I want to leave I really do but makes me feel so guilty about it. He constantly embarrasses me in public and talks down to me. People just stare at him, he will straight up cuss me out tell me I'm a stupid b***h and what ever else. I'm not happy I never really have been but I wanted my little family and I still had hope he would change. Well there reality kicked in and I want out. I want.to.know how.you ladies did it. I have a job but no.car I totaled mine April 1st. I have a place to.go but its 45+ mins away from my job.
If you go the place that you can go to how hard would it to find a new job?
You totalled your new car that you just got? I would get a new job. I have seen your posts. You can leave. You should have left ages ago.
I also have noticed your posts in the past. I'm glad you want out. You don't deserve any of that, seriously. You gave up and put up with so much, and I don't even mean his abuse.
Can you find a job closer to your new place?
I wish I had something more useful to say.
You can do it!
:( you need to get out.. I've read your posts before
Yes I totaled my car I only drove it 5 days and.the bolts holding the tire on snapped while I was driving home. I got a $1985 check for a new car and he took.it.and spent it all. So I'm back to nothing. I'm going to see if.I can transfer stores to make it easier for me. I'm determined this.time
All my money is direct deposited to my moms bank.acct and he will find that out Friday and Thia time I'm not leaving for a guy I'm leaving for me.
WTF.... that was YOUR money not his... WTF. good for you. You need to leave. :)
<blockquote><b>Quoting Bummo Jollyfuxk:</b>" Yes I totaled my car I only drove it 5 days and.the bolts holding the tire on snapped ... [snip!] ... deposited to my moms bank.acct and he will find that out Friday and Thia time I'm not leaving for a guy I'm leaving for me."</blockquote>
Was the check titled under your name? I'd call the cops.
the title.was in both of.our names so.the check.was also
<blockquote><b>Quoting Bummo Jollyfuxk:</b>" the title.was in both of.our names so.the check.was also"</blockquote>
I'm so sorry you're going through this :/ it will get better in time & you will come out stronger if you stick to your decision.
I've been there, I dated someone who would call me names and cuss me out in public, called me a stupid wh**e if I tried having a conversation with anyone, even told me I needed to eat more and gain more weight so no one else would want me, it was ridiculous and totally not worth it. At the time, I was only 18.. so when I left, I just went back to my mom's. I didn't have a child to care for or bills that needed to be paid, so it wasn't that big of a deal. I can't really offer you any advice, but just know you're not alone and you definitely need to get out.
I'm lucky to not.have bills to.pay other then $55 phone bill. I'm just so depressed and I'm dead set on leaving.having a car or.not I'll make it work some how. My mom can.help me during the summer with addi and he's.not working so.he can.keep her.even tho it will kill me to not have her around all the time