I told my grandma that im pregnant just now. I just put on my fb so some of my friends can follow through it. well im getting bashed on there like no other. im not on welfare so I don't understand it. I get more support on here from complete strangers. I hate being told "good luck" like I hope you can handle it. I was looking for more of a "congrats" but o well. fuck em...excuse my language. people just piss me off when im just looking for support.
You are 23 years old and have 5 kids. I don't blame them for harping on you.
Having six children at 23 is something that isn't seen a lot. I'm sure they're just concerned for you. If it helps, congratulations!
I don't think saying 'good luck' is bad...
Who cares what people think! You chose life just be happy with that! People aren't very supportive anymore! They suck!
Congrats and enjoy your new little one <3
I say good luck to everyone in pregnancy because some people have a rough one so I wish them luck. And others I wish them good luck to have an awesome pregnancy. I'm sorry people are bitches to you. Congrats on your pregnancy and Good Luck :D
Quoting Dovahkiin:" You are 23 years old and have 5 kids. I don't blame them for harping on you. "
So? Who's business is that but her's? :?
I think the average person just couldn't handle six kids that close together, ya know. Like I would like wow, good luck because there is no way in hell I could or would be able to raise/nurture/afford later in life 6 kids. So don't take offense, I think people just don't understand. If you can do it, then your right fuck um. I think if you have the heart to do it then its an awesome thing. So congrats!
<blockquote><b>Quoting Dovahkiin:</b>" You are 23 years old and have 5 kids. I don't blame them for harping on you. "</blockquote>
Regardless your age ... 6 kids is a "good luck" situation. It's hard to read sarcasm or genuine honesty on the Internet. It could have been said with good intentions. I think you're over reacting.
Well you're 23 with almost 6 kids so what do you expect? I have the same reaction as them as I'm reading your OP.
I know you said that your husband has said some mean things to you and threatened to leave you before. Is it possible that they're just worried that you're going to be in deeper with him, and they're concerned?
My exs sister had 5 kids by 25 (3 singletons and a set of twins) and lost 3 out of 5 to CPS/CAS because it was just too much for her to handle. Not saying this is the case for you, but 6 kids at 23 seems crazy. I can barely handle one at 20 lol, you're definitely super mom, especially not being on assistance.
Congrats on the pregnancy and who cares what those people say. I don't have fb, but if I did I sure wouldn't have friends on there that were anything like that
it wasn't sarcasm cuz of the stuff she said before and after. and thank u everyone. im gona be 24. If im capable of raising 5, how could I not raise 6? I got my husband and in-laws that help me a lot when it comes to babysitting. I just thought I wouldn't get bashed that much on facebook u know? but bitches will be bitches. nobody supports me on there.
and me and my husband are good now. he said that a while back, I was just afraid of tellin him. but he took it well and we are fine. he seems to be excited for it now. they dnt know about how our relationship is.
Quoting I♥RYLEIGH:" My exs sister had 5 kids by 25 (3 singletons and a set of twins) and lost 3 out of 5 to CPS/CAS because ... [snip!] ... 6 kids at 23 seems crazy. I can barely handle one at 20 lol, you're definitely super mom, especially not being on assistance. "
Doubtful. Unless her baby daddy is a plastic surgeon or her family is helping out.