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What's wrong, flat face? TTC since Jul 2012; 1 child; 3 angel babies; Texas 13678 posts
30th Apr '13
Quoting Tasha & Nika:" You wouldn't have become so upset and defensive, had you really believed there was no cause for alarm. ... [snip!] ... and able of purchasing your own food in the future. Then you won't be smack in the middle of such 'misunderstandings'"

Very well worded!

ILOVEWINE Due April 24; 2 kids; Sweden 10814 posts
30th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Belle.:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tasha & Nika:</b>" "my husband has a brand new computer. Jesus ... [snip!] ... of me just whining more than anything, soooo I got our shit figured out and everyone can go about their business! Thanks folks!"</blockquote>




I think you're just angry because you both blew all your money and now don't have a pot to piss in. I'd be pretty angry if I spent all money and had to ask my parents to feed my family too. Time to grow up.

Belle. { 31 weeks } Due February 14 (boy); 1 child; Alberta 5259 posts
30th Apr '13

Thank you everyone for your advice and lovely words. We fucked up. Everything is sorted out now and we are doing well! Thanks for the concern this thread is over unless you still feel like chatting amongst yourselves about it. I am moving on :)

Belle. { 31 weeks } Due February 14 (boy); 1 child; Alberta 5259 posts
30th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ILOVEWINE:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Belle.:</b>" Well let me explain better, YES I am pissed off. ... [snip!] ... guys have really poor money skills. Don't you think you should have saved money for an emergency instead of blowing it all...."</blockquote>



We saved some for groceries but his truck broke down and needed repairs to get to work. But yes it was a stupid, stupid mistake.

Belle. { 31 weeks } Due February 14 (boy); 1 child; Alberta 5259 posts
30th Apr '13

Ok lol enough. Goodbye!

GrumpsMama 1 child; Whiskey d**k Mountain, WA, United States 16134 posts
30th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Belle.:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ILOVEWINE:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Belle.:</b>" ... [snip!] ... saved some for groceries but his truck broke down and needed repairs to get to work. But yes it was a stupid, stupid mistake."</blockquote>



You should have stated that in your OP.. Then nobody would have said anything.

Ellie. 34 kids; Arizona 25371 posts
1st May '13
Quoting Belle.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ILOVEWINE:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Belle.:</b>" ... [snip!] ... saved some for groceries but his truck broke down and needed repairs to get to work. But yes it was a stupid, stupid mistake."



Yeah that would have been a different story. That's not your DH's fault for buying a computer and having an unexpected expense come up. You made it sound like he was completely irresponsible. Glad everything worked out though.

Belle. { 31 weeks } Due February 14 (boy); 1 child; Alberta 5259 posts
1st May '13

Yeah I realized I didn't explain well enough in the opening post. Plus I kinda felt like blaming my dh because I was mad( ill admit it) Even though it wasn't his fault, just a shitty situation. I came back onto BG and everyone was flipping their shit! Sorry ppl next time I will be more descriptive in my opening posts so there is no confusion.

Ellie. 34 kids; Arizona 25371 posts
1st May '13
Quoting Belle.:" Yeah I realized I didn't explain well enough in the opening post. Plus I kinda felt like blaming my dh ... [snip!] ... everyone was flipping their shit! Sorry ppl next time I will be more descriptive in my opening posts so there is no confusion."


It's okay! I'm just glad everything is working out. I think people were more concerned (even though it may be hard to tell over the internet). No one wants to see a family struggling. I understand now that it was a temporary thing you guys hadn't planned on, so it's understandable. I know it's easier to blame others. I do that a lot. lol.

Jillbill4 2 kids; 584 posts
4th May '13
Quoting Carissa Biron:" I hear ya on not having food we litteraly have nothing. but its not our fault so its just a sucky situation... your husband just sounds like a c**k sucker. sorry"

how is it not your fault?

Jillbill4 2 kids; 584 posts
4th May '13
Quoting Belle.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Let the rain fall:</b>" You made your husband sound like a piece ... [snip!] ... Who the f**k said my child is starving!? He is a breastfed 6 month old. You people an inch and they take a mile, holy shit."


how can you produce enough healthy milk with no food? i'd switch to formula just to be sure.

Belle. { 31 weeks } Due February 14 (boy); 1 child; Alberta 5259 posts
4th May '13

I thought this thread died. Guess not. I ate vegetables and rice for two days and we have full fridge and cupboards again and are all caught up. So no worries my son is happy and healthy.