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Taryn - Anya's mommy 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Toronto, Ontario 49462 posts
30th Apr '13
Quoting Teenage Girl:" I honestly think him having a HOTEL ROOM where they can be alone, uniterupted is way worse"

they will never be alone in the hotel room

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
30th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Taryn - Anya's mommy:</b>" Yeah this is my problem, she thinks me saying no is me saying I don't trust her"</blockquote>




She's 15, why would you trust her to have a guy sleep with her for a summer?

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49340 posts
30th Apr '13
Quoting Teenage Girl:" I honestly think him having a HOTEL ROOM where they can be alone, uniterupted is way worse"



She never said they'd be given that chance.

Taryn - Anya's mommy 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Toronto, Ontario 49462 posts
30th Apr '13
Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:" Totally off topic but hooker, I'm being induced either Thursday or next week!"

woooooohooooooo!! Message me once you find out, you know I am thinking of you both, and love you both!

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
30th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting FroggysMommy:</b>" My Mom let my boyfriends stay the night when I was a teen... as long as she is good and can follow the rules I see no problem."</blockquote>




So did mine. I also had a baby in high school.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
30th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Taryn - Anya's mommy:</b>" they will never be alone in the hotel room"</blockquote>




So why allow them to be alone in a bedroom?

Pey and Trista's mommy Due January 5; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Houston, Texas 42503 posts
30th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Taryn - Anya's mommy:</b>" yeah, this has convinced me not to do it. We just have a close relationship, and I hate saying no to her, I was siding more on the side of no, but wanted more opinions."</blockquote>




Sometimes being mom over friend sucks but it had to be done. I would tell her us not that you think she would just throw caution to the wind and have sex but things happen in the heat of the moment so you aren't quite comfortable with him staying there.

user banned California 36390 posts
30th Apr '13

My Gram let my high school boyfriend sleep over. I didn't even consider fucking him.

Taryn - Anya's mommy 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Toronto, Ontario 49462 posts
30th Apr '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Taryn - Anya's mommy:</b>" they will never be alone in the hotel room"</blockquote> So why allow them to be alone in a bedroom?"

they wouldn't even be in the same bedroom, he would stay on the couch, and I would make her sleep with her little sister, but we all sleep like the dead, and unfortunately she knows that.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
30th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Taryn - Anya's mommy:</b>" they wouldn't even be in the same bedroom, he would stay on the couch, and I would make her sleep with her little sister, but we all sleep like the dead, and unfortunately she knows that."</blockquote>




They WILL have sex if he's in your house.

Pey and Trista's mommy Due January 5; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Houston, Texas 42503 posts
30th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Taryn - Anya's mommy:</b>" woooooohooooooo!! Message me once you find out, you know I am thinking of you both, and love you both!"</blockquote>



I will...I'm calling in the morning!

Taryn - Anya's mommy 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Toronto, Ontario 49462 posts
30th Apr '13
Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Taryn - Anya's mommy:</b>" yeah, this has convinced me not to ... [snip!] ... to the wind and have sex but things happen in the heat of the moment so you aren't quite comfortable with him staying there."

yeah, there is where I need to be her mother and be honest with her.

orchidlovingmama 2 kids; Santa Rosa, California 1769 posts
30th Apr '13

Yes I would let him stay but make sure to lay down the law as to different bedrooms, etc.I would be ok with it but my SO would never let it fly

Taryn - Anya's mommy 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Toronto, Ontario 49462 posts
30th Apr '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Taryn - Anya's mommy:</b>" they wouldn't even be in the same ... [snip!] ... we all sleep like the dead, and unfortunately she knows that."</blockquote> They WILL have sex if he's in your house."

This I am not 100% sure about, but I know there is that chance, and a chance I am not willing to take.



If he comes, he stays in a hotel near our house, the closest one is about 10 miles away, and he would get so horribly lost if he tried to walk it.

~*~.July MaMa.~*~ 1 child; Illinois 7599 posts
30th Apr '13
Quoting Taryn - Anya's mommy:" My oldest daughter lives with her dad during the school year and lives with me over the summers. She ... [snip!] ... hormones are raging, so if you were me, what would you do? Would you let him stay? Oh and my daughter is 15, boyfriend is 16"


Let him come. I mean to be honest yeah she is a virgin but when she does decide to do the dirty deed there is nothing anyone can do to stop her. A teen that wants to have sex will find a way to do it. I would just tell her sure but the circumstances are the safe sex talk and my rules of the home talk then we are good. Let her know you are proud of her having her virginity but you will always support her because then she will more than likely be more willing to come to you for questions and opinions rather than assume and end up with a mistake.