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I'm so tireddd of this Mama Lizzy :] 1 child; Texas 5575 posts
28th Apr '13

Every god damned Sunday my SO is in a horrible mood.



SOMETHING has to go wrong and then the whole day is ruined.
This morning the dogs pooped in the laundry room and tracked it all in the kitchen and dining room...



He stays in a shit mood while we go get breakfast...go to the mall and come home...he gets road rage driving us to and from.



I want to vomit from all the anxiety of getting so frustrated with him but not saying anything because I don't want to have a fight in front of our baby.



As soon as our son wakes up I am taking him and going out for the day....hopefully SO will be sacked out and I won't need to tell him.



I need to learn how to not get so upset and ignore his bs



:(
*do not quote* * end vent*

SaucyPoppet Due July 10 (girl); 1 child; Colorado Springs, Colorado 1172 posts
28th Apr '13

ugh mine does this shit, too. Or if he does something wrong, no matter how I point it out to him (I have tried calmly, jokingly, sweetly, etc) he flips out and gets pissed at ME because HE screwed something up and is in a shit mood for hours.



Like yesterday he was looking forward to getting lunch at his favorite place while we were running errands. We couldn't find parking close at the mall, so he dropped me off at a door at the mall. I went to the door and sat down and waited for him to park. (Which is what I do EVERY TIME he drops me off at the door of a store, by the way) FOR TWENTY MINUTES. I finally get a call from him asking where *I* am!!! "Uhm..I'm sitting at the door you left me at...?" and he gets all pissed off saying he already went to the shoe store we were headed to and that he'd come get me and I was like "No it's ok, I'll find it." So I get there and he's in a foul mood. I grab what I needed as quickly as I possibly could (took about 5 minutes) and we headed home, he wasn't saying a thing to me but bitching out every one driving near us and we drove by his lunch place. I asked if we were still going to get his lunch there and he scowled and said "No!" and we went straight home. He was a grumpy b***h all day long after that >.<

Mama Lizzy :] 1 child; Texas 5575 posts
28th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting SaucyPoppet:</b>" ugh mine does this shit, too. Or if he does something wrong, no matter how I point it out to him (I have ... [snip!] ... lunch there and he scowled and said "No!" and we went straight home. He was a grumpy b***h all day long after that >.<"</blockquote>




:( I'm sorry....it just gets me so mad. Have you gotten to where you can not let it ruin your day too?

SaucyPoppet Due July 10 (girl); 1 child; Colorado Springs, Colorado 1172 posts
28th Apr '13

No :( I'm 7 months pregnant so I'm emotional as f**k and the last two weeks have been much much worse and I cry at the drop of a hat :( Normally I'd go drink some wine or something but I can't do that now lol And I can't drive so I'm stuck with his grumpy bitchy ass most the time :-S

Mrs.Mud 6 kids; 2 angel babies; North Dakota 3304 posts
28th Apr '13

Why are you with this a*****e? All I see from you are posts about how much he sucks. Leave him. You deserve to be happy and your son doesn't need to grow up in an unloving, tense environment.

Mama Lizzy :] 1 child; Texas 5575 posts
28th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting SaucyPoppet:</b>" No :( I'm 7 months pregnant so I'm emotional as f**k and the last two weeks have been much much worse ... [snip!] ... some wine or something but I can't do that now lol And I can't drive so I'm stuck with his grumpy bitchy ass most the time :-S"</blockquote>



Ugh that sounds awful....My SO was wayyyyy better when I was pregnant....he had a easier job tho...I would trade the money for his old self any day :(

Mama Lizzy :] 1 child; Texas 5575 posts
28th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.Mud:</b>" Why are you with this a*****e? All I see from you are posts about how much he sucks. Leave him. You deserve to be happy and your son doesn't need to grow up in an unloving, tense environment."</blockquote>




We are starting counseling soon....If things don't progress within a few months I am