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Sugarhiccup LLC ; 5 kids; Lahaina, Hawaii 2841 posts
18th May '13

Sorry I have been out of touch with this thread the last few days. Things have been interesting to say the least. Yesterday I had to fly over to Oahu for some tests and they weren't too good :(. By the time I got back home I was stressed, tired and had a massive migraine. Today I haven't done much of anything but its just been a rough day for me.

Sugarhiccup LLC ; 5 kids; Lahaina, Hawaii 2841 posts
18th May '13

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Sugarhiccup LLC ; 5 kids; Lahaina, Hawaii 2841 posts
18th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Emily :):</b>" Aj got the job! I'm so excited. The good news is that with this job and the plan I drew up we can be ... [snip!] ... have to keep my waitressing job :( but as long as I work one day a week I still qualify for it so it won't be too bad I hope."</blockquote>




Congrats on your dh's new job :)!

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
18th May '13
Quoting Sugarhiccup
user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
18th May '13

not saying my son isn't well behaved but because he throws the occasional fit she thinks he is difficult and doesn't want anything to do with "unperfect" children. Hell even if you are an adult and dont meet her standards. She always has to focus on my weight and give little digs on how to lose it and everything.

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
18th May '13
Quoting Sugarhiccup
Sherri + 3 LLC 3 kids; Mesa, Arizona 3758 posts
18th May '13
Quoting Sugarhiccup
Sherri + 3 LLC 3 kids; Mesa, Arizona 3758 posts
18th May '13
Quoting S*its & giggles:" not saying my son isn't well behaved but because he throws the occasional fit she thinks he is difficult ... [snip!] ... adult and dont meet her standards. She always has to focus on my weight and give little digs on how to lose it and everything. "


I would have to slap a bitch. I hate when other women bash someone because of their weight. I have found that it is usually because they are insecure about themselves and talking about someone else makes them feel better. It is pathetic.
There is no such thing as perfect children and only someone without kids would ever think that way. I used to look at my nephew before I had kids and say " If I ever have kids they will never act like that". Well three kids later, they all act like that sometimes. lol. That's just how kids are.
She sounds like a really mean and hateful person. You do not need that in your life.

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
18th May '13
Quoting Sherri + 3:" I would have to slap a bitch. I hate when other women bash someone because of their weight. I have found ... [snip!] ... sometimes. lol. That's just how kids are. She sounds like a really mean and hateful person. You do not need that in your life."


nope not at all. She is entirely mean and unhappy with her own life which is why she constantly attacks others in the family and then plays the victim. Luckily she isn't blood related. She adopted my mom. She should never have been allowed children. And i would never say that about anyone, but if you met this woman you would understand lol.



so how is your day going so far? The job i had did not work out at all so i have been applying like crazy everywhere! hopefully i get something soon. I dont have to work but i really want to lol. I have to go cash my paychecks today (which they completely screwed up. go figure) it's nice to finally have a paycheck. Even if right after being cashed it's going to bills. lol.

Sherri + 3 LLC 3 kids; Mesa, Arizona 3758 posts
18th May '13
Quoting S*its & giggles:" nope not at all. She is entirely mean and unhappy with her own life which is why she constantly attacks ... [snip!] ... screwed up. go figure) it's nice to finally have a paycheck. Even if right after being cashed it's going to bills. lol."


My day is going okay so far. My DH leaves for Missouri tomorrow morning. He has a training seminar to attend for his job. He will be gone Sunday-Friday. I am going to miss him :( I know its lame but we have never been apart for more then a day since we have been together ( 12 years). I know the kids will miss him too. It is going to be rough taking care of all three kids by myself for 6 days but it will be worth it when he gets promoted and makes more money. Right now he makes $13 an hour and $19 for overtime. He has had the job for 2 or 3 weeks. It is a great opportunity for him so I would never tell him not to go but I am nervous about him being gone.
Other then that my day is pretty good. The kids are behaving so far. They are watching cartoons on netflix.
Why didn't the job work out? Too much standing and stuff? That is why I left my factory job. I could not handle the standing and twisting and bending. That most likely was from my fibromyalgia though. Even though I didn't know I had it yet. I would come home, fall asleep, then wake up so stiff and sore I could not get out of bed. After a few weeks I had to quit. I would literally be in tears because I hurt so bad. Two factory jobs in my life and neither worked out for me either.

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
18th May '13
Quoting Sherri + 3:" My day is going okay so far. My DH leaves for Missouri tomorrow morning. He has a training seminar to ... [snip!] ... to quit. I would literally be in tears because I hurt so bad. Two factory jobs in my life and neither worked out for me either."


yeah. The day after my first day i couldnt bend over or move my back hurt so much, couldnt take care of my kids. After the second day my hands hurt so bad i couldnt grip things or hold on to things so it was hard taking care of the kids. It wasn't worth killing my body over and not being able to take care of my kids on off days.



im sorry your husband has to be gone =( i know how hard and lonely it is. When my husband was in the military it was so hard with him being gone for months at a time. Im glad though that you both are getting the chance for better pay/better advancement so that's an upside =) You both have been together sooo long, i applaud you both. It's so hard to make marriage work. My husband and i have been together only 4 years in august and there were soo many times i didnt think we would make it. 8 years from now? I hope we make it till then lol :P

Sherri + 3 LLC 3 kids; Mesa, Arizona 3758 posts
18th May '13
Quoting S*its & giggles:" yeah. The day after my first day i couldnt bend over or move my back hurt so much, couldnt take care ... [snip!] ... in august and there were soo many times i didnt think we would make it. 8 years from now? I hope we make it till then lol :P"


Thank you very much :) The 12 years have not been easy by any means. We have been through a lot together. He stuck with me through some pretty dark times in my life and I am so grateful he did. We have almost split up countless times over the years but have always stuck it out. He is my everything.
Yeah a job that causes that much pain where you cannot take care of your kiddos is not worth it. Especially when you do not need the job. I would have done the same thing you did.
I cannot believe I am whining and bitching about my DH being gone 6 days when you went for months without yours. God bless you and your DH. That had to be rough. I am such a big baby, I could never be without my DH for months at a time. I would die. You are a strong woman to be able to deal with that. I have so much respect for not only the soldiers, but for their wives and kids as well. I have such high anxiety that I would worry myself sick everyday.

Sugarhiccup LLC ; 5 kids; Lahaina, Hawaii 2841 posts
18th May '13

Thanks for listening.

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
18th May '13
Quoting Sherri + 3:" Thank you very much :) The 12 years have not been easy by any means. We have been through a lot together. ... [snip!] ... not only the soldiers, but for their wives and kids as well. I have such high anxiety that I would worry myself sick everyday."

you aren't whining or bitching or anything. Whether it's 6 days or months, being away from the one you love no matter what. With him out of the military even if he was gone for 6 days i would still be so sad and lonely even with having been apart for months before. Being apart sucks no matter what lol.



it definitely affected our oldest son with him being gone so long. He has always been a daddy's boy so when his father all of a sudden disappeared he stopped talking completely. His father came back and he wouldn't allow daddy anywhere near me and gradually started to adjust and talk again. Then his daddy left again for a few months and he stopped talking again! he is finally starting to talk. =( poor guy. It really does affect them a lot.

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
18th May '13

I am so sorry sugarhiccup for the news you were given and what you are going through. I couldn't even imagine what that must be like. =(