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BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting Severus Snape:" The whole thing sounds totally wrong... but also totally hot. lol Personally, I'd pick which relationship ... [snip!] ... could easily lose her license if she gets caught. You can always "play doctor" in a hotel room without risking her license. "



I can see if we can do it that way

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting Mommy of boy & girl:" This is wrong in so many of ways"


This. Psychiatrist have a LOT of power over their patients which can be easily abused. This is the reason that a sexual relationship there is actually MORE damaging and dangerous then that of a regular Dr, like an OB. With therapy you are so revealed, and they have so much insight, it is very easy to be taken advantage of.



This is why it is such a big deal, because patients can be so easily manipulated. Any worthwhile psychiatrist would KNOW this and see how wrong this behavior would be. There is a trust there, and making it sexual shatters that trust and the bond.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
23rd Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" It is hot. We are both in a relationship with other people. She is married and I'm with someone long ... [snip!] ... long term. We both want to continue seeing each other behind our partners back. Yet she still wants to see me as a patient."</blockquote>




:?




Why do you want to cheat? You don't even sound remorseful that you're doing so, so i can't imagine you're too happy in your relationship.



And she's your psychiatrist? That honestly makes me feel like she's taking advantage og you.

ρiηkie ρie 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Kentucky 21902 posts
23rd Apr '13

As long as you're not cheating on someone I really don't see an issue with it. People meet in weird ways sometimes. But she could get in a lot of shit if you get caught. If you care about her, I'd find a new doctor. Problem solved.

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:" ok. If this is real.....you REALLY need a new DR"

Why would I make this up

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" <blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" It is hot. We are both in a relationship with ... [snip!] ... too happy in your relationship. And she's your psychiatrist? That honestly makes me feel like she's taking advantage og you."


This. OP, YOU are unahppy in your relationship and now are sexual with the person who is supposed to be helping you work out your issues?



This sounds very much like her abusing her power.

♀NoBoysAllowed 19 kids; San Diego, California 51862 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting BG Secrets:" She is a pyschitriast"


Get a new one. Seriously.

user banned 3 kids; Lincoln, Alabama 10353 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" <blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" It is hot. We are both in a relationship with ... [snip!] ... too happy in your relationship. And she's your psychiatrist? That honestly makes me feel like she's taking advantage og you."


I agree with this. OP she probably see's you as weak in a way and she can tell that you need love. If that makes sense

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
23rd Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ρiηkie ρie:</b>" As long as you're not cheating on someone I really don't see an issue with it. People meet in weird ways ... [snip!] ... sometimes. But she could get in a lot of shit if you get caught. If you care about her, I'd find a new doctor. Problem solved. "</blockquote>




She is lol

CJKB+JMB=AMB 1 child; Watertown, New York 2525 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting BG Secrets:" I can see if we can do it that way"


you WANT to play "doctor" with her? do you both get sexual pleasure from it??
I take back my statement, that is SO wrong. AND your both in relationships. if I were you and I REALLY want to be with this person you both hafta break things off with your SO's and STOP seeeing her as a patient, thats the only way this could end in your favor

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting Carissa Biron:" you WANT to play "doctor" with her? do you both get sexual pleasure from it?? I take back my statement, ... [snip!] ... both hafta break things off with your SO's and STOP seeeing her as a patient, thats the only way this could end in your favor"


We both get pleasure from knowing that we are both sexually attracted to each other

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
23rd Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting she nan igans:</b>" This. OP, YOU are unahppy in your relationship and now are sexual with the person who is supposed to be helping you work out your issues? This sounds very much like her abusing her power."</blockquote>




Yep. OP probably has talked about her relationship issues, and the doctor decided she was vulnerable enough to take advantage of.



Which absolutely disgusts me.
I kinda hope they get caught. Therapy is the one place you're supposed to be open and vulnerable and still feel safe, and this doctor is just using that to get her rocks off. Also because i hate cheaters and feel no one should be cheated on and kept in the dark.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22466 posts
status 23rd Apr '13

OP you can PM me, from your account, if you need to talk. I can't give much advice but can support you...

♀NoBoysAllowed 19 kids; San Diego, California 51862 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" <blockquote><b>Quoting she nan igans:</b>" This. OP, YOU are unahppy in your relationship ... [snip!] ... just using that to get her rocks off. Also because i hate cheaters and feel no one should be cheated on and kept in the dark."


Makes you wonder how many other patients are taken advantage of.

user banned 3 kids; Lincoln, Alabama 10353 posts
23rd Apr '13

Like someone above me said who knows how many other people she is fooling around with. Just cut it off completely with her