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☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
23rd Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♀NoBoysAllowed:</b>" Makes you wonder how many other patients are taken advantage of. "</blockquote>




Exactly. And I'm sure this woman makes OP feel she's special, and she's the only one. And rarely is that the case in these situations.

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting Mommy of boy & girl:" Like someone above me said who knows how many other people she is fooling around with. Just cut it off completely with her"


Yep. Exactly. She obviouly has no problem taking advantage of people. Her spouse, her patients. OP, you can't think she wouldn't do it to you. . . .

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting she nan igans:" Yep. Exactly. She obviouly has no problem taking advantage of people. Her spouse, her patients. OP, you can't think she wouldn't do it to you. . . ."

She told me it's just me and also her husband. This is the first time she has ever done something like this. She has been married for 20 years

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting BG Secrets:" She told me it's just me and also her husband. This is the first time she has ever done something like this. She has been married for 20 years"


So she says. However, she is lying to her husband whom she has been with for 20 years, isn't she? She isn't showing much loyalty there. . . WHy do you think you would have more loyalty then the man she's been with for 20 years?

ρiηkie ρie 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Kentucky 21902 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting Mrs. Grinch:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ρiηkie ρie:</b>" As long as you're not cheating ... [snip!] ... of shit if you get caught. If you care about her, I'd find a new doctor. Problem solved. "</blockquote> She is lol"

Yeah, I saw that after I posted. :?

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14109 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting BG Secrets:" She told me it's just me and also her husband. This is the first time she has ever done something like this. She has been married for 20 years"


I doubt she's telling the truth. She obviously knows a thing or two about being deceitful.



Like I said before, it is up to you what you decide but you really should decide between cutting off all ties, or being honest with your partner and not seeing her as a doctor before hooking up with her. That's what you SHOULD do, morally, because karma is a b***h. And don't get too emotionally invested in this person if you do decide on the second choice.

user banned 3 kids; Lincoln, Alabama 10353 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting she nan igans:" So she says. However, she is lying to her husband whom she has been with for 20 years, isn't she? She ... [snip!] ... isn't showing much loyalty there. . . WHy do you think you would have more loyalty then the man she's been with for 20 years?"


I agree with this. I'm sure she has cheated on her husband more than once

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
23rd Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting she nan igans:</b>" So she says. However, she is lying to her husband whom she has been with for 20 years, isn't she? She ... [snip!] ... isn't showing much loyalty there. . . WHy do you think you would have more loyalty then the man she's been with for 20 years?"</blockquote>



This. Of course she told you that, would you have slept with her had she told you she's slept with a lot of her patients?
Probably not.

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
23rd Apr '13

She is also Jewish, so she is going against her religion.
Also thank you guys for the advice. I just texted her and told her I can't do this anymore

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting Mommy of boy & girl:" I agree with this. I'm sure she has cheated on her husband more than once"


i don't understand why people believe cheaters. . . I mean, they're lying to someone they supposedly love, someone they gave vows to, someone they've been with for 20 years, and you think your little bit of sex over a few months means that they'd never do that to you?

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14109 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting BG Secrets:" She is also Jewish, so she is going against her religion. Also thank you guys for the advice. I just texted her and told her I can't do this anymore"


Thank goodness! You don't need a person like this in your life.

ღCeceღ 2 kids; Somewhere in, GA, United States 12595 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting BG Secrets:" She is also Jewish, so she is going against her religion. Also thank you guys for the advice. I just texted her and told her I can't do this anymore"


she's a psychiatrist. I'm sure she'll spin it to try and make you ok with the relationship. good luck to you though...I'm curious...are you in therapy regarding your SO?

user banned 3 kids; Lincoln, Alabama 10353 posts
23rd Apr '13

OP I'm sure once she screws you she goes and messes with another one of her patients

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting BG Secrets:" She is also Jewish, so she is going against her religion. Also thank you guys for the advice. I just texted her and told her I can't do this anymore"


I'm glad, You need to find a therapist who works for YOUR best well being. You need someone who wants to make you better, not use you.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
23rd Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" She is also Jewish, so she is going against her religion. Also thank you guys for the advice. I just texted her and told her I can't do this anymore"</blockquote>




Good for you. This will be better for everyone in the long run.




I hope your relationship with your SO works out WITHOUT cheating. Or that you leave and find happiness elsewhere.



Maybe you can find a new therapist and do couples counselling on top of your personal therapy?