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Nervous! E'M Shikari Due March 10; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Preston, United Kingdom 1747 posts
30th Apr '13

I've been seeing someone for a few days, we'll call him L. It's someone I have slept with before a long time ago and who has been a good friend for many years, except recently things have blossomed. Basically, I'm going to his tonight and there have been hints and flirting between us that we might 'get it on' tonight (lol sorry cringe!) and I am so scared about it happening. I haven't slept with anyone except BD in two years. I shared a kiss with L a couple of days ago while drunk so that was okay, but the next day I nearly fainted while kissing him sober because I was that anxious, I forgot to breathe! So what am I going to be like tonight?! I'm having an emotional break down just thinking about it lol. I really like him and he is a really genuine guy so I'm sure he wouldn't be bothered anyway. I am also really paranoid about my huge baby belly. He is very petite and I feel like a big monster compared to him! Someone please tell me to man up, lol.

GavinsMomJohnnysWife 2 kids; Texas 2789 posts
30th Apr '13

Unless you're wearing trash bags I'm sure he knows your body isn't "perfect" just go with it, enjoy what happens, and know sex is always awkward the first (or the second first) time around. :)

BeginTheRomance Due July 21; 1 child; Rochester, New York 373 posts
30th Apr '13

Woman up and enjoy it! :)

E'M Shikari Due March 10; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Preston, United Kingdom 1747 posts
30th Apr '13
Quoting GavinsMomJohnnysWife:" Unless you're wearing trash bags I'm sure he knows your body isn't "perfect" just go with it, enjoy what happens, and know sex is always awkward the first (or the second first) time around. :)"


Gah I feel like a virgin!

Dexterr Due February 6; 1 child; United Kingdom 130 posts
30th Apr '13

Just be yourself! :o

E'M Shikari Due March 10; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Preston, United Kingdom 1747 posts
30th Apr '13
Quoting ReubensMummy:" Just be yourself! :o"


I will be, myself and trembling :')

Dexterr Due February 6; 1 child; United Kingdom 130 posts
30th Apr '13
Quoting E'M Shikari:" I will be, myself and trembling :')"

best of luck :D

E'M Shikari Due March 10; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Preston, United Kingdom 1747 posts
30th Apr '13
Quoting ReubensMummy:" best of luck :D"


Thank you!