Reply
I'mOnFire 1 child; Kentucky 2133 posts
10th May '13
Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'mOnFire:</b>" This is a good way to put it. It's very true."</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... because there is a lack of discipline all around, a lack of parental involvement that makes her think she rules the roost."



I'm around her enough to know that she is disciplined in a fair way. Kids just don't listen. Simple as that. Don't sit here and tell me she has lack of parental involvement. Who the hell do you think you are? Each parent has a different view on punishment and each child takes a different way to be taught what they did was wrong.

user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
10th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Booger & Bubba's Mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... JOB he can't leave his room. Just like if I had work to do I couldn't leave until it was finished. See how the world works?"</blockquote>



I doubt that's what you do with your son. This is the advice you gave the OP, "She would be spending the day in her room alone. No extra toys no tv, only leaving it for food & bathroom. Everytime she asked to come out I would say no, this is consequences for your actions".



The day in her room, no toys, no TV- only leaving for to eat and use the restroom. Not allowed to leave.



A toddler. A three year old. Yes, that is f**king rediculous. That is not parenting. That's lazy, neglectful and straight mean.

Booger & Bubba's Mommy 18 kids; Illinois 8136 posts
10th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Booger & Bubba's Mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... in a room all day a natural consequence? There are age appropriate consequences and then not. I feel bad for your kid :("</blockquote>




Good. He needs someone to feel bad for him. He's so lonely in his room with 50+ hot wheels cars, alphie robot, tag & books, & a toy box full of misc toys.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
10th May '13
Quoting I'mOnFire:" THIS! My niece is going through this too. except she acts this way in public as well. She didn't have ... [snip!] ... that she has just turned four its skyrocketing haha. I think it may be normal though. All kids go through stages like these "

Stop referring to your niece as if you know what the hell you're talking about. You sound like a f**king retard. You have a ONE year old. Now please move aside and let the people who know what the hell they're talking about talk. All you're doing is stroking Mommy Dearest's fucked opinions.

Booger & Bubba's Mommy 18 kids; Illinois 8136 posts
10th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Live-Laugh-Love:</b>" Only allowing the child to come out of their room to eat and to go to the bathroom...for the ENTIRE ... [snip!] ... them in their room? Whatever you would like to call it...its still not an appropriate punishment for a 3-4 year old."</blockquote>




What if they don't ask to come out?

Live-Laugh-Love 3 kids; Kitchener, ON, Canada 7678 posts
10th May '13
Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Booger & Bubba's Mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... A toddler. A three year old. Yes, that is f**king rediculous. That is not parenting. That's lazy, neglectful and straight mean."


:!::!:

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
10th May '13
Quoting Booger & Bubba's Mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... bad for him. He's so lonely in his room with 50+ hot wheels cars, alphie robot, tag & books, & a toy box full of misc toys."

And you, Mommy Dearest, why don't you log your ass off the f**king computer and HELP your child pick up. Be there to supervise, you know make it fun. *gasp* but that means you're raising a self entitled spoiled brat.



You are a f**king tool.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
10th May '13
Quoting Booger & Bubba's Mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Live-Laugh-Love:</b>" Only allowing the child to come out of ... [snip!] ... it...its still not an appropriate punishment for a 3-4 year old."</blockquote> What if they don't ask to come out?"


I wouldn't want to come out and be around a "mother" like you either.

user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
10th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'mOnFire:</b>" I'm around her enough to know that she is disciplined in a fair way. Kids just don't listen. Simple ... [snip!] ... are? Each parent has a different view on punishment and each child takes a different way to be taught what they did was wrong. "</blockquote>



You have NO idea what your talking about. Getting defensive much. Yup, I thought so. Probably because you know what I said was the truth and it's a direct reflection on you.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
10th May '13
Quoting Booger & Bubba's Mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Minion:</b>" Is there such thing as terrible fours? Here lately ... [snip!] ... will flip & you would swear my brother took him over. My brother was a horribly destructive child. Now he's in prison."


Sounds like you need therapy. Stop comparing your kid to your brother. I knew you had issues.

user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
10th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" I wouldn't want to come out and be around a "mother" like you either."</blockquote>



Couldn't have said it better myself.

I'mOnFire 1 child; Kentucky 2133 posts
10th May '13
Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Booger & Bubba's Mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... A toddler. A three year old. Yes, that is f**king rediculous. That is not parenting. That's lazy, neglectful and straight mean."



And this is why your kids will one day hate you and disrespect you when they hit puberty. Because they think they have it easy. Trust me, it's ridiculous when a child is hit in the head with a coffee mug because he refused to speak... its ridiculous that a child gets his ass repeatedly busted for something he didn't do. There are a lot of ridiculous punishments that would be considered serious abuse but going to our room for something you did while showing no remorse whatsoever is NOT ABUSE.
Take it from someone who knows first hand. I was abused. And so was my husband as a child and what this women is suggesting is not f**king abuse and it sure in the hell isn't neglect.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
10th May '13
Quoting Minion:" I talked to her and asked her why she pulled up the flowers. She shrugged and didn't say anything. I ... [snip!] ... She's still sniffling on the couch. So by her reaction, do you think she understood or is jut upset she got a talking to? :?"

She got emotional because you told her she did wrong. Crying could mean IDK that she feels bad for being a dick.



Not all kids are evil individuals. -directed towards Mommy Dearest and her pet.

Live-Laugh-Love 3 kids; Kitchener, ON, Canada 7678 posts
10th May '13
Quoting Booger & Bubba's Mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Live-Laugh-Love:</b>" Only allowing the child to come out of ... [snip!] ... it...its still not an appropriate punishment for a 3-4 year old."</blockquote> What if they don't ask to come out?"


I highly doubt they wouldnt ask to come out. Do you think that a young child is going to remember why they are even in their room after say.. 30 minutes?

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
10th May '13
Quoting I'mOnFire:" And this is why your kids will one day hate you and disrespect you when they hit puberty. Because ... [snip!] ... And so was my husband as a child and what this women is suggesting is not f**king abuse and it sure in the hell isn't neglect."

Yup. You have issues as well.
Go make that appointment, mmkay?