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DifferentDay Due June 2; 34 kids; Tennessee 3473 posts
22nd Apr '13

Ur not alone lots like it. For me I've found it's just his giant strong hand on my throat that turns me on so we stopped the choking part. Maybe there's a specific part like that u can focus on or like APs said try other stuff :)

~The Lunar Flower~ 2 kids; Alabama 6748 posts
22nd Apr '13

If you are going to do it then don't let him completely restrict your airways. As long as you can still breathe then it won't hurt the baby because you breathe slowly in your sleep. I had DH just pull my upper body up a little with his forearm around my neck instead of using his hands while I was pregnant because it didn't restrict air as badly. I can't just have vanilla sex or I won't orgasm

Photo Assassin 67 kids; Louisville, Kentucky 1666 posts
22nd Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:</b>" If you are going to do it then don't let him completely restrict your airways. As long as you can still ... [snip!] ... using his hands while I was pregnant because it didn't restrict air as badly. I can't just have vanilla sex or I won't orgasm"</blockquote>



I love my DHs hands! Just staring at them get me excited. I can have plain vanilla sex and orgasm, but not as good as when he puts his hands around my neck. I think its a control fetish, I am usually the one who's in control of our relationship, but want him to be in bed because it makes me feel like a 'woman'.



Told DH mummy concern and of course now he is too. I think mow we are both aware how serious it could be, I think we will just stick to hair pulling.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
22nd Apr '13
Quoting DifferentDay:" Ur not alone lots like it. For me I've found it's just his giant strong hand on my throat that turns ... [snip!] ... on so we stopped the choking part. Maybe there's a specific part like that u can focus on or like APs said try other stuff :)"


oh god this! and from behind smashed into the bed lmao

DifferentDay Due June 2; 34 kids; Tennessee 3473 posts
22nd Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I love Kenzi:</b>" oh god this! and from behind smashed into the bed lmao"</blockquote>




Yep! From behind with both his hands on my hips to control or on the small of my back. Absolutely drives me wild.

Little Richard's mommie! Due July 12 (boy); 1 child; Seneca, South Carolina 4430 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting Photo Assassin *19weeks*:" I am more embarrassed that I am about to ask this question than the fact that me and DH do this. Choke ... [snip!] ... doctors) though is there serious harm I can cause for the baby for my airways being restricted for 3-5 minutes at a time?"


My SO and I do this. And we did when I was pregnant, he just didn't do it for as long and not to the dizzy point either. Its one of my favorite thing about our sex life it just somehow makes it better. Everything turned out fine with my LO and so it's all good but if you are concerned you should ask your doctor just to make sure.