Meeting dad for the first time? Japan 388 posts
3rd May '13

BD met DS for the first time in March. DS is sn and has already forgotten him. His therapist questioned him about "Daddy" and he answered talking about MY dad that he calls daddy. If he saw BD on the street it would be just another stranger to him.



He has three court ordered visits at DS' therapist office so his therapist can observe how he interacts with DS and supervise BD. The doctor scheduled the appointment for 1 hr 15 min so we can talk about DS after BD leaves.



Im going to introduce him as "Mister *name*" Do you see an issue with that?

Kimmy Gibbler 2 kids; Grapevine, Texas 8039 posts
3rd May '13

How old is your son?

[yo.] 1 child; Gayville, South Dakota 13371 posts
3rd May '13

When rylan met his dad for the first time, I didn't introduce him and anyone, I left them hang out a few times at he, and then after a while I said 'okay let's go see daddy' and started calling him daddy. He was 2.5 when this started. He is also autistic

Bobber Due October 1; 1 child; Manitoba 137 posts
3rd May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jax in the Tardis.:</b>" BD met DS for the first time in March. DS is sn and has already forgotten him. His therapist questioned ... [snip!] ... 15 min so we can talk about DS after BD leaves. Im going to introduce him as "Mister *name*" Do you see an issue with that?"</blockquote>



Good question. I'll be watching this one. My daughter saw her BD last when she was 2 & then 9 months before that & when she was 1 he was always in & out. He too would just be some guy on the street if she saw him. She 5 now & calls my SO daddy, by her own choice, & had for about a year now. She knows she has a different daddy but doesn't ask or say much about him. I've been wondering what I would do or how I would go about introducing him if he came along again. He was suppose to do court ordered supervised visits for three months & then have a review but gave up on them after just a few.



Sorry, I know my post isn't much help. Just as curious though. I wish the best for you with your situation!

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36477 posts
3rd May '13

Are you facepalming yourself right now?? I know I would love to facepalm you. YOU know this... and yet.. whatever. what is done is done. I would say this is ---- name. Or Mr. ----.



And seems to me like you forgot to PT me...

Kimmy Gibbler 2 kids; Grapevine, Texas 8039 posts
3rd May '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Are you facepalming yourself right now?? I know I would love to facepalm you. YOU know this... and yet.. ... [snip!] ... whatever. what is done is done. I would say this is ---- name. Or Mr. ----. And seems to me like you forgot to PT me... "


Huh...? :?

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36477 posts
3rd May '13
Quoting Asher and Haddie's Mommy:" Huh...? :?"


Why are you worried about it? I know who the op is.

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 20113 posts
3rd May '13

Honestly, I wouldn't want that f****r around my child at all. I thought you were calling the cops cause of what he did to his daughter? Why would you just sit on information like that and then let him around your son, unless it was all another lie to get pity and attention?

Cαtwomαn 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Gotham, DC, United States 11673 posts
3rd May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Juggernog-aholic:</b>" Honestly, I wouldn't want that f****r around my child at all. I thought you were calling the cops cause ... [snip!] ... just sit on information like that and then let him around your son, unless it was all another lie to get pity and attention?"</blockquote>




Seriously.

Drunk Blair Waldorf 2 kids; Alpharetta, Georgia 19208 posts
3rd May '13
Quoting Juggernog-aholic:" Honestly, I wouldn't want that f****r around my child at all. I thought you were calling the cops cause ... [snip!] ... just sit on information like that and then let him around your son, unless it was all another lie to get pity and attention?"


Inquiring minds want to know, Heather.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36477 posts
3rd May '13
Quoting Juggernog-aholic:" Honestly, I wouldn't want that f****r around my child at all. I thought you were calling the cops cause ... [snip!] ... just sit on information like that and then let him around your son, unless it was all another lie to get pity and attention?"


whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa?

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 20113 posts
3rd May '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa?"


Yeah. She had an old account (with the same SN at one point) and posted about her fiance at the time and how he molested his daughter. The little girl went to a therapist who said she believed the little girl but wouldn't call the cops... and she kept making up excuses to why she couldn't call the cops saying they wouldn't do anything without proof.



I've asked once if she did anything about it and she got her mod friends to mod me and never answered.

BαtMαɳ Secret Bat Cave, FK, Oman 62251 posts
3rd May '13

Interesting... seriously Heather you are either full of shit or really f**king stupid.



Why the hell would you allow a child molester around your son at all? And what happened to all that quality time with this "amazing fiance" of yours that you shoved down his throat, yet he's "just another stranger on the street?"



What the f**k ever.

Drunk Blair Waldorf 2 kids; Alpharetta, Georgia 19208 posts
3rd May '13
Quoting BαtMαɳ:" Interesting... seriously Heather you are either full of shit or really f**king stupid. Why the hell ... [snip!] ... "amazing fiance" of yours that you shoved down his throat, yet he's "just another stranger on the street?" What the f**k ever."


Yeahhhh. That part makes no sense to me. They spent like 24/7 with him for like a month and now her son has no idea who he is? Sure. Okay.

BαtMαɳ Secret Bat Cave, FK, Oman 62251 posts
3rd May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Drunk Blair Waldorf:</b>" Yeahhhh. That part makes no sense to me. They spent like 24/7 with him for like a month and now her son has no idea who he is? Sure. Okay."</blockquote>



Kids don't just forget a face that quick. Funny how she was "scared for her safety" when she got her other account deleted but now this? :roll:



Chick is just full of shit if you ask me.