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Our Precious Little Girl Due December 8 (twins); 1 child; Saskatchewan 111 posts
15th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" haha,,, it's been days and I'm STILL steamed! I can't believe courts still ALLOW spousal support. ... [snip!] ... should not pay child support... and certainly not saying he shouldn't pay for his own bills. but.. those are separate issues."</blockquote>




Like I said before I was pissed at the time and venting I'm over it. People say things when they are mad but actions speak louder than words.

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 27897 posts
16th May '13
Quoting Our Precious Little Girl:" <blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" haha,,, it's been days and I'm STILL steamed! ... [snip!] ... I was pissed at the time and venting I'm over it. People say things when they are mad but actions speak louder than words."


I've been pissed, REAL pissed at my ex before.... I never thought "Hmmm he's a d**k so we should break up and he support my ass." Sorry, that's a copout.

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 27897 posts
16th May '13
Quoting snglemama:" haha,,, it's been days and I'm STILL steamed! I can't believe courts still ALLOW spousal support. ... [snip!] ... should not pay child support... and certainly not saying he shouldn't pay for his own bills. but.. those are separate issues."


Exactly.



I also am in the ballpark of a guy shouldn't have to pay for a child he doesnt want. He cant decide years after the kid is here "I dont want to do this, lets stop child support" but I DO believe that if a girl is pregnant he should be able to sign away his rights and financial obligation if he doesnt want to be there. A girl has 9 months to decide to keep the child or adopt it out, men don't have that choice. I firmly believe that 9 months from the point of being told he has a child (just so a girl cant "forget" to tell him during pregnancy) he can decide not to be in the childs life and that INCLUDES financial obligation. Its bs a girl can sign away her rights but a boy cant.

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
16th May '13
Quoting FroggysMommy:" Exactly. I also am in the ballpark of a guy shouldn't have to pay for a child he doesnt want. He cant ... [snip!] ... not to be in the childs life and that INCLUDES financial obligation. Its bs a girl can sign away her rights but a boy cant."


that's a hard one... because at that point she can't abort if she finds out she's doing it alone. it does suck that a woman has a choice though and the man doesnt