year old from a previous relationship & she says he's doing ... [snip!] ... parents that butt in too much. Good luck. Hopefully, for your & your daughter's sake, they'll let up on the disrespect. "


yeah, i dont know why parents do that...and i know this is hypocritical but im sure we will do it to our kids, but I WILL NOT be like DH's or my parents.

Robin Lynn +Hannah Vista, California 560 posts
22nd Apr '13
Quoting Kyleigh'sMommy12:" yeah, i dont know why parents do that...and i know this is hypocritical but im sure we will do it to our kids, but I WILL NOT be like DH's or my parents."


Oh yeah, but never to that extent. I would never belittle my daughter & her choices. I wasn't raised that way nor will I raise her that way. People need to learn from their mistakes & they need support from family. If they can't get that, where else would they get it?
Some people just don't know where the line should be drawn.