Cast Your Vote:

    • Yes, we're friends -- Votes: 10
    • No, we hate each other. -- Votes: 15
Onalee's Mummy Due August 26 (boy); 1 child; Newcastle, Australia 5355 posts
11th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lumen.Ash:</b>" I would LOVE to have that kind of relationship. "</blockquote>

I cried a few weeks ago when I realised we had that relationship.

I sacrificed a lot. I do all the running around for dd usually, no child support etc. but we are good so if I need him to get our daughter something I just ask.

I hope one day you can work it out and you can have a relationship like that too.

Onalee's Mummy Due August 26 (boy); 1 child; Newcastle, Australia 5355 posts
11th May '13

Did u have a bad split?

Meli ❤ 1 child; Don't worry about it, CA, United States 31068 posts
11th May '13

My bd and I get along too well lol. Seriously, when we hang out together with dd we are always laughing and have a good time. We don't argue or anything like that....I feel pretty lucky tbh....I know some people go through hell with their bd.

Soon 2 be mom of 3 Due November 6; 2 kids; Massachusetts 412 posts
11th May '13

No it would be nice if we could be civil but we fight over everything. I hate the way he treats the kids and always have. His girlfriend is actually quite likeable but the things my kids tell me make me not like her very much.

momster jenny 1 child; Arkansas 6718 posts
11th May '13

We are friendly to each other, we have the same friends, we go to the same events. He recently gave me a $1200 banjo. But we arent buddy buddy. Been split for two years and we totally hooked up last weekend. We didnt get all weird about it, just went back to doing our own things:/

☆º×ß¡±©µ×º☆ 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Grand Forks, ND, United States 47377 posts
status 11th May '13

Yes we are friends better as friends then a xouple it took alot of time though. When him and his wife need help I help then and they do the same for me .last year when my car broke down they came and picked myself and my mom up with kids of course and let us stay the night it was fun no hate and anger just a dun night of bullshitting because we had ro wait for my dad to drive 10 hour to get us and my busted ass car lol

Smash Fins ; 2 kids; Denver, Colorado 1356 posts
12th May '13
Quoting Onalee's Mummy:" Did u have a bad split?"

Yeah I got fed up with the abuse and I called the police and put a temporary restraining order in place. I dropped all charges and this was 4 years go. But he still is pissed I called after years of being beat by him.

C'sMom! 1 child; Minnesota 1263 posts
12th May '13

It took awhile. But, we really work together well with our daughter.