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Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
10th May '13
Quoting Booger & Bubba's Mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" because you know where I am and where my kids ... [snip!] ... him play with baby tiger. If he disrespected his brother by deliberately destroying something of his it would be all day."

Your bar is way too high.
But telling you that will do nothing. You need help, and I am dead serious about that.

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 19809 posts
10th May '13
Quoting Just Ames:" Your bar is way too high. But telling you that will do nothing. You need help, and I am dead serious about that."


:!:

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
10th May '13
Quoting Booger & Bubba's Mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" because you know where I am and where my kids ... [snip!] ... him play with baby tiger. If he disrespected his brother by deliberately destroying something of his it would be all day."


Seriously, all day? At that age do you think that the punishment fits the crime? All day for breaking a toy or whatever is too much at a young age. It's too much for even my 9 year old.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
10th May '13
Quoting I'mOnFire:" Are you kidding me?! I have broke the cycle. I get VERY offensive when it comes to people telling ... [snip!] ... on this site. It's full of women who just want to put each other down and judge one another for their parenting skills. "

So as an abused child you'd seriously sit there and say you'd gladly keep your 3 year old in his room ALL DAY for doing something that he shouldn't have done?
You do not see what's wrong with this picture? If you truly want to break the cycle how about try some gentle discipline. Yes, there is such a thing :roll:

Ladee+Grant+Lilly 2 kids; Tallahassee, FL, United States 19722 posts
10th May '13
Quoting Minion:" DD just came up to me all quiet and said she was sorry for pulling the flowers and she didn't mean to ... [snip!] ... her a hug and told her thank you for apologizing and sent her on her way. DS is still pissed at her, but I can't blame him."


I'm late, I was trying to read the thread and get my own kids down for their naps lol. But it sounds like you did good, and I'd probably still get some seedlings that she can help him replant. Maybe he won't be as mad if she helps him replace what she tore up?

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
10th May '13
Quoting I'mOnFire:" Are you kidding me?! I have broke the cycle. I get VERY offensive when it comes to people telling ... [snip!] ... on this site. It's full of women who just want to put each other down and judge one another for their parenting skills. "


But if you are willing to leave your son in his room all day for something fairly minor, then you haven't really broken the cycle, have you? And you don't get OFFENSIVE, you get DEFENSIVE...big difference...calling us trolls and b***hes and whatnot is offensive.

saageex3 1 child; New York 5767 posts
10th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" So as an abused child you'd seriously sit there and say you'd gladly keep your 3 year old in his room ... [snip!] ... this picture? If you truly want to break the cycle how about try some gentle discipline. Yes, there is such a thing :roll: "</blockquote>




Why don't you just lay off her? She has her beliefs as do you. Not everyone agrees, that's life. You feel like she's wrong, she doesn't. There's no point in going in circles when someone is set in what they believe

Minion Due September 30; 2 kids; Toccoa, GA, United States 19992 posts
10th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ladee+Grant+Lilly:</b>" I'm late, I was trying to read the thread and get my own kids down for their naps lol. But it sounds ... [snip!] ... still get some seedlings that she can help him replant. Maybe he won't be as mad if she helps him replace what she tore up?"</blockquote>




That's a good idea!

I'mOnFire 1 child; Kentucky 2133 posts
10th May '13
Quoting Just Ames:" So as an abused child you'd seriously sit there and say you'd gladly keep your 3 year old in his room ... [snip!] ... this picture? If you truly want to break the cycle how about try some gentle discipline. Yes, there is such a thing :roll: "


Just for your information if you would have read MY post correctly I said put her in her room until she has learned her lesson and apologizes to her brother. Learn to read.



But yes, you people are right. I'm a terrible mom and I have no idea what i'm doing. I'm going to go hang myself now and do my son a favor so he won't have to be around me. I suggest booger & bubba's mommy should do the same since she is such a terrible mom as well. Goodbye! :lol:

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 19809 posts
10th May '13
Quoting I'mOnFire:" Just for your information if you would have read MY post correctly I said put her in her room until ... [snip!] ... be around me. I suggest booger & bubba's mommy should do the same since she is such a terrible mom as well. Goodbye! :lol:"


:roll: Dramatic much??

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
10th May '13
Quoting saageex3:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" So as an abused child you'd seriously sit there ... [snip!] ... life. You feel like she's wrong, she doesn't. There's no point in going in circles when someone is set in what they believe"


I don't give two shits on respecting how she feels. Surely that has been clear. The things that are being suggested are disgusting and yes, could be very detrimental to a child's mental health. I can never sit idle while someone pretty much agrees with something like this. If you don't like it, don't look.

I'mOnFire 1 child; Kentucky 2133 posts
10th May '13
Quoting Juggernog-aholic:" :roll: Dramatic much??"


Oh yes, you have to be in babygaga world. Just look at you all.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
10th May '13
Quoting I'mOnFire:" Just for your information if you would have read MY post correctly I said put her in her room until ... [snip!] ... be around me. I suggest booger & bubba's mommy should do the same since she is such a terrible mom as well. Goodbye! :lol:"

I feel sorry for me who do you feel sorry for.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
10th May '13
Quoting I'mOnFire:" Oh yes, you have to be in babygaga world. Just look at you all. "


I........



I thought you were leaving :? Clearly you're the one who loves the drama.

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 19809 posts
10th May '13
Quoting I'mOnFire:" Oh yes, you have to be in babygaga world. Just look at you all. "


Umm... okay? I've been here for almost 2 years and have never been this dramatic about stuff.



Guess I should have gone and hung myself long before now, huh?