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user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
3rd Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Emily :):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just ... [snip!] ... Exactly! I'm like I bet 90% of the "perfect" moms on here don't practice what they preach in real life"</blockquote>




Yup. I heard of one mom on here being arrested for child abuse and a lot of ppl were so surprised. I'm sure there is more than one "perfect" mom who is downright horrid to their kids. I just shrug these women off. Either that or I sit back and laugh at their responses when they gang up on me.

Just Emily :) Due June 22; 1 child; Brownsville, Tn, United States 6229 posts
3rd Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Emily :):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting S*its ... [snip!] ... to their kids. I just shrug these women off. Either that or I sit back and laugh at their responses when they gang up on me."</blockquote>



What gets me is when they gang up on you put you go read their stuff and they're complaining about the same shit.

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
3rd Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Emily :):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just ... [snip!] ... What gets me is when they gang up on you put you go read their stuff and they're complaining about the same shit."</blockquote>




They are all hypocrites. You can't talk to these women without drama, let alone trust them one iota. There are times there are good conversations and good people, but the bad times make it suck.



That's why I'm glad we have our little group at least. We are all very similar, and even if we didn't agree on the same thing we wouldn't viciously attack one another lol

Just Emily :) Due June 22; 1 child; Brownsville, Tn, United States 6229 posts
3rd Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Emily :):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting S*its ... [snip!] ... at least. We are all very similar, and even if we didn't agree on the same thing we wouldn't viciously attack one another lol"</blockquote>




Exactly. It's like high school

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
3rd Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Emily :):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just ... [snip!] ... agree on the same thing we wouldn't viciously attack one another lol"</blockquote> Exactly. It's like high school"</blockquote>




Technology has helped improve things, but at the same time it has caused so many problems. If only people weren't such fucktards.

Just Emily :) Due June 22; 1 child; Brownsville, Tn, United States 6229 posts
3rd Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Emily :):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting S*its ... [snip!] ... has helped improve things, but at the same time it has caused so many problems. If only people weren't such fucktards."</blockquote>



So on a happier note I'm getting sooo anxious. Dh is hopefully going to start working with my dad soon. This guessing game of when we're finally going to start to ttc again is killing me. I want another baby so bad. I just found out my cousin who I can't stand has a four month old and now they're already expecting again. There's babies being born like crazy on my news feed today. It's like they're teasing me :(

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
3rd Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Emily :):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just ... [snip!] ... they're already expecting again. There's babies being born like crazy on my news feed today. It's like they're teasing me :("</blockquote>




Holy shit 4 months later knocked up again? I'm waiting till my second son is 5 yrs old before I consider another baby. Having two of them gets sooo hard as it is when they start getting older.



Well I hope the best for you and that you get pregnant soon! :)

Just Emily :) Due June 22; 1 child; Brownsville, Tn, United States 6229 posts
3rd Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Emily :):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting S*its ... [snip!] ... them gets sooo hard as it is when they start getting older. Well I hope the best for you and that you get pregnant soon! :)"</blockquote>




Thanks lol and yeah I was like holy shit keep your legs closed at first then I remembered they're already 36 ish so probably trying o hurry up and get their family.

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
3rd Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Emily :):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just ... [snip!] ... keep your legs closed at first then I remembered they're already 36 ish so probably trying o hurry up and get their family."</blockquote>




Gotcha, yeah I can fully understand that.

Sherri + 3 LLC 3 kids; Mesa, Arizona 3758 posts
3rd Jul '13

It really sucks to be in pain all the time and have the people closest to you calling you a hypochondriac. It is especially hurtful coming from my DH. Out of all people, I would expect him to understand, or at least try to. It makes me sad :(

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
3rd Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sherri + 3:</b>" It really sucks to be in pain all the time and have the people closest to you calling you a hypochondriac. ... [snip!] ... hurtful coming from my DH. Out of all people, I would expect him to understand, or at least try to. It makes me sad :("</blockquote>



Omg that's horrible. That makes me sad :( I'm sorry that's happening. Maybe dh is frustrated with you being in pain a lot? Or maybe what he considers a lot?



My dh would be an ass if I was always in pain since I have to do everything around here. When he is sick or hurt he doesn't have to do a damn thing. When I am so sick the room is spinning or I am in serious pain I still have to do everything while he sits on the couch. So if I did nothing you bet he would be mean. Stupid men. Lol

Sugarhiccup LLC 5 kids; Lahaina, Hawaii 2825 posts
3rd Jul '13

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Sherri + 3 LLC 3 kids; Mesa, Arizona 3758 posts
3rd Jul '13
Quoting S*its & giggles:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sherri + 3:</b>" It really sucks to be in pain all the time ... [snip!] ... pain I still have to do everything while he sits on the couch. So if I did nothing you bet he would be mean. Stupid men. Lol"


He thinks I exaggerate how much I hurt. I really don't. I admit I can be a baby about it but I do not have a high pain tolerance. I also really believe that from being on narcotics for a long time, they have lowered my pain tolerance even more. I still do everything around the house that I need to, so it's not like I am neglecting anything. If he thinks he is frustrated, he should try being in my shoes for a day. Like you said, men are even bigger babies then we are. I bet he couldn't do it. It just hurts my feelings that he feels this way. I need his support, ya know?

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
3rd Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sherri + 3:</b>" He thinks I exaggerate how much I hurt. I really don't. I admit I can be a baby about it but I do not ... [snip!] ... babies then we are. I bet he couldn't do it. It just hurts my feelings that he feels this way. I need his support, ya know? "</blockquote>




Yeah. Your dh is your partner, the one that makes you feel better and helps you get through things. When they aren't there for you in that way it hurts. It feels almost like a betrayal. When you get a chance maybe communicate to him how that made you feel and ask him why he said/thinks those things. Hopefully that helps to solve this for you both.

Sherri + 3 LLC 3 kids; Mesa, Arizona 3758 posts
3rd Jul '13

This is the only thing we really have problems with. He is my best friend. He is just a very blunt person and says whatever he is feeling at the time. He doesn't really stop to think that he is hurting someone's feelings. Usually he feels bad about it later and apologizes. That is most likely what will happen this time too.