Even though when I ask him he says he does. I just think in my head "list". I feel if he really did he wouldn't talk to me the way he does when he gets mad, which its very easy to set off that red light! He doesn't like listening to my feelings or problems, he tells me I'm giving him a head ache because I'm so called whining. I'm having problems with my bones and muscles hurting often and if I even dare ask for a massage he does this dramatic shrug and does this lame waving hand light motion like rub on my back for literally a minute in the same area.then gives up. It just hurts me emotionally because i feel hes selfish and doesnt care how much i hurt. honestly makes me fall out of love with him so I feel when I'm saying I love you to him I feel I'm kind of lying to myself.... I cry myself to sleep at night as I'm starting to feel unattractive and worthless, and remembering how him and I USE to love hurts very much.... We'll have good days where we both get a long but it seems the romance is gone, sometimes even communication is gone, ESP when the kids aren't around. So when he tells me he loves me sometimes I get angry and sad and he notices and calls me a cry baby. What the hell is going on with us!!??!!??
Anybody else experiencing this??
Hey, not trying to be insensitive but if you really and truely feel like that then you need to get out of the relationship. Beacusr it is only going to get qorse not any better. Trust me I have been there. Hope thing's get better and work out for you.
Therapy coan help get to the root of your issues. Ask him igf he'd be willing to go to therapy w/u or you go by yourself. I know there r 2 sides to every story so he probably has a reason (that makes sense in his own head) for wehy he responds to you the way he does.......re-read what you posted and see how you r complaining about that you feel he is lying that he loves you but you are lying when u say it too him :(
I feel you. But different story. He told me he doesn't love me and it hurts so bad after 6 yrs. just like that. He says sorry but its not that easy.
<blockquote><b>Quoting *TaraT&3peas*:</b>" Even though when I ask him he says he does. I just think in my head "list". I feel if he really did he ... [snip!] ... and sad and he notices and calls me a cry baby. What the hell is going on with us!!??!!?? Anybody else experiencing this??"</blockquote>
He's being insensitive but are you being too sensitive? Not trying to be mean, but when I was pregnant I thought things like that. Men just don't understand all the changes we go through and can be insensitive to that.