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The Pretty Poodle™ 1 child; Illinois 7341 posts
23rd Apr '13

It means just that sweetie. Let him figure stuff out and not hurt you along the way.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14109 posts
23rd Apr '13

He's giving you a heads up that he might bail. Prepare yourself for that.

loser mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Oslo, ,, Norway 10849 posts
status 23rd Apr '13

Honestly, he's probably trying to break it off. That sucks, I'm very sorry. :(

Lisa Lyon Due December 3 (boy); 3 kids; Nashville, Tennessee 455 posts
23rd Apr '13

Was the baby planned? Is it his first?If not he could just be nervous and stressing the thought of parenthood

user banned 1 child; Bluefield, Virginia 1053 posts
23rd Apr '13

he is probably just stressed out about things, and needs a break to organize himself and his thoughts. just breathe:)

user banned 1 child; Bluefield, Virginia 1053 posts
23rd Apr '13

he is probably just stressed out about things, and needs a break to organize himself and his thoughts. just breathe:)

user banned 1 child; Bluefield, Virginia 1053 posts
23rd Apr '13

he is probably just stressed out about things, and needs a break to organize himself and his thoughts. just breathe:)

1inpink2inblue Switzerland 11961 posts
23rd Apr '13

It means he doesn't want the responsibilities that come with a family.

Roo & Sophie's mama 2 kids; Denton, Texas 9318 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting Lisa Lyon:" Was the baby planned? Is it his first?If not he could just be nervous and stressing the thought of parenthood"

!!!!

♥MOBAS♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; California 7198 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting Loka Lokita:" I was caught waaaaay off guard tonight. SO came home and said he loves me but isn't sure if he wants ... [snip!] ... he doesnt love me? What the f**k does "I don't know what I want" even translate into? I'm so confused and hurt. My chest hurts."


What it means to me is that for one reason or another he is confused about something or maybe worried about becoming a father.

user banned Nassau, BA, Bahamas 5125 posts
23rd Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lisa Lyon:</b>" Was the baby planned? Is it his first?If not he could just be nervous and stressing the thought of parenthood"</blockquote>




Yes and yes. But I feel like its not that. I'm worried he likes someone else. This is emotional torture....I wish he would go somewhere else and decide.

A&Ms Mommy 2 kids; North Carolina 10863 posts
23rd Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Loka Lokita:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lisa Lyon:</b>" Was the baby planned? Is it his first?If not ... [snip!] ... its not that. I'm worried he likes someone else. This is emotional torture....I wish he would go somewhere else and decide."</blockquote>




So you started ttc after only 2 months of being together??

1inpink2inblue Switzerland 11961 posts
23rd Apr '13
Quoting A's Mommy +1 {16w}:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Loka Lokita:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lisa Lyon:</b>" ... [snip!] ... wish he would go somewhere else and decide."</blockquote> So you started ttc after only 2 months of being together??"


yep mistake 1

A&Ms Mommy 2 kids; North Carolina 10863 posts
23rd Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting 1inpink2inblue:</b>" yep mistake 1"</blockquote>




Thats what I was thinking :/