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Cast Your Vote:

    • Yes 2 or more baby dads makes a whore -- Votes: 14
    • No it doesnt make you a whore -- Votes: 20
    • I dont care either way -- Votes: 25
    • Other explain -- Votes: 5
Chef Sarah ♥ Due May 11; 1 child; Hollywood, FL, United States 10578 posts
3rd May '13
Quoting Supafly★:" I have no idea. She had her 6th kid and fell off the face of BG. She probably got knocked up again by her new husband's brother or some shit. "


:D then claimed it was her husband's and he'd ask for another dna test.

^.^ Chippermunkk 1 child; Dalzell, South Carolina 37492 posts
3rd May '13

Nope theyre not a whore. Everyones got a backstory. Things happen. Relationships dont work out, people get abusive, people pass away, my mom has three kids, we all have different dads.



And i know someone who is 22 and just had her fourth kid. Shes not a slut. Theyre all with the same man, who shes married too, and "one" just happened to be twins. So what.

Queen Rowdy TTC since Jan 2013; 1 angel baby; Australia 972 posts
3rd May '13

It would depend on the girl and what I know of her. Most people I dont care.

If its one girl with a bunch of guys or one guy with a bunch of girls, my immediate reaction is negative and I think how immature they must be, but I mainly feel sorry for the kids growing up in that situation.

If its 2 or 3 different dads/mums, I dont care because I know shit happens.

Except for this one bitch I know. She has three BD's and I judge the shit out of her, but thats because she thinks she is perfect and is happy to judge everyone else, but somehow when its her in the situation there is some reason or excuse as to why its ok for her. If that makes sense LOL.

Autumn Whisper 1 child; Utah 9977 posts
3rd May '13

Things happen. I don't think it matters any more how many men have fathered children with you than it does how many men you've slept with...SO LONG as you the children are well-cared for, including such things as you aren't choosing men over your children, you aren't introducing an endless parade of men to your children. Things happen. But it also depends on the circumstances surrounding their conceptions. If there are potentially 3 or more guys that may have fathered one single baby, I'll think very differently than if you had three different babies with three different fathers over a period of time.



Still, I'm not a judging person. Take care of your kids, and don't have more than you can handle. That goes for whether you are married or not. But it is always helpful to at least have it pinned down who the father of your kid is.



Those girls who have gone on Maury, and DNA tested 6+ guys for one single child? Umm...there's only a small window in a month where you can get pregnant. The logistics are mind-boggling.

Mommy|Of2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Canada 3034 posts
3rd May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" I so judge when people have multiple kids before turning 18, I don't even care. "</blockquote>




I went to school with a girl who had 3 by 15!
We went to a pregnant teen school and she got kicked out for having to many to fast.

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
3rd May '13
Quoting Mommy|Of2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" I so judge when people have multiple ... [snip!] ... to school with a girl who had 3 by 15! We went to a pregnant teen school and she got kicked out for having to many to fast."


What the fuck? That's fucked up. What's the point of being a pregnant teen school, if you're going to kick pregnant teens out. :roll:

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
3rd May '13

Eh...depends on the person. My cousin has three children by three men. Her first was from her younger days, second from her first husband (they are divorced) and her youngest is from her second (and current) husband of nearly three years.

And then there is my grandmother, who got pregnant at seventeen with one husband. Her third husband, my grandfather, is the father of her other six kids. They were together for over thirty years before spliting.

And then my other grandmother has three by three different men, MAYBE a fourth (rumor has it one of my aunts has a different father).

I think that before a woman has children, she should try to have them all with the same father/partner, unless she plans on being a single mother by choice.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14181 posts
3rd May '13
Quoting Mommy|Of2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" I so judge when people have multiple ... [snip!] ... to school with a girl who had 3 by 15! We went to a pregnant teen school and she got kicked out for having to many to fast."



Jeez how old was she when she got pregnant the first time? 10?



Her poor mother.

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
3rd May '13
Quoting Supafly★:" Jeez how old was she when she got pregnant the first time? 10? Her poor mother."


I pray to god they were triplets because that is just sad.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14181 posts
3rd May '13
Quoting Back to Noob Status:" I pray to god they were triplets because that is just sad."



I didn't even know it was possible. She wasted no time after hitting puberty.

^.^ Chippermunkk 1 child; Dalzell, South Carolina 37492 posts
3rd May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Back to Noob Status:</b>" Eh...depends on the person. My cousin has three children by three men. Her first was from her younger ... [snip!] ... children, she should try to have them all with the same father/partner, unless she plans on being a single mother by choice."</blockquote>




Things happen.
Some men dont truly act how they are going to when the woman gets pregnant, he could become abusive, some men cheat, some men pass away, she has no control over the man. Hell some people ttc with the other person and the guy just ups and leaves when she becomes pregnant.



Maybe in a perfect worl she should try to have the same father for each of her kids, but we live nowhere near a perfect world.

mamaluvsher4babies 36 kids; California 4230 posts
3rd May '13

Nope I don't give a shit, as long as the kids are being taken care of. I have 3 baby daddies. I was married to 2 of them. Just like I dont give a shit of a man has babies by 6 different women.

Mommy|Of2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Canada 3034 posts
3rd May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" Jeez how old was she when she got pregnant the first time? 10? Her poor mother."</blockquote>




12 then she had twin girls at 15.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14181 posts
4th May '13
Quoting Mommy|Of2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" Jeez how old was she when she got pregnant ... [snip!] ... was she when she got pregnant the first time? 10? Her poor mother."</blockquote> 12 then she had twin girls at 15."


Okay...still very disturbing but it's not like she got pregnant 3 separate times like I thought at first. :shock:

CJKB+JMB=AMB 1 child; Watertown, New York 2525 posts
4th May '13

ya for me it depends on the girl... i know someone who is twenty and she has four kids(two are twins). i think shes crazy for having so many so young but she has two baby daddies. i dont think shes a whore just really irresponsible about bc... same with my own dad six kids four baby mammas. hes not a whore just an idiot lol but there are women who purposely get pregnant to keep their men around or WANT to have baby after baby and just use guys. their whores in my opinion.