Stupid parenting? yes. Abuse? Not in the slightest.
No not abuse, but not necessary.
Quoting Back to Noob Status:" Straightened as in flat ironed or a relaxer?"
What is a relaxer?
Quoting Hathor + A:" What is a relaxer? "
Chemical straightener. Think of it like a reverse perm.
Abuse? Wild accusation. Bad judgement? Depends.
Does she sit down and do this every day? Was she just having fun one day, so see how it looked?
Women just seem to nitpick every little thing that other women do. Much to do about nothing.