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Lin Brown 2 kids; Tunnel Hill, Georgia 1806 posts
6th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting flip off:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Madi's*Mama:</b>" !!!!!!!!!!! I even admitted I get upset and ... [snip!] ... told him the honest truth. It's not like he texted her and I flipped the b***h switch and demanded he never speak to her again"</blockquote>




you pretty much did. i get being upset of the fact he lied to you about it, but obviously he wants to keep in contact with her or else he would have put his big boy panties on and told her to leave him alone. my husband has dealt with an ex that would randomly message him even after he told her to f**k off, he ended up changing his number and e-mail just so she couldn't contact him. yes if i didn't feel comfortable with my husband talking to a certain girl then i would tell him that and he would more then likely cut contact with her, but i always give the girl a chance and know her before i make any kind of judgement on her.

flip off 2 kids; Forks, Washington 1490 posts
6th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lin Brown:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting flip off:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Madi's*Mama:</b>" ... [snip!] ... then likely cut contact with her, but i always give the girl a chance and know her before i make any kind of judgement on her."</blockquote>

flip off 2 kids; Forks, Washington 1490 posts
6th May '13

Last post was an accident. My bad. I understand what you are all saying I really do. I think we can agree to disagree. I get all of your points and I appreciate the feedback. Thank you

Tara plus 3! Due October 10 (girl); 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Missouri 2773 posts
6th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting flip off:</b>" Last post was an accident. My bad. I understand what you are all saying I really do. I think we can agree to disagree. I get all of your points and I appreciate the feedback. Thank you"</blockquote>




I think you have every damn right to tell him not to talk to her. You guys are married or in a serious relationship (sorry not sure) people always try to act like their relationship is so f**king good and like they wouldnt be pissed off too. Bull f**king shit. You asked for advice so your gonna get a mix of different stuff. Either way what works for one relationship definitely doesn't for another. I would brush off what some people said and go about your relationship the way you think you should. I hope he stops talking to her!

Tara plus 3! Due October 10 (girl); 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Missouri 2773 posts
6th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting flip off:</b>" Last post was an accident. My bad. I understand what you are all saying I really do. I think we can agree to disagree. I get all of your points and I appreciate the feedback. Thank you"</blockquote>




I think you have every damn right to tell him not to talk to her. You guys are married or in a serious relationship (sorry not sure) people always try to act like their relationship is so f**king good and like they wouldnt be pissed off too. Bull f**king shit. You asked for advice so your gonna get a mix of different stuff. Either way what works for one relationship definitely doesn't for another. I would brush off what some people said and go about your relationship the way you think you should. I hope he stops talking to her!

Eli&Elliot's Mommy! 2 kids; Brooklyn, New York 2109 posts
6th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting flip off:</b>" SO's ex gf messaged him the other day. He told me about it. She was just saying hi. I asked him not to ... [snip!] ... the point. I don't think he would ever cheat on me but now how do I know he won't just text her and I just don't know about it?"</blockquote>




I would be so upset. That's wrong of him.

flip off 2 kids; Forks, Washington 1490 posts
6th May '13

Thank you. like I said we talked about it and it's done. He isn't talking to her anymore. He was trying to be nice to her. Hes just like that.

CJKB+JMB=AMB 1 child; Watertown, New York 2525 posts
6th May '13

well my dh had talked to two of his exs since weve been together. one i didnt care about even though they were together for awhile but I'm not jealous and i trust him. BUT one of his other exs who he dated for like three weeks likes to randomly message him and say she misses him and shit and they dated years and years ago. that shit bugs me, and i told him so, and.he stopped talking to her. it wasnt a big deal he dosent care about her anyway lol so i totally get where your coming from, your not controlling. but i would be annoyed if he had said he would stop talking to her then did anyways but it sounds like he was just being nice. so i would let it go

flip off 2 kids; Forks, Washington 1490 posts
6th May '13
Quoting Carissa Biron:" well my dh had talked to two of his exs since weve been together. one i didnt care about even though ... [snip!] ... if he had said he would stop talking to her then did anyways but it sounds like he was just being nice. so i would let it go"


Oh I did let it go. I didn't bring it up again. I was just wondering if I was wrong for even being upset. I do trust him 100%. This is the best and most grown up relationship I've ever been in. I love him so effin much. He is amazing with my boys and he's just amazing in general. We have the same type of personality so I know he was just trying to be nice and didn't really mean he will talk to her later..it's just something you say. I say that shit all the time to people I don't want to talk to again lol IDK why. But I was just upset that he lied to me.

BASS♛ 3 kids; Carlsbad, New Mexico 138 posts
7th May '13

I guess I'm a controlling b***h than. I trust Dh more than anything but I'm the jealous type and not afraid to admit that. So first of I don't really care if he wanted to hurt her feelings or not she's just an ex, not a bff that I made him stop talking to. An ex is part of the past for a reason. He shouldn't have a problem not talking to her. Sorry if that makes me controlling but I refuse to be the dumbass that trusts my husband to talk to every female amd get played with.. plus he's jealous to and doesn't like me talking to guys either. We have a great relationship, but just because we refuse to be that way doesn't make our relationship headed to shit. Also I'm a b***h, I don't care about most people's feelings other than my dh.