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Hannah Dilks 1 child; New Jersey 180 posts
6th May '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Okay. Whether he needs a passport or not is none of your business. Why should he go to jail? He ... [snip!] ... a Zero Tolerance Policy for Child Support, your issue would rank pretty low on the list. Calm down, you'll get your money...."

Thanks for your help.
yeah. can't wait for that money to come in.
you can call me Mr. Krabs.
i'm so glad there as assholes like you on here.

Hannah Dilks 1 child; New Jersey 180 posts
6th May '13
Quoting Chloe's mommy*:" It took about 2 months for me to get anything from my ex-husband after they started withholding it from ... [snip!] ... checks. And when he switched jobs there was another 2 months that there was nothing even though he was paying the whole time"


That's what i'm starting to think there is just some sort of hold up. thanks!

Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 46430 posts
status 6th May '13
Quoting Hannah Dilks:" Thanks for your help. yeah. can't wait for that money to come in. you can call me Mr. Krabs. i'm so glad there as assholes like you on here."


Just because I said things you didn't like doesn't mean me an asshole.



It is none of your business if he gets a passport or not, and there are far more pressing child support cases than your $800 that the State of NJ has to worry about.



I also don't get the "Mr. Krabs" reference, but if you want to call yourself that, go ahead.

BαtMαɳ Gotham, __, United States 69363 posts
status 6th May '13

OP, chill out. Honestly, you sound a little greedy and bitter right now, whether you mean to come off like that or not.



Yeah the help is great but you need to have a little patience and let the system work itself out.

Hannah Dilks 1 child; New Jersey 180 posts
6th May '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Just because I said things you didn't like doesn't mean me an asshole. It is none of your business ... [snip!] ... State of NJ has to worry about. I also don't get the "Mr. Krabs" reference, but if you want to call yourself that, go ahead."


I'm not looking to argue.
the passport thing is obviously a red flag.
and i never said that this was some urgent issue. it was a simple question.
and frankly, it plays a big role in my life at the moment. so just because it's not big deal to you doesn't mean that you have to try to undermine my situation.

C'sMom! 1 child; Minnesota 1263 posts
6th May '13
Quoting Hannah Dilks:" That's what i'm starting to think there is just some sort of hold up. thanks!"


I think it's just typically a processing time thing. Nothing to worry about. As long as it's being taken out

Hannah Dilks 1 child; New Jersey 180 posts
6th May '13
Quoting BαtMαɳ:" OP, chill out. Honestly, you sound a little greedy and bitter right now, whether you mean to come off ... [snip!] ... come off like that or not. Yeah the help is great but you need to have a little patience and let the system work itself out."


Sorry that i'm coming off like that? i thought it was just a question.
i've never had to deal with the child support system so i was seeing if this was something i should call about or not. that was all.

Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 46430 posts
status 6th May '13
Quoting Hannah Dilks:" I'm not looking to argue. the passport thing is obviously a red flag. and i never said that this ... [snip!] ... in my life at the moment. so just because it's not big deal to you doesn't mean that you have to try to undermine my situation."


Wait....how is the passport thing an obvious red flag? Is he not allowed to go on vacation?



It is recommended that you always have an updated passport.

BαtMαɳ Gotham, __, United States 69363 posts
status 6th May '13
Quoting Hannah Dilks:" I'm not looking to argue. the passport thing is obviously a red flag. and i never said that this ... [snip!] ... in my life at the moment. so just because it's not big deal to you doesn't mean that you have to try to undermine my situation."


And the thing you need to understand is what he does, is his business and your life would be a whole lot easier if you kept your nose out of it. We are speaking from experience, not to bash you but most of us single moms on this forum have been dealing with BD issues WAY longer than you have.

BαtMαɳ Gotham, __, United States 69363 posts
status 6th May '13
Quoting Hannah Dilks:" Sorry that i'm coming off like that? i thought it was just a question. i've never had to deal with ... [snip!] ... never had to deal with the child support system so i was seeing if this was something i should call about or not. that was all."


The only advice I can give you, is to have patience. The Child Support offices deal with thousands of cases every day, so they are slow to get things going. You are learning that first hand and as the years go by, that is never going to change.

♥MomToSilas+1♥ Due December 9; 1 child; ., IL, United States 11478 posts
6th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Hannah Dilks:</b>" Sorry that i'm coming off like that? i thought it was just a question. i've never had to deal with ... [snip!] ... never had to deal with the child support system so i was seeing if this was something i should call about or not. that was all."</blockquote>




How exactly is the passport a red flag? Maybe hes planning a vacation or work trip. Its none of your business. Also how did you find out he was denied a passport anyways?

C'sMom! 1 child; Minnesota 1263 posts
6th May '13
Quoting ♥MamaToSilas♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Hannah Dilks:</b>" Sorry that i'm coming off like that? i ... [snip!] ... hes planning a vacation or work trip. Its none of your business. Also how did you find out he was denied a passport anyways?"


In Minnesota, on the Minnesota Child Support website, after log in it lists the types of ways that enforcement can be done by them regarding losing a license, contempt of court, garnishments, etc. It has on there also whether or not there is a passport restriction due to arrears.
My ex husband has never been in arrears for anything regarding our daughter so this isn't something that I have ever had a problem with. This is on the Minnesota child support website.
I think possibly other states have this same type of thing? I am not sure though