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CJKB+JMB=AMB 1 child; Watertown, New York 2525 posts
29th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting SillyBek:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Blasian Blossom *:</b>" Gosh I couldnt even imagine why would ... [snip!] ... so I'm thinking this is either fake, consensual, or your very young and don't know what it means to stand up for yourself"</blockquote>




kids are born everyday under the worst circumstances, that dosent mean they shouldnt be allowed to live! if the mother believes she could do it thats her choice, who says the baby has to have a hard life and be ridiculed for being the by product of rape, why the f**k would people know that?! obviously one day op might tell her child the truth but if.shes a good mom shell raise her kid to be ok with who its father is and still be a proud, decent human being, but saying its life is gonna be.horrible because of other peoples opinions is stupid i would hope no one other than her the brother and parents will know the truth, and they dont fuckin matter anyways

♥MOBAS♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; California 7198 posts
29th Apr '13
Quoting Chessie Baby:" What are the chances my baby will have physical or mental disorders if the father is my biological brother? ... [snip!] ... so I'd really love to speak with you. Thanks, and please no hurtful comments. Those in glass houses shouldn't throw stones."


Shhhhh. We are not supposed to talk about this.

Mama On The Run 3 kids; 762 posts
30th Apr '13

You should report him. Your parents are being selfish cowards. Your brother doesn't deserve to live a normal life for what he did to you! My mother never believed me when I told her my step-dad sexually abused me, never. She let him off scott free because she had his back, not mine...... now? I'm 28 years old - with THREE daughters, and I don't speak to either of those a*****es. f**k them!!! They both ruined me.



When you get much older - which, I think you sound VERY young... but, when your older and your looking at your children - your going to wish you did more because you have to look at that monster in the face, for however long you hold onto him.

Mama On The Run 3 kids; 762 posts
30th Apr '13

Oh & I was talking about monster as in your brother - not your unborn baby!



I did however went to school with a family of incest. A brother and sister had children (4 I believe) - all of them are mentally challenged.

VS78 Due September 20; Toronto, Ontario 1 posts
30th Apr '13

Your parents are horrible to ask you to keep quiet about the situation and what your brother has done to you is horrific. Honestly, if I was you, I would report parents and brother to the authorities. There is help out there for girls in your circumstance. You need to find the resources and I think you should talk to your caregiver about this. It will only help you and your baby in the long run. You do not deserve a life like this. Do the best for you and your baby. The relationships in your life are not healthy. Get out while you can and start a new life. It may be hard, but you are not the first person to have to go through this and you are not the last. With best wishes for you and your baby.

Thr3e Little Birds 35 kids; Marysville, Washington 2720 posts
30th Apr '13
Quoting Chessie Baby:" Unfortunately no I haven't reported him. My parents both know but they said if I reported him they would ... [snip!] ... I'm able to get a job and save up some money I can move out with my baby and start my own life. I just have to wait until then."

Your parents could get in legal trouble as well. If he is willing to rape his own sister, he will most likely be willing to rape someone else too. That would be a big burden on your conscience! You can get help for victims of abuse from somewhere to help you with your financial situation and your parents should get in some serious trouble as well. My grandmother, who raised me, did the same thing when I was raped. I was 16 at the time and looking back I wish I would have done something about it, but I was in an abusive (Emotionally and mentally) family and I did not admit it at the time. It has taken years for me to heal, but take it from me, you do NOT want to stay around those type of people! If they have that kind of hold over you, you know there must be some sort of abuse going on, whether mental or emotional, it is still abuse. My heart breaks for you OP but PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE report your brother and your parents as well. They need help and consequences for not protecting their daughter. You deserve better. You are not alone though, so don't forget that.

Thr3e Little Birds 35 kids; Marysville, Washington 2720 posts
30th Apr '13
Quoting Chessie Baby:" Unfortunately no I haven't reported him. My parents both know but they said if I reported him they would ... [snip!] ... I'm able to get a job and save up some money I can move out with my baby and start my own life. I just have to wait until then."

And I just want to add as well: My little sister was also raped at 18 by a local drug dealer. She did not report him for fear of what he would do to her. He went on to rape multiple other women and one of them was a 13 year old, who killed herself after the incident. My sister feels like it is her fault because she didn't report him. Had she reported him, he would have been in prison and not free to be out raping other women. :(

Thr3e Little Birds 35 kids; Marysville, Washington 2720 posts
30th Apr '13
Quoting Blasian Blossom *:" Gosh I couldnt even imagine why would anyone let a child be brought into this world under those circumstances.. Its not for me to judge though so Im just going to keep my mouth close."

Yes, please keep your mouth closed.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 21595 posts
30th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Thr3e Little Birds:</b>" And I just want to add as well: My little sister was also raped at 18 by a local drug dealer. She did ... [snip!] ... because she didn't report him. Had she reported him, he would have been in prison and not free to be out raping other women. :("</blockquote>




She can't put that on herself :( it could have been a situation where he didn't get punished...



But I hope OP becomes strong enough to be able to tell someone trustworthy about this.

Thr3e Little Birds 35 kids; Marysville, Washington 2720 posts
30th Apr '13
Quoting SillyBek:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Blasian Blossom *:</b>" Gosh I couldnt even imagine why would ... [snip!] ... so I'm thinking this is either fake, consensual, or your very young and don't know what it means to stand up for yourself"

Or....she could leave and raise her child in peace to be a contributing member of society. Maybe you see the child as a shameful thing, but not everyone else is a judgmental jerk like you.

Thr3e Little Birds 35 kids; Marysville, Washington 2720 posts
30th Apr '13
Quoting Carissa Biron:" <blockquote><b>Quoting SillyBek:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Blasian Blossom ... [snip!] ... is stupid i would hope no one other than her the brother and parents will know the truth, and they dont fuckin matter anyways"


Perfectly stated! I agree 100%!
Situations are 90% what we make of them.

Thr3e Little Birds 35 kids; Marysville, Washington 2720 posts
30th Apr '13
Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Thr3e Little Birds:</b>" And I just want to add as well: My ... [snip!] ... where he didn't get punished... But I hope OP becomes strong enough to be able to tell someone trustworthy about this."

I agree and I tell her the same thing, but she doesn't listen. She was extremely depressed for over a year because of it. Suicidal. :( Putting myself in her shoes, I would feel the same way. I did not report the guy that raped me because I was literally locked in my home and barred from talking to anyone for months. I could have fought my way out, but back then I was an abused child that just did as she was told. It sounds horrible, but thankfully my rapist was killed in Iraq. I honestly can say that is one soldier I was glad was dead. He was not a hero in my eyes at all. When I heard he was killed I was happy.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 21595 posts
30th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Thr3e Little Birds:</b>" I agree and I tell her the same thing, but she doesn't listen. She was extremely depressed for over a ... [snip!] ... can say that is one soldier I was glad was dead. He was not a hero in my eyes at all. When I heard he was killed I was happy."</blockquote>




Sad :(

I love Daisy xxxx Due July 4; Manchester, United Kingdom 1422 posts
30th Apr '13
Quoting SillyBek:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Blasian Blossom *:</b>" Gosh I couldnt even imagine why would ... [snip!] ... so I'm thinking this is either fake, consensual, or your very young and don't know what it means to stand up for yourself"

You'r horrible :shock:
How the f**k do you know how she really feels?Just because she isn't saying them on here doesn't mean she's fake!For all you know, she could be suicidal!What a thing to say!

Byeee BG Nassau, BA, Bahamas 5125 posts
1st May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sonia[MOBAS]:</b>" Shhhhh. We are not supposed to talk about this."</blockquote>




You know her?