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I'm just not the same :/.... Advice? BeautyLies21 1 child; Canton, Ohio 46 posts
26th Apr '13

After I had my baby girl, I seemed to have changed my whole self if that makes sense. All I want to do is take care of her and that it. Of course there is nothing wrong with that.... but it has become a problem. I don't want to have sex with my fiance anymore, I don't acknowledge him, talk to him, anything. An for some reason everything he does just makes me so mad! I don't know whats wrong with me or why I have changed. I just want things to go back to the way they were :/. Any advice?

Mrs.Sherwood ☮ 21 Weeks Due January 12 (girl); Mesa, AZ, United States 4076 posts
27th Apr '13
Quoting BeautyLies21:" After I had my baby girl, I seemed to have changed my whole self if that makes sense. All I want to do ... [snip!] ... I don't know whats wrong with me or why I have changed. I just want things to go back to the way they were :/. Any advice? "


I would seriously consider couples counseling, it may really help your relationship. It's also possible you're just in a rut. Try to do something romantic for him - hire a babysitter and go on a date, offer to do something sexual for him, try to make him feel like he's still important to you. I'm sure you mean well but you have to learn to give love to both your daughter and your husband. I hope you guys can work it out. Good luck hun.

BeautyLies21 1 child; Canton, Ohio 46 posts
27th Apr '13

Thank you for the advice I'll def. try those things out.

BeccaSauraus 1 child; Baton Rouge, Louisiana 1869 posts
27th Apr '13

That happened to me after I had my LO. It was like that for a few weeks or a month and it went away

BeautyLies21 1 child; Canton, Ohio 46 posts
28th Apr '13
Quoting BeccaSauraus:" That happened to me after I had my LO. It was like that for a few weeks or a month and it went away"


I really hope this goes away. I've been trying to be more affectionate, but I just feel like I shouldn't have to try it should just be there.
C'sMom! 1 child; Minnesota 1263 posts
28th Apr '13

Post Partum possibly?

BeautyLies21 1 child; Canton, Ohio 46 posts
28th Apr '13
Quoting Chloe's mommy*:" Post Partum possibly?"

I consider the possibility I'm actually going to ask my doctor at my 6 weeks check up

C'sMom! 1 child; Minnesota 1263 posts
28th Apr '13
Quoting BeautyLies21:" I consider the possibility I'm actually going to ask my doctor at my 6 weeks check up "

I would do that. You could be taking it out on him. It happens to a lot of women. Good Luck! When is your appointment?

BeautyLies21 1 child; Canton, Ohio 46 posts
28th Apr '13
Quoting Chloe's mommy*:" I would do that. You could be taking it out on him. It happens to a lot of women. Good Luck! When is your appointment?"


It's the 7th of next month. So real soon.
C'sMom! 1 child; Minnesota 1263 posts
29th Apr '13
Quoting BeautyLies21:" "

Keep us updated

BeautyLies21 1 child; Canton, Ohio 46 posts
30th Apr '13

Will do. :)