i have 3 kids with my ex fiancee. we were together almost 10 years and have a 7,6 and 17 month old together. he split right before christmas.
we he was living with this 50 year old he was sleeping with for awhile (hes 26) which is neither here nor there but they broke up so now he moved into an apt like 3 mins away "to be closer to the kids" except he never friggin sees his kids.
he watches the youngest 3 days a week from 7 to 230 while i work. he sees our older 2 maybe one weekend a month.
i have had planned, for 9 weeks now, to go get a puppy next weekend. he knew this. he knew this for 9 flipping WEEKS. so i remind him today and he says he cant watch the kids cuz he has plans.
you should have plans to watch your kids like i asked you to 9 FUCKING WEEKS AGO.
so now, i have to take my kids, 8 hours in a car, to get a puppy.
i dont ask much from the guy i really dont. he pays me half what the state of ohio says he should, he eats my food, does his laundry here (all i asked him to do was get his own soap which he hasnt) complained about picking up after his son all day so i hired a cleaning lady to come on the days hes here so i dont come home to a mess, now he complains he has to leave for 3 hours while she cleans.
pleasssse tell me to grow some balls, file for REAL childsupport and custody.
he keeps pulling the "ill go for half custody" card when i bring it up. but really why? i never keep him from his kids, he never sees them, hed only do that to hurt me.
FML. id never have had kids with someone who i thought would treat me and them like this :/
File for custody, child support, and a fixed visitation schedule for him.
Grow some balls, file for child support and visitation. :)
Hopefully he'll get his shit together.
I would apply for custody and child support.
Do it!!!!! I swear if you didn't live so far away I'd say we have the same baby daddy lol. Take him for full child support, if he even bothers to go for visitation he likely won't follow through with all his time as mine doesn't.
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Oh lol :lol: that's funny. My BD is 24 though so not he same ass clown. But yeah, don't they fucking suck? Makes me want to go back and smack my 17 year old self for dating that loser!