Quoting BeautifullyDoomed:" I really cant help get defensive its in my blood, its about my child and I have nothing to prove to ... [snip!] ... im trying and they are my #1 in every single way. I do understand what you said though. I was just saying stating that's all."
I understand feeling like you are being attacked here for parenting, but I don't think anyone really means to sound that way. At least I am not trying to attack you.
Quoting Clk:" I understand feeling like you are being attacked here for parenting, but I don't think anyone really means to sound that way. At least I am not trying to attack you."
I may had gotten defensive about the wrong things but in my mind and the way I see it im guna get defensive and It runs in my family. We feel if someone doesn't see it our way too we have to get it out there. That's all I was doing she may have been just driving by but the way I see it is if your that concerned about my child why not stop the first time and say something politely to me not 3 or more times just to stop and start telling me what I should and shouldn't be letting my child do. And none of yall heard or seen the way she said anything to make me get angry with her. and my daughter gets mauled by the puppy cries for a minute and shrugs it off and starts it over with her. Puppy doesn't just jump all over her for no reason my daughter starts it. I understand what you all are saying and I am at fault and I prob shouldn't have been so angry but they were only looking at it on that ladies point of view