Cast Your Vote:

    • Hell NO! they are off limits -- Votes: 111
    • If he is unhappily married -- Votes: 3
    • Sure, if u can get him they were never ment 2 b -- Votes: 2
A married man Ace of Bace 1 child; New Bern, North Carolina 1657 posts
29th Apr '13


laurenmik 3 kids; Aurora, Colorado 7222 posts
29th Apr '13

How awful.

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
29th Apr '13

Its messy. No matter how you do it, how you feel, how he feels, its messy.

I wouldnt bother.

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15435 posts
29th Apr '13

Absolutely not.

MommyToWesley 1 child; Delaware 3847 posts
29th Apr '13

No. The only circumstance in which I would say it's okay to pursue a "married" man would be if they have been separated for awhile and they are currently going through a divorce.
Anything other than that, and I would think you were being a home-wrecking wh**e.

Colt's mommy 1 child; Moore, Oklahoma 21324 posts
29th Apr '13

I don't think it's ever appropriate (unless they are in the process of getting a divcorce and it just hasn't gone through yet). I would hope that any woman pursuing a married man would go in to it at least knowing that it's a bad thing, lol. Doesn't mean that's going to stop them, but that wasn't the question.

LA REINA™ New York, NY, United States 16220 posts
29th Apr '13

If he's separated I suppose it's okay. I did it before and it was one of the worst things I've done in my life.

mama2manyyy 33 kids; South Carolina 1823 posts
29th Apr '13

No. Marriage should be respected, there are plenty of single men.

5 years= 5kids Due November 2; 4 kids; Sullivan, Missouri 2287 posts
29th Apr '13

Not unless you want to be known as a wh**e for the rest of your life.

What's wrong, flat face? TTC since Jul 2012; 1 child; 3 angel babies; Texas 13678 posts
29th Apr '13

f**k no. I don't even see why this needs to be asked.. But then again there are a lot of sluts out there who go for married men purposely.

Ace of Bace 1 child; New Bern, North Carolina 1657 posts
29th Apr '13

For the record.. This was a hypothetical question.

Colt's mommy 1 child; Moore, Oklahoma 21324 posts
29th Apr '13
Quoting **Kiddy Kat**:" For the record.. This was a hypothetical question."

lol, sure sure, "for the record" ;)

Clk 2 kids; Dexter, Michigan 11927 posts
29th Apr '13

Only if everyone involved has an open relationship. If it's doing it behind people's backs then no.

Zeke's Mama Due September 26 (girl); 1 child; Pensacola, Florida 5710 posts
status 29th Apr '13

Absolutely not. If they are already going through divorce proceedings that's one thing I guess but other than that, no.

iLL-Legal Unicorn Alien 3 kids; New York, TX, United States 37137 posts
29th Apr '13

If I was pursuing a married man, I would have to know for a fact that his wife is fully aware of him dating and that they are in fact separated and done with their marriage. And that would probably be pretty awkward to ask all that stuff to the soon to be I would just rather not. If he wants to holla at me when the divorce is final, he can call me when he can show me a copy of the divorce being finalized.