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_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
Apr 23rd '13
Quoting BG Secrets:" She told me it's just me and also her husband. This is the first time she has ever done something like this. She has been married for 20 years"


So she says. However, she is lying to her husband whom she has been with for 20 years, isn't she? She isn't showing much loyalty there. . . WHy do you think you would have more loyalty then the man she's been with for 20 years?

ρiηkie ρie 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Kentucky 21902 posts
Apr 23rd '13
Quoting Mrs. Grinch:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ρiηkie ρie:</b>" As long as you're not cheating ... [snip!] ... of shit if you get caught. If you care about her, I'd find a new doctor. Problem solved. "</blockquote> She is lol"

Yeah, I saw that after I posted. :?

user banned 3 kids; Lincoln, Alabama 10353 posts
Apr 23rd '13
Quoting she nan igans:" So she says. However, she is lying to her husband whom she has been with for 20 years, isn't she? She ... [snip!] ... isn't showing much loyalty there. . . WHy do you think you would have more loyalty then the man she's been with for 20 years?"


I agree with this. I'm sure she has cheated on her husband more than once

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
Apr 23rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting she nan igans:</b>" So she says. However, she is lying to her husband whom she has been with for 20 years, isn't she? She ... [snip!] ... isn't showing much loyalty there. . . WHy do you think you would have more loyalty then the man she's been with for 20 years?"</blockquote>



This. Of course she told you that, would you have slept with her had she told you she's slept with a lot of her patients?
Probably not.

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
Apr 23rd '13

She is also Jewish, so she is going against her religion.
Also thank you guys for the advice. I just texted her and told her I can't do this anymore

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
Apr 23rd '13
Quoting Mommy of boy & girl:" I agree with this. I'm sure she has cheated on her husband more than once"


i don't understand why people believe cheaters. . . I mean, they're lying to someone they supposedly love, someone they gave vows to, someone they've been with for 20 years, and you think your little bit of sex over a few months means that they'd never do that to you?

ღCeceღ 2 kids; Somewhere in, GA, United States 12691 posts
Apr 23rd '13
Quoting BG Secrets:" She is also Jewish, so she is going against her religion. Also thank you guys for the advice. I just texted her and told her I can't do this anymore"


she's a psychiatrist. I'm sure she'll spin it to try and make you ok with the relationship. good luck to you though...I'm curious...are you in therapy regarding your SO?

user banned 3 kids; Lincoln, Alabama 10353 posts
Apr 23rd '13

OP I'm sure once she screws you she goes and messes with another one of her patients

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
Apr 23rd '13
Quoting BG Secrets:" She is also Jewish, so she is going against her religion. Also thank you guys for the advice. I just texted her and told her I can't do this anymore"


I'm glad, You need to find a therapist who works for YOUR best well being. You need someone who wants to make you better, not use you.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
Apr 23rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" She is also Jewish, so she is going against her religion. Also thank you guys for the advice. I just texted her and told her I can't do this anymore"</blockquote>




Good for you. This will be better for everyone in the long run.




I hope your relationship with your SO works out WITHOUT cheating. Or that you leave and find happiness elsewhere.



Maybe you can find a new therapist and do couples counselling on top of your personal therapy?

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
Apr 23rd '13

She just called me crying. Telling me to not leave. She keeps saying that she still wants me

user banned 3 kids; Lincoln, Alabama 10353 posts
Apr 23rd '13
Quoting BG Secrets:" She just called me crying. Telling me to not leave. She keeps saying that she still wants me"



She will continue doing that. You can't give in that is what she wants

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
Apr 23rd '13
Quoting BG Secrets:" She just called me crying. Telling me to not leave. She keeps saying that she still wants me"


See, she isn't a Dr then. Her number one concern should be YOUR wellbeing, and she's proven she doesn't care about that. She only cares about what SHE wants.



You need to find a new therapist. If, after working with them, you decide to revisit this affair, then you can think about that. You need distance though, and the help of someone who actually WANTS to help you, you know?

ღCeceღ 2 kids; Somewhere in, GA, United States 12691 posts
Apr 23rd '13

yea exactly what i said she'd do :?

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
Apr 23rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" She just called me crying. Telling me to not leave. She keeps saying that she still wants me"</blockquote>




Tell her to call you when she gets a divorce and moves out.




Guarantee you won't hear from her again.