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Well that does it ..... Grrrr Our Precious Little Girl Due December 8 (twins); 1 child; Saskatchewan 111 posts
9th May '13

Last night I got a call from my soon to be ex husband. He was drunk and thrilled he got his job back. I was in a lot of pain and told him my friend was coming over to help with our daughter and she would take me to emergency if I got worse. He called back didn't ask how I was talked to our little girl for a few minutes and said he had to go. I texted him telling him that we separated because I didn't want our children to be a part of his drunk life and that he should call before he starts drinking if he wants to talk to her. I told him the reason he got fired in the first place was for getting drunk and obviously he didn't learn from that. Needless to say he was a jerk about it and I lost it. He has left us completely screwed financially and I have decided I'm going to go for spousal support now too since all he does is drink his money away. I'm going to need extra money with all my appointments since I'm high risk and live over two hours away from all my specialists. So to hell with him!!! Thank you for listening to my beep session...

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
9th May '13

Sorry He's An Ass, But I Think Spousal SuppOrt Is Outdated And Should Be Done Away With. Why Should Someone Ever Have To Continue Supporting An Ex?

Our Precious Little Girl Due December 8 (twins); 1 child; Saskatchewan 111 posts
10th May '13

I think being a drunk ass is outdated. Now I'm stuck paying his bills and his debt trying to support us.

I Stab People 3 kids; Zambia 6604 posts
10th May '13

i think spousal support is a bit much too, didnt you leave him anyway?

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
11th May '13
Quoting Our Precious Little Girl:" I think being a drunk ass is outdated. Now I'm stuck paying his bills and his debt trying to support us."


how are you stuck paying his bills? if you divorce him.. you are not responsible for his bills.

besides... how long were you married? does he make significantly more than you? if not.. you're unlikely to get spousal support

Our Precious Little Girl Due December 8 (twins); 1 child; Saskatchewan 111 posts
11th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" how are you stuck paying his bills? if you divorce him.. you are not responsible for his bills. ... [snip!] ... besides... how long were you married? does he make significantly more than you? if not.. you're unlikely to get spousal support"</blockquote>




His moms funeral, truck repair and consolidated loans all in my name. He makes over 4000$ biweekly and hasn't paid anything in the last six months I make 900$ biweekly on average. Our monthly payments are over $3000 the lawyer I spoke with told me I could get spousal support and my ex already knows funny thing u girls are taking it worse than he did bahahaha

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 26990 posts
12th May '13
Quoting Our Precious Little Girl:" <blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" how are you stuck paying his bills? if ... [snip!] ... with told me I could get spousal support and my ex already knows funny thing u girls are taking it worse than he did bahahaha"


That's a stupid thing to say. It's also stupid to want someone to pay for your way when you are separated. It's like wanting more child support because you don't want to work as much... the two are bullshit.

Our Precious Little Girl Due December 8 (twins); 1 child; Saskatchewan 111 posts
12th May '13

You don't know me, you don't know my situation. I work hard thank you very much! I vented on here now I have everyone up my ass. I was pissed off! Don't worry when you vent I'm sure ill still say something positive and nice. I obviously was mistaken that this is a place where someone can let out their anger without being attacked from all angles.



Now why don't you all go have a happy Mother's Day and maybe we can all pretend to get along.

min. 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Lorain, Ohio 2462 posts
12th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Our Precious Little Girl:</b>" You don't know me, you don't know my situation. I work hard thank you very much! I vented on here now ... [snip!] ... being attacked from all angles. Now why don't you all go have a happy Mother's Day and maybe we can all pretend to get along."</blockquote>



I say good for you-get his ass! He obviously doesnt give a shit!

Our Precious Little Girl Due December 8 (twins); 1 child; Saskatchewan 111 posts
12th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting min.:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Our Precious Little Girl:</b>" You don't know me, you don't ... [snip!] ... maybe we can all pretend to get along."</blockquote> I say good for you-get his ass! He obviously doesnt give a shit!"</blockquote>




Why thank you! Happy Mother's Day

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
13th May '13

ymorelockquote><b>Quoting min.:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Our Precious Little Girl:</b>" You don't know me, you don't ... [snip!] ... maybe we can all pretend to get along."</blockquote> I say good for you-get his ass! He obviously doesnt give a shit!"</blockquote>




it's not his job to give a shit about her anymore. you could jUst get a court order for him to pay his bills

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 26990 posts
13th May '13
Quoting snglemama:" ymorelockquote><b>Quoting min.:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Our Precious Little ... [snip!] ... it's not his job to give a shit about her anymore. you could jUst get a court order for him to pay his bills"


This. They broke up... seriously, it's NOT his job. Supporting his KIDS is his job. Supporting HER? Dude, not his place. At all.

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
13th May '13
Quoting FroggysMommy:" This. They broke up... seriously, it's NOT his job. Supporting his KIDS is his job. Supporting HER? Dude, not his place. At all."


I read stuff like this... makes me wonder how the f**k women ever won the right to vote when they still pull the weaker sex bullshit when it's convenient.

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 26990 posts
14th May '13
Quoting snglemama:" I read stuff like this... makes me wonder how the f**k women ever won the right to vote when they still pull the weaker sex bullshit when it's convenient."


This. It's all "How DARE you say I can't be a position of power in this company, women can be leaders too! I can do just fine without someone holding my hand in this company, I am a strong woman!" But then it's all "Oh pay me spousal support, because I need to be supported even though we aren't together!"

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
15th May '13
Quoting FroggysMommy:" This. It's all "How DARE you say I can't be a position of power in this company, women can be leaders ... [snip!] ... a strong woman!" But then it's all "Oh pay me spousal support, because I need to be supported even though we aren't together!""



haha,,, it's been days and I'm STILL steamed! I can't believe courts still ALLOW spousal support. Someday it will be something we will all laugh about. f**king insanity.



again... I am NOT saying he should not pay child support... and certainly not saying he shouldn't pay for his own bills. but.. those are separate issues.