Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
29th Apr '13
Quoting Let the rain fall:" I don't think I would call this an addiction. Maybe more like a need for that control. It is like a rapist. ... [snip!] ... IMO you should seek some therapy because in the long run you could end up being hurt very badly by having multiple abortions."


I hope you just worded that badly and you are not comparing her to a rapist.

thisunrest India 10364 posts
30th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Helen C.:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting .CeCe.:</b>" I'd be more concerned about what you're doing to ... [snip!] ... I haven't. I am scared to admit it out loud. I am in a small town, I am scared I will get run out if it comes back to bite me."</blockquote>




Living in a small town, it's very likely people already know. Not he addiction part, but the abortions.



I've read of another woman who's case was similar, but her abortions were a way to stick it to her controlling husband. She'd abort and not tell him she was pregnant or told him she miscarried.



What are you getting from this? I mean, what is it you need that abortions seem to provide? Only an expert can help you, and it's understandable that you'd be hesitant to tell anyone given how politicized abortion is.



But I hope you find help.

thisunrest India 10364 posts
30th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting slayera:</b>" i am sorry you are going through this. i have heard of something similar to this before. i had a couple ... [snip!] ... counseling & meds can help greatly. i am not a professional, just someone who has dealt with these issues. good luck"</blockquote>




VWS. This makes sense. Seeing abortion-addiction as similar to self-mutilation makes this a lot more understandable.

thisunrest India 10364 posts
30th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Let the rain fall:</b>" I don't think I would call this an addiction. Maybe more like a need for that control. It is like a rapist. ... [snip!] ... IMO you should seek some therapy because in the long run you could end up being hurt very badly by having multiple abortions."</blockquote>




I agree with part of this, but IMO comparing OP to a rapist isn't a very good analogy. It's messed up.

What's wrong, flat face? TTC since Jul 2012; 1 child; 3 angel babies; Texas 13678 posts
30th Apr '13
Quoting thisunrest:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Let the rain fall:</b>" I don't think I would call this an addiction. ... [snip!] ... I agree with part of this, but IMO comparing OP to a rapist isn't a very good analogy. It's messed up."

Its all I could think of. I was like what kind of person like that feeling of control?! and that is what I came up with.

BabyPowell(9/26/14)15wks[ Due September 26; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Atlanta, Georgia 1740 posts
30th Apr '13

I must say.....I have nothing to say. I have had more than needed, but not near double digits! All wanted but just couldn't have them due to wrong timing, sickness of my son...etc. And like OP said what if you mess up your body to the point of no return and they day you do want a child you can't. I have been trying for ( in 2months ) a year for my second and last and I have yet to conceive......the anxious momma in me says its the abortions. Yes, you may want to speak to someone about this issue!

michele is expecting Due October 28; New York, New York 319 posts
3rd May '13
Quoting Just Ames:" Not the right forum for this dick bag."


i agree

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
11th May '13

Yeah, I've had 24.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
11th May '13

It will never be illegal.

Captain Obvious 2 kids; Havana, Cuba 25634 posts
11th May '13

:o my legs aren't nasty!

I ♥k e n n a d i Due January 6; 1 child; North Carolina 8 posts
5th Jun '13
Quoting Helen C.:" There aren't many abortion forums out there that are protected. A lot of them get attacked by people ... [snip!] ... I don't know if there is anyone else out there with with obsession, but if you're out there, hi, you are not alone. I am here."


Seriously,
You need to seek help. Not only the fact that your harming your body having so many, but also the fact that you feel you need to get pregnant so that you can have an abortion. I am not here to judge you on getting them because I to had one years ago. But think about when you are ready to start a family and you may have that urge to get one just because. Go and talk to someone to deal with your abortion addiction. I wish you well

JLMJRS Due December 23; Japan 1 posts
8th Jun '13
Quoting Helen C.:" There aren't many abortion forums out there that are protected. A lot of them get attacked by people ... [snip!] ... I don't know if there is anyone else out there with with obsession, but if you're out there, hi, you are not alone. I am here."



I'm sorry but this is the most disturbing thing i have EVER read in my entire life. I feel strongly against abortions and although i don't judge people that get them for a LEGIT reason like, being raped or being forced to, not having the ability to carry the child due to your body etc. but doing it has a "tradition" is just flat out wrong. SO many women in this world would give just about ANYTHING to be able to have a child and you are taking advantage of that ability and straight up abusing it. How would you feel if your mother had an abortion when she was pregnant with you, you wouldn't even exist right now. I don't think you understand how precious life is. and i HIGHLY HIGHLY suggest you seek some sort of help because something has to being going on inside for you to think this is okay enough to do it every single year.

Le_noir_rabbit 3 kids; Chattanooga, Tennessee 373 posts
9th Jun '13
Quoting Dovahkiin:" Yeah, I've had 24. "

Sarcasm in a serious discussion. Also that's not something to joke about.



Even though I am a pro-lifer I can understand what she (The Op) means when she is explaining her mental state and when it comes to describing her obsession.



She's getting a high off the "Holy shit I'm pregnant!" and then a calming, maybe even empowering satisfaction in having an abortion to subdue her situation.
Without putting any of my actual 2cents into it or expressing the way this
whole subject might make me feel.
I strongly agree that you should seek the help a Therapist or Your Religious
counselor. Talk to anyone you can trust, but you do need to talk to someone.
In my opinion I would also re-frame from sexual activity and relationships until
you are in control for your own mental/physical health.
Ps.. I'm not saying "hey your a nut job. I believe you have a serious health issue
that requires professional guidance.
Good luck.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
10th Jun '13
Quoting MommyOf2Princes:"

Read the forum rules idiot.

Le_noir_rabbit 3 kids; Chattanooga, Tennessee 373 posts
11th Jun '13
Quoting Dovahkiin:" Kiss my fat white ass. "


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