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Not fair at all (vent) Krista+baby Gracie 66 kids; Freeport, Florida 460 posts
2nd May '13

I am 4 weeks pp and I have cervical prolapse pretty bad. Can't even have sex but baby daddy wants me to give him head all the time. I'm sick of giving head and want it all but can't because of this cervical issue that I'm waiting to see my doc on and see what my options are. I wish he'd understand my side of this. I'm worried I may have to have a hysterectomy and all he can think about is head. (End vent)

Sophia's Mommy♥ 1 child; Hollywood, Florida 10171 posts
2nd May '13

So tell him no?

. , Richmond, VA, United States 74573 posts
2nd May '13

So don't give it to him. I sure as hell wouldn't.

Krista+baby Gracie 66 kids; Freeport, Florida 460 posts
2nd May '13

I keep telling him no and that its not fair. I got it down to where I give him head once or twice a week. I fight him on it and then he tells me "see u use me just to have babies" and that is not true.

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; 2 angel babies; South Land, CA, United States 117406 posts
2nd May '13

So dont give him head.

ρiηkie ρie 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Kentucky 21902 posts
2nd May '13
Quoting Krista+baby Gracie:" I keep telling him no and that its not fair. I got it down to where I give him head once or twice a week. ... [snip!] ... him head once or twice a week. I fight him on it and then he tells me "see u use me just to have babies" and that is not true."

f**k that nonsense. I'd bite his dick. :? Sorry mama.

★Butter.Bean★ 1 child; Fort Lauderdale, Florida 402 posts
2nd May '13

Ugggg men can be so insensative & dumb sometimes. I'd tell him to go eff himself, I'm not a blow up doll!

LeiLana80 2 kids; Ohio 243 posts
2nd May '13

Oh, I'm so sorry about your prolapse. I understand- when I was in delivery with my daughter she got stuck and I pushed for 2.5 hours... now everything is p*******d and it's awful.
As for your husband... tell him to get over it. He is being selfish. I understand about "taking care" of your man, but in this case, you need to heal up (mentally and physically) and he needs to friggin' understand that. Tell him how you feel. Firmly.

. , Richmond, VA, United States 74573 posts
2nd May '13
Quoting Krista+baby Gracie:" I keep telling him no and that its not fair. I got it down to where I give him head once or twice a week. ... [snip!] ... him head once or twice a week. I fight him on it and then he tells me "see u use me just to have babies" and that is not true."

I still wouldn't do it. You're just going to reinforce that his tantrums gets him what he wants.

Krista+baby Gracie 66 kids; Freeport, Florida 460 posts
2nd May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ★Butter.Bean★:</b>" Ugggg men can be so insensative & dumb sometimes. I'd tell him to go eff himself, I'm not a blow up doll!"</blockquote>




I should tell him that lol.

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; 2 angel babies; South Land, CA, United States 117406 posts
2nd May '13
Quoting Krista+baby Gracie:" I keep telling him no and that its not fair. I got it down to where I give him head once or twice a week. ... [snip!] ... him head once or twice a week. I fight him on it and then he tells me "see u use me just to have babies" and that is not true."


What a disrespectful ass.

JellyJaks Due December 12 (boy); 3 kids; 2 angel babies; El Mirage, Arizona 556 posts
2nd May '13
Quoting ρiηkie ρie:" f**k that nonsense. I'd bite his dick. :? Sorry mama. "


:!:

Krista+baby Gracie 66 kids; Freeport, Florida 460 posts
2nd May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting LeiLana80:</b>" Oh, I'm so sorry about your prolapse. I understand- when I was in delivery with my daughter she got stuck ... [snip!] ... case, you need to heal up (mentally and physically) and he needs to friggin' understand that. Tell him how you feel. Firmly."</blockquote>



How did u fix ur prolapse? I only pushed twice and my daughter was out. 3 min. I wish he would understand me :(... Earlier I was ready to tell him to go find another girl to go get head from since I'm sick of the one way street. But in the end I'm happy I didn't say that cuz he probably would have lol.

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; 2 angel babies; South Land, CA, United States 117406 posts
2nd May '13
Quoting Krista+baby Gracie:" <blockquote><b>Quoting LeiLana80:</b>" Oh, I'm so sorry about your prolapse. I understand- ... [snip!] ... get head from since I'm sick of the one way street. But in the end I'm happy I didn't say that cuz he probably would have lol."


um, why are you with him?

Krista+baby Gracie 66 kids; Freeport, Florida 460 posts
2nd May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:</b>" um, why are you with him?"</blockquote>




I've been with him for 8 years. I love him but wish he'd respect my feelings on this issue. I understand "he's a guy and he's horny" (his excuse)... I'm horny to and there is nothing I can do About it... We love each other and our lil girls.