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Im getting judged? Really? Lucky Mom of Soon-To-Be 6 6 kids; Pueblo, Colorado 895 posts
May 8th '13

I told my grandma that im pregnant just now. I just put on my fb so some of my friends can follow through it. well im getting bashed on there like no other. im not on welfare so I don't understand it. I get more support on here from complete strangers. I hate being told "good luck" like I hope you can handle it. I was looking for more of a "congrats" but o well. f**k em...excuse my language. people just piss me off when im just looking for support.



RANT OVER

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
May 8th '13

You are 23 years old and have 5 kids. I don't blame them for harping on you.

user banned 33 kids; Blytheville, Arkansas 7534 posts
May 8th '13

Having six children at 23 is something that isn't seen a lot. I'm sure they're just concerned for you. If it helps, congratulations!

user banned Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
May 8th '13

I don't think saying 'good luck' is bad...

Rebekah Garden x3 Due October 5 (boy); 33 kids; Fall River, Massachusetts 5223 posts
May 8th '13

Who cares what people think! You chose life just be happy with that! People aren't very supportive anymore! They suck!



Congrats and enjoy your new little one <3

penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 7119 posts
May 8th '13

I say good luck to everyone in pregnancy because some people have a rough one so I wish them luck. And others I wish them good luck to have an awesome pregnancy. I'm sorry people are b***hes to you. Congrats on your pregnancy and Good Luck :D

1inpink3inblue Due December 7 (boy); 3 kids; Switzerland 13162 posts
May 8th '13
Quoting Dovahkiin:" You are 23 years old and have 5 kids. I don't blame them for harping on you. "


So? Who's business is that but her's? :?

ILOVEWINE Due April 24; 2 kids; Sweden 10814 posts
May 8th '13

I think the average person just couldn't handle six kids that close together, ya know. Like I would like wow, good luck because there is no way in hell I could or would be able to raise/nurture/afford later in life 6 kids. So don't take offense, I think people just don't understand. If you can do it, then your right f**k um. I think if you have the heart to do it then its an awesome thing. So congrats!

Mummy-2-3-Monsters 3 kids; Seven Hills, Australia 15734 posts
May 8th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Dovahkiin:</b>" You are 23 years old and have 5 kids. I don't blame them for harping on you. "</blockquote>



:!:



Regardless your age ... 6 kids is a "good luck" situation. It's hard to read sarcasm or genuine honesty on the Internet. It could have been said with good intentions. I think you're over reacting.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
May 8th '13

I know you said that your husband has said some mean things to you and threatened to leave you before. Is it possible that they're just worried that you're going to be in deeper with him, and they're concerned?

I♥RYLEIGH Due March 3; 1 child; 5 angel babies; Windsor, Ontario 10504 posts
May 8th '13

My exs sister had 5 kids by 25 (3 singletons and a set of twins) and lost 3 out of 5 to CPS/CAS because it was just too much for her to handle. Not saying this is the case for you, but 6 kids at 23 seems crazy. I can barely handle one at 20 lol, you're definitely super mom, especially not being on assistance.

orchidlovingmama 2 kids; Santa Rosa, California 1771 posts
May 8th '13

Congrats on the pregnancy and who cares what those people say. I don't have fb, but if I did I sure wouldn't have friends on there that were anything like that

Lucky Mom of Soon-To-Be 6 6 kids; Pueblo, Colorado 895 posts
May 8th '13

it wasn't sarcasm cuz of the stuff she said before and after. and thank u everyone. im gona be 24. If im capable of raising 5, how could I not raise 6? I got my husband and in-laws that help me a lot when it comes to babysitting. I just thought I wouldn't get bashed that much on facebook u know? but b***hes will be b***hes. nobody supports me on there.



and me and my husband are good now. he said that a while back, I was just afraid of tellin him. but he took it well and we are fine. he seems to be excited for it now. they dnt know about how our relationship is.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
May 8th '13
Quoting I♥RYLEIGH:" My exs sister had 5 kids by 25 (3 singletons and a set of twins) and lost 3 out of 5 to CPS/CAS because ... [snip!] ... 6 kids at 23 seems crazy. I can barely handle one at 20 lol, you're definitely super mom, especially not being on assistance. "


Doubtful. Unless her baby daddy is a plastic surgeon or her family is helping out.

*06-06-2013* 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Omaha, Nebraska 912 posts
May 8th '13

I understand OP I'm having my 4th an I'm not even 23 yet who cares what ppl think if u can handle then do your thing