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user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
10th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'mOnFire:</b>" And this is why your kids will one day hate you and disrespect you when they hit puberty. Because ... [snip!] ... And so was my husband as a child and what this women is suggesting is not f**king abuse and it sure in the hell isn't neglect."</blockquote>



It might be a step up from the way you had it, but it doesn't mean it's not abuse and neglect. I'm sorry you had to be raised that way.

Booger & Bubba's Mommy 18 kids; Illinois 8136 posts
10th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" And you, Mommy Dearest, why don't you log your ass off the f**king computer and HELP your child pick ... [snip!] ... to supervise, you know make it fun. *gasp* but that means you're raising a self entitled spoiled brat. You are a f**king tool."</blockquote>




He's playing. I told him to clean it up. There's like 15 things on his floor to clean up. He would rather play alone. When he asks to come out I will help him clean it up make lunch & then its "school time".



If he wanted out he would walk out of his OPEN BEDROOM DOOR. Why don't you log off the computer & go play with your kids. Since that's what I should do with mine.

user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
10th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Booger & Bubba's Mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" And you, Mommy Dearest, why don't you log your ... [snip!] ... his OPEN BEDROOM DOOR. Why don't you log off the computer & go play with your kids. Since that's what I should do with mine."</blockquote>




Oh wait, so your kid is told to do something, but the words are not enforced LMFAO. parenting fail- miss I know what's best hahahaha

I'mOnFire 1 child; Kentucky 2133 posts
10th May '13

Well because you people are trolls and need to judge other mothers for their parenting i'm out of this thread. I do not agree with what you are saying boobook. And I never will. I already know how to raise my child and I am fully prepared for when my son hits three thank you very much. I do not what i'm talking about because I had to raise my little brother. You people do not know me. And you sure in the hell do not have a place to say if I know what i'm talking about or not. And just because he brother went to prison does not mean she need therapy.



Jesus. Snooty b***hes I swear. They think they know everything.

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
10th May '13
Quoting Minion:" I talked to her and asked her why she pulled up the flowers. She shrugged and didn't say anything. I ... [snip!] ... She's still sniffling on the couch. So by her reaction, do you think she understood or is jut upset she got a talking to? :?"


I think it's probably some of both. She was upset that she got the talking to, but I think you did a good job by explaining that she hurt your feelings and her brother's feelings. You made it personal, and it wasn't too harsh.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
10th May '13
Quoting Booger & Bubba's Mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" And you, Mommy Dearest, why don't you log your ... [snip!] ... his OPEN BEDROOM DOOR. Why don't you log off the computer & go play with your kids. Since that's what I should do with mine."

because you know where I am and where my kids are right now, lmao!



And funny how you change your story. Because just a while ago he wasn't coming out ALL DAY until he did what you TOLD him to do. Newsflash Mommy Dearest, you give respect to get it. Acting like a drill sergeant isn't going to make your kids what you want them to be. In fact, I imagine you'll be all alone one day. But hey! you ordered, they listened until of course they could get far the f**k away from you.

Booger & Bubba's Mommy 18 kids; Illinois 8136 posts
10th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Live-Laugh-Love:</b>" I highly doubt they wouldnt ask to come out. Do you think that a young child is going to remember why they are even in their room after say.. 30 minutes?"</blockquote>




No he's not. So why won't he come out then? Do you think it's because he's afraid? He doesn't want to be around the mom who spent wensday at the zoo with him, & yesterday at the park with him? Or because he is playing with his toys happily in his room?

user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
10th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'mOnFire:</b>" Well because you people are trolls and need to judge other mothers for their parenting i'm out of this ... [snip!] ... he brother went to prison does not mean she need therapy. Jesus. Snooty b***hes I swear. They think they know everything. "</blockquote>



I would highly recommend you take parenting classes to help you be a better mother. I'm not saying you are a bad mom- I'm saying that you can learn tools and educate yourself and childhood development, seeing as how you missed out on positive and caring parenting. And unfortunately, I was raised pretty similar- and we have to break the cycle. It sounds like you still need help moving forward and a counselor might be beneficial also.

