Lately SO has been talking about moving in together, I personally dont want to move in together until we've been dating at least 9 months( it'll be 9 months next month.)
When did you and you're SO move in together what was the outcome?
We moved in together after dating for like 3 weeks :lol: that was a little over two years ago and we're still happy and together. We have an 8 month old now too :).
I started staying over all the time after a month and moved in officially after 2... here we are 8 1/2 years later - pregnant with our third baby...
SO moved in with me like 3 weeks into our relationship. We have been together 4 1/2 years now and have two children.
We were dating 35 days when he moved in. The outcome has been great. I got pregnant right away so I honestly think it was the right choice. We've been together now for over two years.
We started living together almost instantly. We have been together every single day since. LOL That will be six years in July.
Did you have children before moving in together? I think thats why I am so hesitant, I have a 3 yr old daughter.
After we got married after 7 months of being together. Lol. I moved 14 hours away from home after he found us a place where he was stationed. We are going on 4 years of marriage, and very happy, expecting our second LO.
We moved in together after like 2 years lol we've been together for 6 years on may 29th.
We moved in together after 2 months with some roommates. We now have our own place together and have been together almost 4 years now with 2 kids(3 if you count our "angel baby") and married this past February. So I'd say it worked out well so far :)
Quoting taylllorrr:" Did you have children before moving in together? I think thats why I am so hesitant, I have a 3 yr old daughter."
No we had our first son about a year later.
Well my first thought was... why does there need to be a time frame for when he can move in? Why 9 months? What makes that amount of time significant.
It could take less time or much much more time to decide whether or not you are comfortable moving in with a person. You have to feel like your relationship will last and that you plan to be with this person long-term. You can't set a certain amount of time to figure that out.
He moved in with my family when I was 19, he was 22. Then I got pregnant with DS and we moved into his dad's since they had the extra space. That was 2 years ago. Now we live on our own. Our DS is 3. And we will have been together for 8 years on July 6th. No ring yet! :wink: lol
<blockquote><b>Quoting taylllorrr:</b>" Did you have children before moving in together? I think thats why I am so hesitant, I have a 3 yr old daughter."</blockquote>
I have 7 year old son, he was 5 when we moved in together. I just knew he was right for me.