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Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 9822 posts
20th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sherri + 3:</b>" No, there is nothing wrong with looking. My DH knows if Channing Tatum, Tom Brady, or Leonardo Dicaprio ... [snip!] ... unless it is celebrities. There are really not any men around here that are that good looking to make me think that, lol. "</blockquote>




Lol I mean I've met guys where I've been able to say if I weren't married I could have been but not like this time where it's if I weren't married I'd probably pull you into the nearest coat closet lol.... Now I'd never act on it like I said but I'm glad he's leaving. I Think the biggest problem is that I'm a flirty person. Dh knows that and doesn't care as long as thats it. But when I meet another flirty person it's rough lol.

Sherri + 3 LLC 3 kids; Mesa, Arizona 3758 posts
20th May '13
Quoting Just Emily :):" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sherri + 3:</b>" No, there is nothing wrong with looking. My ... [snip!] ... I'm a flirty person. Dh knows that and doesn't care as long as thats it. But when I meet another flirty person it's rough lol."


With Channing, Tom and Leo it is more of a " I don't care if I'm married or not" type thing, lmao. J/K well kind of.
I understand what you mean though. I am definitely not a flirty type person. My DH is though. I hate it and he knows it. He does not do it in front of me but I am positive he does it when i am not around. I see it like your DH does. It is not a problem as long as that is all there is too it. I just don't want him doing it in front of me or when our kids are around.

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
22nd May '13

I got a baby ferret! My husband really doesn't like them at all, but he saw the ad that the ferret was free with a free cage, bedding, food, accessories, etc and said i could get it if i want. He is adorable! I'm so happy lol. And the kids love him lol.

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 9822 posts
22nd May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" I got a baby ferret! My husband really doesn't like them at all, but he saw the ad that the ferret was ... [snip!] ... food, accessories, etc and said i could get it if i want. He is adorable! I'm so happy lol. And the kids love him lol. "</blockquote>




Lol that's awesome! Dh and I are over exotic animals lol. We've had three rabbits and five mice. We'd love another rabbit but I think we're sticking to fish dogs and babies for now.

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 9822 posts
24th May '13

I'm really starting to like this job. I mean I hate being on my feet all day but the people are great. There's a couple nice older guys (40ish) who are just good guys. They have your back and genuinely act interested if you've got a problem. There's a couple 19 year old guys who are nice eye candy lol and super fun at work. One of them (the same one I was talking about before who gives me feelings that make me feel super guilty cause I'm married) found out the singing why don't we just dance by josh turner makes me weak in the knees. Now he keeps singing it and omg he can sing. It's driving me nuts. It like he's trying to tempt me. Then there's this creepy dude who keeps telling me that dh needs to watch out cause he's going to steal me away and I'm like lol no I really don't think he needs to worry about you but nice try. but the girls there... Idk why but I just can't seem to get along with them. I mean they're nice enough I guess. But idk. I just can't get along with other girls. I think it makes dh worried that he asks about work and all he hears are guys names.

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
24th May '13
Quoting Just Emily :):" I'm really starting to like this job. I mean I hate being on my feet all day but the people are great. ... [snip!] ... I just can't get along with other girls. I think it makes dh worried that he asks about work and all he hears are guys names."


yeah my husband would get worried too. I would try to become friends with more of the females than males. Getting a long with males is fine, but flirting is a no no. At least to us. Other relationships are different, but in ours flirting isn't ok even if it's kind of innocent flirting. It's just a respect thing between us.

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 9822 posts
24th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" yeah my husband would get worried too. I would try to become friends with more of the females than males. ... [snip!] ... are different, but in ours flirting isn't ok even if it's kind of innocent flirting. It's just a respect thing between us."</blockquote>




See dh knows I'm not intentionally flirty but I have a personality and sense of humor that others easily mistake for flirting. But it's the same with girls and guys so I guess tats why it doesn't bug dh. But this one guy is diving me up a wall. He does even do anything for real but by he nd of my shift he has me so turned on i come home and practically attack dh.

