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deleted ugh mommy to C, B and F 19 kids; 1 angel baby; Escondido, California 1175 posts
30th Apr '13

Too much....

Amanda Contento Florida 2302 posts
30th Apr '13

I'd be gone the first time. It's time for divorce. I know you don't want to do it alone but there is something called common law divorce. You would be divorced but living together as roommates.

*A&N's Mama* 2 kids; Halifax, Nova Scotia 4627 posts
30th Apr '13

Leave his ass

laurenmik 3 kids; Aurora, Colorado 7222 posts
30th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" Get a job. Leave."</blockquote>




This.

mommy to C, B and F 19 kids; 1 angel baby; Escondido, California 1175 posts
30th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" Get a job. Leave."</blockquote>imf




If I could I would im pregnant and have issues that very limit me working and I have no way for kids to go to daycare or a babysitter

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
30th Apr '13

Get a job, save up money and leave. Seriously. Even if you feel "One more chance" or "he can/has changed" just get a job and save up just in case. Always have a plan A, B, and C. Make sure you can take care of yourself and your kid/s because life doesnt always turn out how we thought so its better to be as prepared as we can be.

Kimber-lily Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
30th Apr '13

I'm sorry you're going thru this. You'll need to get a job, move out, and file for divorce. Good luck.

.t a y l o r. 3 kids; Indiana 3847 posts
30th Apr '13
Quoting Lil Pumpkin in the Oven!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" Get a job. Leave."</blockquote>imf If ... [snip!] ... I would im pregnant and have issues that very limit me working and I have no way for kids to go to daycare or a babysitter"

Then get on assistance and leave. There's HUD housing and income based housing (I don't know if those are the same thing). And then when you have your baby, assistance can help pay for daycare while you go to work.

Dexterr Due February 6; 1 child; United Kingdom 130 posts
30th Apr '13

I'd say leave but thats easier said than done!

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
30th Apr '13
Quoting Lil Pumpkin in the Oven!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" Get a job. Leave."</blockquote>imf If ... [snip!] ... I would im pregnant and have issues that very limit me working and I have no way for kids to go to daycare or a babysitter"


You are going to have to try to figure out a way unless you want to keep going through this over and over again. Its hard i know, but if you have to do what you have to do to be happy.

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
30th Apr '13
Quoting .t a y l o r.:" Then get on assistance and leave. There's HUD housing and income based housing (I don't know if those ... [snip!] ... know if those are the same thing). And then when you have your baby, assistance can help pay for daycare while you go to work."


THIS. Get help, get out.

BeginTheRomance Due July 21 (girl); 1 child; Rochester, New York 373 posts
30th Apr '13

Find any resources that can help you out.



LEAVE ASAP.
He will keep doing it and he will keep testing how far he can go.
If he does it once, he will do it again.

--K-- 2 kids; Romania 3189 posts
30th Apr '13

You live close to me. I wish I could help :/.



The best thing to do is get on assistance and leave.
I know it is hard, I spent two years being cheate don and lied to before I finally did it but I did.



You can too.

orchidlovingmama 2 kids; Santa Rosa, California 1769 posts
30th Apr '13

Why are you even asking what you need you do hun!? You've got two choices. Get a job like the previous poster said, or go apply for low income housing and welfare until you can get on your feet. Some pieces of shit will just never change

☮Hippie Jesus☮ 2 kids; West Virginia 10560 posts
30th Apr '13

Work on getting assistance and a job, if possible. Save up. Leave.