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Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 8106 posts
26th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" It has actually been super sunny and warm the last few days which is surprising. Usually it just rains. ... [snip!] ... be with my family since it had been 4 years away from my family and non of them had even met my boys. So i am much happier now."</blockquote>




That's awesome. Dh was a marine also :) we were both stationed in San diego. I was friends with his staff sargents roommate and met through a bizarre series of friends lol. He's from south Dakota and I'm from Ohio but we moved to tx to be with my parents. Only my mom and dad have met ds on my side :( its sucks. I miss Ohio.

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 8106 posts
26th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" two boys. My oldest will be 3 may 5th and my youngest boy is a year and a half. the oldest has always ... [snip!] ... I would die and get bitchy. seriously. lol. thats why i like wa. usually its cool and rainy and the summers arent that hot lol."</blockquote>




I just have one boy. He's almost 14 months. Chandler James :) idk how I i feel about Texas yet. It's not Ohio lol I love Ohio. I tried to get orders to Washington because I like the sound of the climate but I ended p separating for anxiety instead. I'm super jealous your boys are so close. I want Irish twins but I'm not even sure when well be in a good position for baby number two.

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
26th Apr '13
Quoting Just Emily :):" <blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" It has actually been super sunny and ... [snip!] ... I'm from Ohio but we moved to tx to be with my parents. Only my mom and dad have met ds on my side :( its sucks. I miss Ohio."


maybe one day you can go back. My husband and i sat down and had a conversation over how i wasnt happy in colorado and i explained how i had followed him for 4 years and i would now like to go where i am happy and for him to make a move for me. He fully understood and agreed.

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
26th Apr '13
Quoting Just Emily :):" <blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" two boys. My oldest will be 3 may 5th ... [snip!] ... jealous your boys are so close. I want Irish twins but I'm not even sure when well be in a good position for baby number two."


Irish twins would be so hard. lol. It was hard enough with them being a year and a half apart. Although my oldest from day one wasnt jealous or anything. He would get a binky, blanket, or bottle if my youngest started crying. To this day he always thinks of his brother and takes care of him too. On easter my youngest didnt grasp that you picked up a bunch of eggs and put it in your basket, he picked up one and stood there trying to get it open while my oldest is running around grabbing a bunch up. The oldest sees that his baby brother doesnt have eggs in his basket so he started picking the rest up and putting it in his baby brothers basket for him. It was really sweet and touching to see how much he cared for his brother and how much he thought of him.

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 8106 posts
26th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" maybe one day you can go back. My husband and i sat down and had a conversation over how i wasnt happy ... [snip!] ... him for 4 years and i would now like to go where i am happy and for him to make a move for me. He fully understood and agreed."</blockquote>




That's awesome that he's so understanding. I'm sure dh would if it told him how much it meant to me but there's also nothing really left for me there.

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
26th Apr '13
Quoting Just Emily :):" <blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" two boys. My oldest will be 3 may 5th ... [snip!] ... jealous your boys are so close. I want Irish twins but I'm not even sure when well be in a good position for baby number two."


your son is close in age to my youngest. He was born december 8th 2011. And i was definitely not prepared or ready for our second. He was a surprise. I found out on april fools day and my husband had JUST gotten to Yuma AZ for pre deployment training. when i called and told him he thought it was an april fools joke. I wasnt happy through the pregnancy, but once i had him i was so happy and in love with my baby =)

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 8106 posts
26th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" Irish twins would be so hard. lol. It was hard enough with them being a year and a half apart. Although ... [snip!] ... basket for him. It was really sweet and touching to see how much he cared for his brother and how much he thought of him."</blockquote>




Oh my goodness that's too cute :) you're very lucky to have such sweet boys and I'm sure having great parents is a huge part of that. I need to head to bed but I'd love to pt you as long as you're ok with that :)

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
26th Apr '13
Quoting Just Emily :):" <blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" maybe one day you can go back. My husband ... [snip!] ... so understanding. I'm sure dh would if it told him how much it meant to me but there's also nothing really left for me there."


=( im sorry. I come from a small family. I grew up in fostercare so the family i do have means everything to me. it was hard being away from them for 4 years. We are a dysfunctional family, but i love them either way lol. I hope wherever you go in life you are happy. Life is so short, its best to make sure to be happy =)

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
26th Apr '13
Quoting Just Emily :):" <blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" Irish twins would be so hard. lol. It ... [snip!] ... having great parents is a huge part of that. I need to head to bed but I'd love to pt you as long as you're ok with that :)"


heck yes i am. lol. FINALLY someone to talk to that i feel is more than just a random person KWIM? lol.

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 8106 posts
26th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" heck yes i am. lol. FINALLY someone to talk to that i feel is more than just a random person KWIM? lol."</blockquote>




Hah yeah :) I'd stay up if dh weren't poking me asking if it's bedtime lol... See you around soon :)

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
26th Apr '13
Quoting Just Emily :):" <blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" heck yes i am. lol. FINALLY someone ... [snip!] ... Hah yeah :) I'd stay up if dh weren't poking me asking if it's bedtime lol... See you around soon :)"


lmao my husband does the same thing. Except we call it night night time since we say that to our boys. We are old and usually are asleep by now and when we get tired we will ask the other one "is it night night time?" lol

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 8106 posts
27th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" lmao my husband does the same thing. Except we call it night night time since we say that to our boys. ... [snip!] ... boys. We are old and usually are asleep by now and when we get tired we will ask the other one "is it night night time?" lol"</blockquote>




Lol yeah I knew it was bad when I crawled in bed and asked dh for night nights cause that's what I say to ds when he's giving kisses before bed lol

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
27th Apr '13
Quoting Just Emily :):" <blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" lmao my husband does the same thing. ... [snip!] ... bad when I crawled in bed and asked dh for night nights cause that's what I say to ds when he's giving kisses before bed lol"


lmao that's too cute. So what are you up to today?

Sherri + 3 LLC 3 kids; Mesa, Arizona 3758 posts
27th Apr '13
user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
27th Apr '13
Quoting Sherri + 3:" Sounds like you and I have lived the same life. I am still harboring hurt and anger over a friend who ... [snip!] ... I would never let anyone get that close to me again. So far I have kept that promise, with the exceptions of my DH and kids."


When you repeatedly put yourself out there and trust people and they repeatedly hurt you and ruin that trust, you start to not trust anyone ever again. It sucks people are like that. Maybe one day ill start to build a friendship with someone again. Till then i will be super careful.



people just suck in general. Im sorry you have been hurt. I hate people who can be like that to others.