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 9822 posts
24th May '13

I just don't know what to do. I don't try to flirt with him or go out of my way to be near him or anything. But it's a small kitchen at work. We all put hands on each others backs and shoulders when we're squeezing by or trying to get around each other. And he and another guy are always singing and goofing off. And ughhhh I just don't know what to do cause no one is really doing anything wrong. It just gets me going being in the same room..... He leaves in July. I'm just hoping we don't work together too much until them.

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
24th May '13
Quoting Just Emily :):" I just don't know what to do. I don't try to flirt with him or go out of my way to be near him or anything. ... [snip!] ... just gets me going being in the same room..... He leaves in July. I'm just hoping we don't work together too much until them."


Yeah i can see that being a little hard. However i would put a stop to the touching part. If you have to go behind say loudly "going behind you." If your stomach or whatever happens to hit him as you walk by then whatever lol. but avoid the touching part with hands. It isn't necessary to use hands to get by someone. With you not touching them and making a point of not touching they will eventually get the point. And talk about your husband a lot. If that doesn't get the point across maybe a little conversation will.

Sugarhiccup LLC ; 5 kids; Lahaina, Hawaii 2842 posts
24th May '13

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Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 9822 posts
24th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" Yeah i can see that being a little hard. However i would put a stop to the touching part. If you have ... [snip!] ... get the point. And talk about your husband a lot. If that doesn't get the point across maybe a little conversation will."</blockquote>




Yea I talk about about aj all the time. They even ask about him lol

Sherri + 3 LLC 3 kids; Mesa, Arizona 3758 posts
24th May '13
Quoting Just Emily :):" I just don't know what to do. I don't try to flirt with him or go out of my way to be near him or anything. ... [snip!] ... just gets me going being in the same room..... He leaves in July. I'm just hoping we don't work together too much until them."


That sounds like a recipe for disaster to me. I would definitely avoid physical contact at all costs. It seems like you have a crush on this guy and that can escalate pretty quickly. I bet July can't come soon enough for you, lol.

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 9822 posts
24th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sherri + 3:</b>" That sounds like a recipe for disaster to me. I would definitely avoid physical contact at all costs. ... [snip!] ... seems like you have a crush on this guy and that can escalate pretty quickly. I bet July can't come soon enough for you, lol."</blockquote>




It really can't lol. I'm used to guys hitting on me but they're never guys that I find attractive so I'm always like yeah ok.... And I'm used to being around guys that are fun to look at but they never want me so it's not a problem.

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
24th May '13
Quoting Just Emily :):" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sherri + 3:</b>" That sounds like a recipe for disaster to ... [snip!] ... always like yeah ok.... And I'm used to being around guys that are fun to look at but they never want me so it's not a problem."


yeah it can be difficult. It's human nature to be tempted and have desires and 90% of the time people will act on that whether they planned on it or not. I would find every possible way to take myself out of that situation. Having fun at work is one thing, but these guys are obviously getting other signals, or just taking it further than it should with a married woman. What I personally would do is ease back on the joking around a long with the physical contact. When they feel you have put up some walls they will sense that they shouldn't go over those "boundaries". You may think you are coming off as bitchy, but you aren't. There are normal boundaries when you are married that YOU have to show THEM are in place. The last thing i think you would want is to go past temptation and make a big mistake.



trust me, my husband and i had a horrible marriage in the beginning. It was literally hell. So we both learned to take ourselves out of situations that could lead to flirting and then lead to more.



also them asking about your husband doesn't always mean anything. Every man i ever met didn't care if a woman was married. He would still go for it. lol. Men are pigs lol.

Sherri + 3 LLC 3 kids; Mesa, Arizona 3758 posts
24th May '13

You know what, I really cannot talk to much when it comes to what people name their children and how they spell their names. My Daughter's name is Baileigh ( pronounced Bailey) but when I seen what an old high school friend and a woman from church named their daughters I had to go ......WTF???????



This girl Amanda who I went to school with named her little girl JENASYS. I am assuming it is pronounced "Genesis".
The woman from church named her daughter " Rylo Stolis". Umm....Rylo sounds like a pets name to me. It is not feminine at all. It sounds horrible.
I really think some people just take it to the extremes on trying to be different and original. It is not cute and your kid is going to hate you. lol
*end pointless name rant*