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Im getting judged? Really? Lucky Mom of Soon-To-Be 6 6 kids; Pueblo, Colorado 895 posts
8th May '13

I told my grandma that im pregnant just now. I just put on my fb so some of my friends can follow through it. well im getting bashed on there like no other. im not on welfare so I don't understand it. I get more support on here from complete strangers. I hate being told "good luck" like I hope you can handle it. I was looking for more of a "congrats" but o well. f**k em...excuse my language. people just piss me off when im just looking for support.



RANT OVER

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
8th May '13

You are 23 years old and have 5 kids. I don't blame them for harping on you.

user banned 33 kids; Blytheville, Arkansas 7534 posts
8th May '13

Having six children at 23 is something that isn't seen a lot. I'm sure they're just concerned for you. If it helps, congratulations!

Kimber-lily Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
8th May '13

I don't think saying 'good luck' is bad...

Rebekah Garden x3 Due October 5 (boy); 33 kids; Fall River, Massachusetts 5223 posts
8th May '13

Who cares what people think! You chose life just be happy with that! People aren't very supportive anymore! They suck!



Congrats and enjoy your new little one <3

penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 7116 posts
8th May '13

I say good luck to everyone in pregnancy because some people have a rough one so I wish them luck. And others I wish them good luck to have an awesome pregnancy. I'm sorry people are b***hes to you. Congrats on your pregnancy and Good Luck :D

1inpink2inblue Switzerland 11961 posts
8th May '13
Quoting Dovahkiin:" You are 23 years old and have 5 kids. I don't blame them for harping on you. "


So? Who's business is that but her's? :?

ILOVEWINE Due April 24; 2 kids; Sweden 10814 posts
8th May '13

I think the average person just couldn't handle six kids that close together, ya know. Like I would like wow, good luck because there is no way in hell I could or would be able to raise/nurture/afford later in life 6 kids. So don't take offense, I think people just don't understand. If you can do it, then your right f**k um. I think if you have the heart to do it then its an awesome thing. So congrats!

Mummy-2-2-Monsters Due July 11; 2 kids; Seven Hills, Australia 10656 posts
status 8th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Dovahkiin:</b>" You are 23 years old and have 5 kids. I don't blame them for harping on you. "</blockquote>



:!:



Regardless your age ... 6 kids is a "good luck" situation. It's hard to read sarcasm or genuine honesty on the Internet. It could have been said with good intentions. I think you're over reacting.

JΔ$ Georgia 78755 posts
8th May '13

Well you're 23 with almost 6 kids so what do you expect? I have the same reaction as them as I'm reading your OP.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
8th May '13

I know you said that your husband has said some mean things to you and threatened to leave you before. Is it possible that they're just worried that you're going to be in deeper with him, and they're concerned?

I♥RYLEIGH 49 kids; Windsor, Ontario 10437 posts
8th May '13

My exs sister had 5 kids by 25 (3 singletons and a set of twins) and lost 3 out of 5 to CPS/CAS because it was just too much for her to handle. Not saying this is the case for you, but 6 kids at 23 seems crazy. I can barely handle one at 20 lol, you're definitely super mom, especially not being on assistance.

orchidlovingmama 2 kids; Santa Rosa, California 1769 posts
8th May '13

Congrats on the pregnancy and who cares what those people say. I don't have fb, but if I did I sure wouldn't have friends on there that were anything like that

Lucky Mom of Soon-To-Be 6 6 kids; Pueblo, Colorado 895 posts
8th May '13

it wasn't sarcasm cuz of the stuff she said before and after. and thank u everyone. im gona be 24. If im capable of raising 5, how could I not raise 6? I got my husband and in-laws that help me a lot when it comes to babysitting. I just thought I wouldn't get bashed that much on facebook u know? but b***hes will be b***hes. nobody supports me on there.



and me and my husband are good now. he said that a while back, I was just afraid of tellin him. but he took it well and we are fine. he seems to be excited for it now. they dnt know about how our relationship is.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
8th May '13
Quoting I♥RYLEIGH:" My exs sister had 5 kids by 25 (3 singletons and a set of twins) and lost 3 out of 5 to CPS/CAS because ... [snip!] ... 6 kids at 23 seems crazy. I can barely handle one at 20 lol, you're definitely super mom, especially not being on assistance. "


Doubtful. Unless her baby daddy is a plastic surgeon or her family is helping out.