Minion Due September 30; 2 kids; Toccoa, GA, United States 19989 posts
10th May '13

DD just came up to me all quiet and said she was sorry for pulling the flowers and she didn't mean to make us sad. And that if DS planted more she wouldn't touch them.



So I gave her a hug and told her thank you for apologizing and sent her on her way.



DS is still pissed at her, but I can't blame him.

user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
10th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Minion:</b>" DD just came up to me all quiet and said she was sorry for pulling the flowers and she didn't mean to ... [snip!] ... her a hug and told her thank you for apologizing and sent her on her way. DS is still pissed at her, but I can't blame him."</blockquote>



Honest remorse. Exactly what the aim was, right? Learning about others feelings and thinking about someone else.



See- that's good parenting right there.

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 19809 posts
10th May '13
Quoting I'mOnFire:" Well because you people are trolls and need to judge other mothers for their parenting i'm out of this ... [snip!] ... he brother went to prison does not mean she need therapy. Jesus. Snooty b***hes I swear. They think they know everything. "


Just because you raised siblings, doesn't mean you know what it's like. I practically raised my little brothers, and it's completely different with my own children.



Oh, and I love how we are trolls just cause we don't agree with keeping a 3-4 year old in their room all f**king day :roll:

Booger & Bubba's Mommy 18 kids; Illinois 8136 posts
10th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" because you know where I am and where my kids are right now, lmao! And funny how you change your story. ... [snip!] ... you'll be all alone one day. But hey! you ordered, they listened until of course they could get far the f**k away from you."</blockquote>




All day until he cleans his room. If I go to help him & he won't clean then ill just come back & try to help again later. It's a natural consequence. He want out of his room it needs to be cleaned up & he can ask for help. Instead he is playing. I'm laughing sitting here listening to him play with baby tiger.



If he disrespected his brother by deliberately destroying something of his it would be all day.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
10th May '13
Quoting I'mOnFire:" Well because you people are trolls and need to judge other mothers for their parenting i'm out of this ... [snip!] ... he brother went to prison does not mean she need therapy. Jesus. Snooty b***hes I swear. They think they know everything. "

Funny cause it seems you are the epitome of a know it all :wink:



Bye now!

I'mOnFire 1 child; Kentucky 2133 posts
10th May '13
Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'mOnFire:</b>" Well because you people are trolls and need ... [snip!] ... and we have to break the cycle. It sounds like you still need help moving forward and a counselor might be beneficial also."


Are you kidding me?! I have broke the cycle. I get VERY offensive when it comes to people telling me I need to educate myself on my parenting skills because I DO NOT NEED HELP. I am a damn great mother. I have done everything for my son. This child loves me so much he can't stand to be away from me for five minutes. I can not believe you have the nerve to sit here and tell me that I more or less havent broke the cycle just because I think if my son did something of this sort and I sent him to his room at that age to think about what he did that I do not know how to discipline, that i abuse and neglect my son. You know what, i'm done here. This is pathetic. You have no idea how many damn ways i have broken the cycle of my childhood for my son. I'd give him the goddamn moon if i could but if he is going to disrespect me or anyone else he will be punished in the correct manner. You women get on here and think you know every detail about everyones life and you think you have the right to sit here and tell me what I need help with?! I'm the best mother I can be and i've done it with no help but from my husband. I don't need counseling because those people do not know what the hell they are talking about either. Trust me i've been slug around from idiot to idiot as well and none of them ever help. I healed myself and I took matter into my own hands to be an outstanding mother to my son.
You people make me sick. I think I may just stop getting on this site. It's full of women who just want to put each other down and judge one another for their parenting skills.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
10th May '13
Quoting Booger & Bubba's Mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Live-Laugh-Love:</b>" I highly doubt they wouldnt ask to come ... [snip!] ... wensday at the zoo with him, & yesterday at the park with him? Or because he is playing with his toys happily in his room?"

Are you seriously under the presumption that taking your kid places will trump how you are raising him? I mean, really :?