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LeiLana80 2 kids; Ohio 243 posts
2nd May '13
Quoting Krista+baby Gracie:" <blockquote><b>Quoting LeiLana80:</b>" Oh, I'm so sorry about your prolapse. I understand- ... [snip!] ... get head from since I'm sick of the one way street. But in the end I'm happy I didn't say that cuz he probably would have lol."

I'm not fixed. :( We're going to look into it after I deliver this next kid... but my doc didn't seem very hopeful about it (as in surgery to fix it). I sure as hell am not going to just live with it the rest of my life though. I don't think male doctors (or guys in general) get how awful it is, physically and mentally.
Stick with what you are comfortable with, as far as you and your husband. Don't allow him to push you. That is not fair. Hopefully he will eventually get that you are not being mean or selfish and that this is a legitimate issue. If not, he's being a selfish jerk. Which, unfortunately, men tend to be...

Krista+baby Gracie 66 kids; Freeport, Florida 460 posts
2nd May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting LeiLana80:</b>" I'm not fixed. :( We're going to look into it after I deliver this next kid... but my doc didn't seem ... [snip!] ... mean or selfish and that this is a legitimate issue. If not, he's being a selfish jerk. Which, unfortunately, men tend to be..."</blockquote>




Lucky u could have another after that. Mine so bad it's at the opening of my vag. So like I said no sex for me :(... I want more kids and I'm gonna be devastated if my doc says hysterectomy. It scares me so much I get emotional about it sometimes.

LeiLana80 2 kids; Ohio 243 posts
3rd May '13
Quoting Krista+baby Gracie:" <blockquote><b>Quoting LeiLana80:</b>" I'm not fixed. :( We're going to look into it ... [snip!] ... more kids and I'm gonna be devastated if my doc says hysterectomy. It scares me so much I get emotional about it sometimes."

Sex is so painful I can't do it anymore. Pregnancy made everything worse for me, too.
As far as treatment, they might try a pessary (yuck and ow), and I also heard about some crazy thing where they try to use electrodes to stimulate the muscles inside your vagina to get them to get stronger (physical therapy for your vag :shock:). They could also try tying everything back up again, but those types of surgeries don't always hold up. I guess it really depends on exactly your body- AND your doctor. If you don't like what you hear from him, get a second opinion! I love my OB, but he is not very helpful about this situation. I saw a woman doc in the same office and she was much more open to doing what was necessary to fix me! I think she understands it's MUCH more than a physical irritation.
Have you talked to your OB about it?

Krista+baby Gracie 66 kids; Freeport, Florida 460 posts
3rd May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting LeiLana80:</b>" Sex is so painful I can't do it anymore. Pregnancy made everything worse for me, too. As far as treatment, ... [snip!] ... necessary to fix me! I think she understands it's MUCH more than a physical irritation. Have you talked to your OB about it?"</blockquote>




I have an appointment on the 16th for my 6 week pp check and she said she's gonna wait til then to check me and decide action.

GONE. PZ OUT. 2 kids; California 1278 posts
3rd May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Krista+baby Gracie:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting LeiLana80:</b>" Oh, I'm so sorry about your prolapse. I understand- ... [snip!] ... get head from since I'm sick of the one way street. But in the end I'm happy I didn't say that cuz he probably would have lol."</blockquote>




And he still might....

user banned 1 child; :), :), United States 5380 posts
3rd May '13

Pfft. I say bite his d**k off.