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So depressed n upset! Loca Mamma Due January 21; 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Arizona 956 posts
5th May '13

I been wanting n trying to have a baby..n still nothing. I used to get pregnant right away but now after miscarriages it seems like I never get pregnant. I may not have tried for over a yr but I got pregnant w my 2 boys like that! I just really feel like giving up..I been taking care of myself n eating right, n I know its me. I mean my bf got me pregnant after a month after my iud was taken out but now no matter how much we do it, its not working. I also have a titled cervix. Just wanting to vent!

Severus Snape 2 kids; Tennessee 3550 posts
5th May '13

Sorry you're struggling. TTC is hard no matter how long I think. We've been ttc with no luck since October and I got pregnant first try with DD. Sometimes it just takes longer. Try to keep your spirits up and keep stress low. Stress can very negatively affect your chances of conceiving.

Loca Mamma Due January 21; 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Arizona 956 posts
5th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Severus Snape:</b>" Sorry you're struggling. TTC is hard no matter how long I think. We've been ttc with no luck since October ... [snip!] ... takes longer. Try to keep your spirits up and keep stress low. Stress can very negatively affect your chances of conceiving."</blockquote>




Thank u n I will try. N good luck to u too. I am trying not to stress but I have a 5yr old n 3yr old lol. But I am gonna try hard. I really want my baby girl. :( My mom had a lot health issues n couldn't have anymore kids..which scares me.

What's wrong, flat face? TTC since Jul 2012; 1 child; 3 angel babies; Texas 13678 posts
5th May '13
Quoting Loca Mamma:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Severus Snape:</b>" Sorry you're struggling. TTC is hard no ... [snip!] ... gonna try hard. I really want my baby girl. :( My mom had a lot health issues n couldn't have anymore kids..which scares me."

You are just stressing way to much. You need to do some... meditation or something. Stress is poison to your reproductive system.. and quite a few other systems but when you are trying to make a baby that seems to be the most important. :D So just relax. It will eventually happen.

Loca Mamma Due January 21; 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Arizona 956 posts
5th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Let the rain fall:</b>" You are just stressing way to much. You need to do some... meditation or something. Stress is poison ... [snip!] ... but when you are trying to make a baby that seems to be the most important. :D So just relax. It will eventually happen."</blockquote>



Thanks n I don't think they would since I havnt tried over a yr. I am taking prenatal s though n I will try as much as I can. Thanks..ill keep my head up

HotMom21ERF Due December 17 (twins); 1 child; Kentucky 20260 posts
5th May '13

If you don't conceive within a few months, go see your ob.

What's wrong, flat face? TTC since Jul 2012; 1 child; 3 angel babies; Texas 13678 posts
5th May '13
Quoting HotMom21ERF:" If you don't conceive within a few months, go see your ob."

You actually have to be trying for a year before an OB will do anything about it.

HotMom21ERF Due December 17 (twins); 1 child; Kentucky 20260 posts
5th May '13
Quoting Let the rain fall:" You actually have to be trying for a year before an OB will do anything about it."

Really? Because everywhere I have read it's 6 months. How will the doctor know how long they have been trying anyway?

What's wrong, flat face? TTC since Jul 2012; 1 child; 3 angel babies; Texas 13678 posts
5th May '13
Quoting HotMom21ERF:" Really? Because everywhere I have read it's 6 months. How will the doctor know how long they have been trying anyway?"

They won't. They just ask which I find funny actually. :D But yeah the rule has always been a year. I know a lot of people with fertility issues and they are always frustrated when their OBs tell them they have to wait a year before interfering with pills.

HotMom21ERF Due December 17 (twins); 1 child; Kentucky 20260 posts
5th May '13
Quoting Let the rain fall:" They won't. They just ask which I find funny actually. :D But yeah the rule has always been a year. I ... [snip!] ... issues and they are always frustrated when their OBs tell them they have to wait a year before interfering with pills."

lmao. I'd cheat. I would find a new dr and tell them i had been trying for a year. They'd never know

What's wrong, flat face? TTC since Jul 2012; 1 child; 3 angel babies; Texas 13678 posts
5th May '13
Quoting HotMom21ERF:" lmao. I'd cheat. I would find a new dr and tell them i had been trying for a year. They'd never know"

I would too. :D I want to go do it but I know that the reason I am not conceiving is because of my PCOS and I am trying to lose weight and I know when I get the weight off it will be a lot easier to have a baby.

Loca Mamma Due January 21; 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Arizona 956 posts
5th May '13

Well I havnt been trying for a yr n my doc will know cuz was on the iud. I was using condoms n then tried bc pills for like 2 days but didn't want to deal w side effects etc. So I been trying since like Jan/Feb. That's when I stopped using condoms n pull out method. So I havnt been technically protected except maybe couple times w condoms but mostly just did pull out method. I miscarried almost a yr ago n that's when I was off n on protected w condoms. But I am allergic to latex so didn't do that much.

HotMom21ERF Due December 17 (twins); 1 child; Kentucky 20260 posts
5th May '13
Quoting Let the rain fall:" I would too. :D I want to go do it but I know that the reason I am not conceiving is because of my PCOS ... [snip!] ... because of my PCOS and I am trying to lose weight and I know when I get the weight off it will be a lot easier to have a baby."

I go to see my ob in twelve days for my clomid :D
but, i dont ovulate, at all. my last period was in august, and when i saw her last year, she told me that when we were ready to have another one, come see her and she'll get me on clomid

HotMom21ERF Due December 17 (twins); 1 child; Kentucky 20260 posts
5th May '13
Quoting Loca Mamma:" Well I havnt been trying for a yr n my doc will know cuz was on the iud. I was using condoms n then tried ... [snip!] ... miscarried almost a yr ago n that's when I was off n on protected w condoms. But I am allergic to latex so didn't do that much."


can you go to a different doctor?

What's wrong, flat face? TTC since Jul 2012; 1 child; 3 angel babies; Texas 13678 posts
5th May '13
Quoting HotMom21ERF:" I go to see my ob in twelve days for my clomid :D but, i dont ovulate, at all. my last period was in ... [snip!] ... and when i saw her last year, she told me that when we were ready to have another one, come see her and she'll get me on clomid"


Yep. My last period was in February and I had to take Provera to induce that period. The last time I bled before that was in August with my MC.