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user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
10th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Minion:</b>" DD just came up to me all quiet and said she was sorry for pulling the flowers and she didn't mean to ... [snip!] ... her a hug and told her thank you for apologizing and sent her on her way. DS is still pissed at her, but I can't blame him."</blockquote>



Honest remorse. Exactly what the aim was, right? Learning about others feelings and thinking about someone else.



See- that's good parenting right there.

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 20148 posts
status 10th May '13
Quoting I'mOnFire:" Well because you people are trolls and need to judge other mothers for their parenting i'm out of this ... [snip!] ... he brother went to prison does not mean she need therapy. Jesus. Snooty b***hes I swear. They think they know everything. "


Just because you raised siblings, doesn't mean you know what it's like. I practically raised my little brothers, and it's completely different with my own children.



Oh, and I love how we are trolls just cause we don't agree with keeping a 3-4 year old in their room all f**king day :roll:

Booger & Bubba's Mommy 18 kids; Illinois 8136 posts
10th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" because you know where I am and where my kids are right now, lmao! And funny how you change your story. ... [snip!] ... you'll be all alone one day. But hey! you ordered, they listened until of course they could get far the f**k away from you."</blockquote>




All day until he cleans his room. If I go to help him & he won't clean then ill just come back & try to help again later. It's a natural consequence. He want out of his room it needs to be cleaned up & he can ask for help. Instead he is playing. I'm laughing sitting here listening to him play with baby tiger.



If he disrespected his brother by deliberately destroying something of his it would be all day.

I'mOnFire 1 child; Kentucky 2133 posts
10th May '13
Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'mOnFire:</b>" Well because you people are trolls and need ... [snip!] ... and we have to break the cycle. It sounds like you still need help moving forward and a counselor might be beneficial also."


Are you kidding me?! I have broke the cycle. I get VERY offensive when it comes to people telling me I need to educate myself on my parenting skills because I DO NOT NEED HELP. I am a damn great mother. I have done everything for my son. This child loves me so much he can't stand to be away from me for five minutes. I can not believe you have the nerve to sit here and tell me that I more or less havent broke the cycle just because I think if my son did something of this sort and I sent him to his room at that age to think about what he did that I do not know how to discipline, that i abuse and neglect my son. You know what, i'm done here. This is pathetic. You have no idea how many damn ways i have broken the cycle of my childhood for my son. I'd give him the goddamn moon if i could but if he is going to disrespect me or anyone else he will be punished in the correct manner. You women get on here and think you know every detail about everyones life and you think you have the right to sit here and tell me what I need help with?! I'm the best mother I can be and i've done it with no help but from my husband. I don't need counseling because those people do not know what the hell they are talking about either. Trust me i've been slug around from idiot to idiot as well and none of them ever help. I healed myself and I took matter into my own hands to be an outstanding mother to my son.
You people make me sick. I think I may just stop getting on this site. It's full of women who just want to put each other down and judge one another for their parenting skills.

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 20148 posts
status 10th May '13
Quoting Just Ames:" Your bar is way too high. But telling you that will do nothing. You need help, and I am dead serious about that."


:!:

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
10th May '13
Quoting Booger & Bubba's Mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" because you know where I am and where my kids ... [snip!] ... him play with baby tiger. If he disrespected his brother by deliberately destroying something of his it would be all day."


Seriously, all day? At that age do you think that the punishment fits the crime? All day for breaking a toy or whatever is too much at a young age. It's too much for even my 9 year old.

Ladee+Grant+Lilly 2 kids; Tallahassee, FL, United States 20315 posts
10th May '13
Quoting Minion:" DD just came up to me all quiet and said she was sorry for pulling the flowers and she didn't mean to ... [snip!] ... her a hug and told her thank you for apologizing and sent her on her way. DS is still pissed at her, but I can't blame him."


I'm late, I was trying to read the thread and get my own kids down for their naps lol. But it sounds like you did good, and I'd probably still get some seedlings that she can help him replant. Maybe he won't be as mad if she helps him replace what she tore up?

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
10th May '13
Quoting I'mOnFire:" Are you kidding me?! I have broke the cycle. I get VERY offensive when it comes to people telling ... [snip!] ... on this site. It's full of women who just want to put each other down and judge one another for their parenting skills. "


But if you are willing to leave your son in his room all day for something fairly minor, then you haven't really broken the cycle, have you? And you don't get OFFENSIVE, you get DEFENSIVE...big difference...calling us trolls and b***hes and whatnot is offensive.

saageex3 1 child; New York 5777 posts
10th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" So as an abused child you'd seriously sit there and say you'd gladly keep your 3 year old in his room ... [snip!] ... this picture? If you truly want to break the cycle how about try some gentle discipline. Yes, there is such a thing :roll: "</blockquote>




Why don't you just lay off her? She has her beliefs as do you. Not everyone agrees, that's life. You feel like she's wrong, she doesn't. There's no point in going in circles when someone is set in what they believe

Minion Due September 30 (girl); 2 kids; ., GA, United States 21249 posts
status 10th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ladee+Grant+Lilly:</b>" I'm late, I was trying to read the thread and get my own kids down for their naps lol. But it sounds ... [snip!] ... still get some seedlings that she can help him replant. Maybe he won't be as mad if she helps him replace what she tore up?"</blockquote>




That's a good idea!

I'mOnFire 1 child; Kentucky 2133 posts
10th May '13
Quoting Just Ames:" So as an abused child you'd seriously sit there and say you'd gladly keep your 3 year old in his room ... [snip!] ... this picture? If you truly want to break the cycle how about try some gentle discipline. Yes, there is such a thing :roll: "


Just for your information if you would have read MY post correctly I said put her in her room until she has learned her lesson and apologizes to her brother. Learn to read.



But yes, you people are right. I'm a terrible mom and I have no idea what i'm doing. I'm going to go hang myself now and do my son a favor so he won't have to be around me. I suggest booger & bubba's mommy should do the same since she is such a terrible mom as well. Goodbye! :lol:

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 20148 posts
status 10th May '13
Quoting I'mOnFire:" Just for your information if you would have read MY post correctly I said put her in her room until ... [snip!] ... be around me. I suggest booger & bubba's mommy should do the same since she is such a terrible mom as well. Goodbye! :lol:"


:roll: Dramatic much??

I'mOnFire 1 child; Kentucky 2133 posts
10th May '13
Quoting Juggernog-aholic:" :roll: Dramatic much??"


Oh yes, you have to be in babygaga world. Just look at you all.

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 20148 posts
status 10th May '13
Quoting I'mOnFire:" Oh yes, you have to be in babygaga world. Just look at you all. "


Umm... okay? I've been here for almost 2 years and have never been this dramatic about stuff.



Guess I should have gone and hung myself long before now, huh?

I'mOnFire 1 child; Kentucky 2133 posts
10th May '13
Quoting Just Ames:" I........ I thought you were leaving :? Clearly you're the one who loves the drama."


Well, maybe I do. I'm just going to sit here and be immature and get on your nerves because clearly i'm not the only one who soaks this shit up. If you were so much bigger than me you wouldn't be commenting back now would you? :twisted: