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Cast Your Vote:

    • It's weird -- Votes: 47
    • It's fine -- Votes: 29
California Dreaming ♡ Due April 24; 3 kids; The Valley, CA, United States 2836 posts
status 25th Apr '13
Quoting tinana+2:" :!: there was a thread on here a few weeks ago where some people when ballistic over it... lmao. If ... [snip!] ... is uncomfortable, maybe you could just have him in another spot so it's not TOO strange for him- maybe by your head this time? "


Really? Now I want to be nosy lol.

California Dreaming ♡ Due April 24; 3 kids; The Valley, CA, United States 2836 posts
status 25th Apr '13
Quoting eKnuckles:" For me personally, i wouldn't want mine there because i give birth completely naked. But for example ... [snip!] ... her dad, and I think it'd be awesome- he could give her so much support!!! Plus seein vag shots is a choice, but not necessary."


:!:

[Doe Eyed Dirty Lurker] ; 18 kids; noneya, TN, United States 3245 posts
25th Apr '13

It wouldn't be weird for me at all. I'm considering my dad being my 3rd person if I get my vbac

I♥RYLEIGH 49 kids; Windsor, Ontario 10437 posts
25th Apr '13

I wouldn't want my dad seeing that. I think he'd feel uncomfortable too.

JJLMom 1 child; McKean, Pennsylvania 33 posts
25th Apr '13

Heck. If you're comfortable, why not? It's not like you're trying to show off your parts to your dad for any other reason besides bringing his grandchild into this world.

*Call Me MOM* 8 kids; Minnesota 11860 posts
25th Apr '13

ehhhh too weird for me...never would that happen..

but if you are comfortable go for it..

i have a fb friend..thats all she is because i dont like her...anyways she had he dad in the delivery room with both her kids and he was in the whole thing...taking pics of her vagina...not her face but her vagina!! my mom took pics and i appreciate that she had my face in some of the pics to remind me what i was going thru...
this girl and her dad are just weird...used to sleep in the same bed and they hold hands and would walk holding waists except his hand was on her butt all the time...just effing weirdos!! yuck

C-Fab|MoM to HD| Due February 19 (girl); 2 kids; Clarksville, Tennessee 2644 posts
25th Apr '13

My mother and father were both in the room with me when I gave birth,my dad went and sat behind the curtain in the room when I started pushing. I dont think its weird but births are very invasive process so I think for my dad he felt being behind the curtain was best for himself and me. As soon as they covered me up after I got DD out he came right in with tears in his eyes and telling me how proud of me he was. So though he didn't see it he was still able to experience it with me.

laurenmik 3 kids; Aurora, Colorado 7222 posts
25th Apr '13

I'm not close with my dad, so it would be weird for me. But if you have a good relationship I don't see why it would be.

Trey&Genesis'momma 4 kids; 4 angel babies; Somewhere, IN, United States 4659 posts
25th Apr '13
Quoting *boobie babies mom*:" ehhhh too weird for me...never would that happen.. but if you are comfortable go for it.. i have ... [snip!] ... bed and they hold hands and would walk holding waists except his hand was on her butt all the time...just effing weirdos!! yuck"

O....m.....g :shock::oops:......That's just gross!!!!!! I'm close with my dad but never like that. Incest much?

Big D! Due October 7 (boy); 1 child; Escondido, California 9518 posts
25th Apr '13

I wouldn't want my dad there because he's really annoying lol. So I voted weird but if it's not weird for you and your father then that's okay. Maybe this time you dad could stay closer to your head for support if your SO is uncomfortable.

SaucyPoppet Due July 10 (girl); 1 child; Colorado Springs, Colorado 1172 posts
25th Apr '13

I wouldn't want my dad seeing my va***jay once I was out of diapers personally. But everyone is going to feel differently about it

Soon 2 be mom of 3 Due November 6; 2 kids; Massachusetts 412 posts
25th Apr '13

I voted not weird because if it's not uncomfortable for you 2 then why make it weird KWIM? If your SO is uncomfortable with it then like the others have said maybe your Dad could stand somewhere else. For what it's worth I couldn't have my Dad in the room nor would my Dad want to be there. We just don't have that kind of relationship. He's perfectly happy to see the baby when it comes home

Tiffanii :) 2 kids; Olympia, Washington 334 posts
25th Apr '13

It's not weird to me my dad, mom, and husband were in the room with me both times. My first I was 17 and my dad took pictures of the birth and this one I was 21 and he was just in the room with us even when I pushed. I don't find it weird at all.

DaniKayT Due May 3; Nevada 51 posts
25th Apr '13

Lol.. Thanks ladies I enjoyed reading all the feedback! I may just tell him he needs to stay at my head this time just so all involved are comfortable.. I guess I just never thought it was considered weird until my husband said something today. We are getting induced on Monday morning so were talking about who would and would not be there in the room. I've just never been a modest person in my life. I'm the chick who gets into the gown in the dr's office before the nurse even leaves the room and jumps up before the dr is out.. Naked never really occurred to me..

Devon and Kiara's mommy 2 kids; bremerton, wa, United States 1139 posts
25th Apr '13
Quoting Abby Normal:" It would be weird for me because we're not close at all. But in general, not weird."

This!!