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Moving in. taylllorrr Due October 9 (girl); 1 child; Olivehurst, California 1133 posts
status 11th May '13

Lately SO has been talking about moving in together, I personally dont want to move in together until we've been dating at least 9 months( it'll be 9 months next month.)
When did you and you're SO move in together what was the outcome?

Jenny&Boopy TTC since Jul 2014; 2 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 7326 posts
status 11th May '13

We moved in together after dating for like 3 weeks :lol: that was a little over two years ago and we're still happy and together. We have an 8 month old now too :).

babe_666_ Due October 10 (boy); 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Adelaide, Australia 21424 posts
11th May '13

I started staying over all the time after a month and moved in officially after 2... here we are 8 1/2 years later - pregnant with our third baby...

Samibee 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Florida 5703 posts
11th May '13

SO moved in with me like 3 weeks into our relationship. We have been together 4 1/2 years now and have two children.

Mouse & Chicklet Due March 29; 2 kids; 5 angel babies; Barrie, Ontario 584 posts
11th May '13

We were dating 35 days when he moved in. The outcome has been great. I got pregnant right away so I honestly think it was the right choice. We've been together now for over two years.

user banned (boy); 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
11th May '13

We started living together almost instantly. We have been together every single day since. LOL That will be six years in July.

taylllorrr Due October 9 (girl); 1 child; Olivehurst, California 1133 posts
status 11th May '13

Did you have children before moving in together? I think thats why I am so hesitant, I have a 3 yr old daughter.

Always♥Faithful 2 kids; CHERRY POINT, North Carolina 21664 posts
11th May '13

After we got married after 7 months of being together. Lol. I moved 14 hours away from home after he found us a place where he was stationed. We are going on 4 years of marriage, and very happy, expecting our second LO.

Live-Laugh-Love 3 kids; Kitchener, ON, Canada 8002 posts
11th May '13

We moved in together after like 2 years lol we've been together for 6 years on may 29th.

Vitameatavegamin 19 kids; League City, Texas 5829 posts
11th May '13

We moved in together after 2 months with some roommates. We now have our own place together and have been together almost 4 years now with 2 kids(3 if you count our "angel baby") and married this past February. So I'd say it worked out well so far :)

Live-Laugh-Love 3 kids; Kitchener, ON, Canada 8002 posts
11th May '13
Quoting taylllorrr:" Did you have children before moving in together? I think thats why I am so hesitant, I have a 3 yr old daughter."


No we had our first son about a year later.

MunchkinWrangler 4 kids; Rīga, Latvia 46840 posts
11th May '13

Well my first thought was... why does there need to be a time frame for when he can move in? Why 9 months? What makes that amount of time significant.
It could take less time or much much more time to decide whether or not you are comfortable moving in with a person. You have to feel like your relationship will last and that you plan to be with this person long-term. You can't set a certain amount of time to figure that out.

b.r.i.t.t.a.n.y. 1 child; Washington 433 posts
11th May '13

He moved in with my family when I was 19, he was 22. Then I got pregnant with DS and we moved into his dad's since they had the extra space. That was 2 years ago. Now we live on our own. Our DS is 3. And we will have been together for 8 years on July 6th. No ring yet! :wink: lol

Jenny&Boopy TTC since Jul 2014; 2 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 7326 posts
status 11th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting taylllorrr:</b>" Did you have children before moving in together? I think thats why I am so hesitant, I have a 3 yr old daughter."</blockquote>




I have 7 year old son, he was 5 when we moved in together. I just knew he was right for me.

lise ♡ 1 child; 1 angel baby; Cold, Ol, Canada 64857 posts
11th May '13

We met in June, moved in together in December! :)